Andra Porter

Do not
shrink yourself
in order
to make others
feel comfortable.

The broken foot last year wasn’t even from skiing! Lol

Vitamin Ski

Honestly, the little details make all the difference.

I like to live dangerously

I had a professional meeting the other day. The CEO & I sat down at the table, & he immediately looked me in the eyes & said, “So, I hear you’re kind, not nice.” I responded, “Not only do I feel incredibly seen right now, but that’s one hell of a compliment.” (I got the offer.)

U avail?

Nope, I'm in the middle of No Kings training and Nonviolent Resistance training.

I’ll lose followers for this but IDC. Stop sleeping with men who support any part of this. They don’t deserve access to you.

Bluebird days

We’ll make our mundane a masterpiece

Vegas, you’re delicious

I usually don’t broadcast when I do charitable things, but I’m breaking with convention to tell you that I donated to the TJ Sabula GoFundMe, and I’d buy that man a beer in a heartbeat.

When your young niece wakes you up early to play fish on the kitchen floor, is there really any other answer?

I hope your winter solstice was as wonderful as mine! Here’s to:
- Intention
- Ceremony
- Elements
- Community
- Love

Somebody on OF said they found me here. I didn’t realize people were really, actually using this place. Hi.

I appreciate the desire to find solutions, but people thinking they can just “develop a new app” to get around the very real structural realities is just naive. Legislation and payment processors don’t magically become non-issues.

It took literally 1 click (“Access Hidden”) from the homepage, without any signup or age verification, to porn being blasted on the screen. There is zero chance of this surviving, in light of adult content legislation, unless it changes. Even sex-positive folks don’t want minors to have open access.

It took literally 1 click (“Access Hidden”) from the homepage, without any signup or age verification, to porn being blasted on the screen. There is zero chance of this surviving, in light of adult content legislation, unless it changes. Even sex-positive folks don’t want minors to have open access.

The fact that my “Top Song” on my Spotify Wrapped is one I listened to only 14 times in 2025 tells you how “consistent” I am with music. As with most things, I’ll take eclectic variety, thank you very much.

I put red and green light bulbs in my driveway sconces because I’m being festive. I almost stopped after the first one because I thought it would be more honest.

I wish I could get myself excited about this, but I’m coming over like Eeyore.

The BBL afterwards! Lol

This is so exhausting. Ugh.

Why am I so reluctant/reticent to come over here? The other app is dying, and unless something dramatic changes, it feels unsalvageable. But there are 13+ years of Andra over there, and the idea of starting over is exhausting. I don’t want another account to maintain. Am I the only one feeling this?

Me: “I don’t have ADHD.”

Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]

Walk this way

My therapist looked at me w/ compassion & said, “At a certain point, if we’re vulnerable with the wrong people, we’re just teaching them how to hurt us,” & now I can’t shake it & kind of want to throw things. Do you ever have those moments? What zingers have hit YOU sideways?

We all need more days like this

I know nothing about that

Good morning, sunshine!