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They/them. Trans Erotic Romance.

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While being told every step of the way that Texas should be abandoned and it was their own fault, by people who should damn well know better.

01.02.2026 19:42 πŸ‘ 737 πŸ” 134 πŸ’¬ 9 πŸ“Œ 0

Don't mind me. I just have 3 books going
Short about nonbinary cam sub who is infatuated with their roommates...they find out

MM Omegaverse Mafia

Trans sugar baby trilogy

Because this is very sane...

02.02.2026 14:18 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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29.01.2026 01:58 πŸ‘ 38 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

4 days without power...
I've read so much smut...

29.01.2026 14:27 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

and this is without considering fish and animal bodies

17.12.2025 13:02 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have overthought this
because I have been in lakes and rivers I know have multiple bodies in them (my man used to work search and rescue for the area and has stories)
and so now I'm wondering what the body to water ratio is for those locations...i fear its larger than I want to hear

17.12.2025 13:02 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Gang, this is a Hanukkah buffet, and it’s not even particularly lavish for a crowd that size. The White House has hosted them for decades.

I wouldn’t piss on Trump if he was on fire, but y’all can find so many better things to get pissed about.

17.12.2025 02:48 πŸ‘ 401 πŸ” 24 πŸ’¬ 20 πŸ“Œ 1

Going into 2026 like …

16.12.2025 22:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Let me be clear: Publishing as a whole does not pay authors their worth and for a lot of us the only steady money we get is through Patreon money. Now, add on being an indie author.

16.12.2025 16:30 πŸ‘ 17 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Patreon is sort of like a membership to a
gym you don't use but don't cancel and
that benefits the author but not the reader
if you don't get much and sometimes
nothing in that month
Reply

49m

Wait you black list any author who also
has a patreon? Even if the extras are just
that, extras and not actual books.

I'm not judging I'm just curious.
Reply

1 . 22m
Yup .. and you are right
they are extras not books but I'm still
supposed to pay at a minimum $5/
month per author for an extra? I am
not going to spend $X a month on the
off chance an author is going to write
a short about a couple or a series I
am invested in ... you want to write a
short and you want me to pay for it,
publish it and I will buy it ... but I'm not
going to hang on month afte ... See
more

2 Patreon is sort of like a membership to a gym you don't use but don't cancel and that benefits the author but not the reader if you don't get much and sometimes nothing in that month Reply 49m Wait you black list any author who also has a patreon? Even if the extras are just that, extras and not actual books. I'm not judging I'm just curious. Reply 1 . 22m Yup .. and you are right they are extras not books but I'm still supposed to pay at a minimum $5/ month per author for an extra? I am not going to spend $X a month on the off chance an author is going to write a short about a couple or a series I am invested in ... you want to write a short and you want me to pay for it, publish it and I will buy it ... but I'm not going to hang on month afte ... See more

In shit that pisses me off this morning (and thanks to
@jemzero for this) is readers shitting on authors that have a Patreon account. Transcript: shrib.com#Nickolas66v8...

16.12.2025 16:30 πŸ‘ 28 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

nothing like word vomiting world building to a friend who probably was not prepared when she asked where my vampires come from...

16.12.2025 17:19 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Americans, Be Warned: Lessons From Reddit’s Chaotic UK Age Verification Rollout Now that the Online Safety Act has gone into effect, countless problems have begun to reveal themselves, and the absurd, disastrous outcome illustrates why we must work to avoid this age-verified futu...

Faced with steep penalties, platforms have erred on the side of over-censoring. So a law intended to restrict many teenagers' access to explicit sexual content also effectively denies them information about sex education, LGBTQ+ topics, and even international conflicts.

www.eff.org/deeplinks/20...

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Stop KOSA KOSA is a censorship bill that won’t make kids safe. Instead, it'll put all internet users at risk, especially youth. If you believe in a free and open internet, tell your lawmakers to reject #KOSA!

In fact, an earlier version of KOSA was voted down, but has since been reintroduced.

www.stopkosa.com

#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Bad Internet Bills All of the bad internet bills. One website.

Here in the US, Congress is considering KOSA, the SCREEN Act, the TAKE IT DOWN Act, the EARN IT Act, the STOP CSAM Act, and a repeal of Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act.

www.badinternetbills.com

#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 22 πŸ” 23 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
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Stop payment processors from censoring games!

But in the past several months, payment processors and digital store platforms have started severely restricting the kinds of sexual and adult/18+ content allowed in their terms of service. And of course all LQBTQ+ content is at risk of getting swept up in these bans.

stop-paypros.neocities.org

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Australia even took the extraordinary step of banning anyone under 16 from using any social media at all. This will probably be about as effective as the OSA, since many young people will find ways around the verification methods. And in the meantime, it puts everyone's personal information at risk.

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

This is the reason I can't withdraw any of my revenue from Patreon. PayPal does not allow transactions for sexual content in the form of digital products, or outside the US.

#internetfreedom #censorship #savespeech

16.12.2025 15:52 πŸ‘ 41 πŸ” 30 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 1

just now learning that #SmutCember is a thing and I feel both happy it exists and like I'm missing out with only just hearing about it

16.12.2025 14:51 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I found out yesterday that there’s a holiday romance novel about fucking the Ghost of Christmas Past. I think we’re doing okay on the idea front.

(No, I don’t know the title offhand.)

16.12.2025 14:14 πŸ‘ 595 πŸ” 62 πŸ’¬ 49 πŸ“Œ 6
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US House Subcommittee Advances 18 Child Online Safety Bills | TechPolicy.Press Some members expressed "fury" at the tech industry for not doing more to protect children and teens.

Hey romancelandia and fandom peeps! If you live in the U.S. right now you should know that KOSA (along with a slew of censorship bills) are advancing through congress right now. If you care about spicy books and/or fanfiction you should contact your reps right now and tell them to vote NO on KOSA!

15.12.2025 15:57 πŸ‘ 1266 πŸ” 1509 πŸ’¬ 8 πŸ“Œ 34

just goes to show how boring people who rely on a machine to do the thinking for them are.

16.12.2025 02:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

just word vomited over 1k in vampire lore in preparation for a new series rather than work on any of my WIPs...

16.12.2025 00:46 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Getting settled back in after a road trip always feels chaotic

15.12.2025 15:54 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's AI. Zoom in on the sign and it's a dead giveaway

14.12.2025 22:56 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

He can't because it's AI

14.12.2025 22:56 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Happy Birthday gorgeous!

13.12.2025 02:27 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The way people tell me not to bother speaking out against gen AI because β€˜it’s too late’ like I’m sorry tell that to NFTs and other such nonsense.

Interest speaks, fam …

13.12.2025 00:53 πŸ‘ 226 πŸ” 45 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 1
A Very Merry Mistake by Lyra Parish hardback and Dark Lover by J. R. Ward paperback sitting on folded clothes in a suitcase

A Very Merry Mistake by Lyra Parish hardback and Dark Lover by J. R. Ward paperback sitting on folded clothes in a suitcase

Packing priorities

12.12.2025 16:06 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Publishers are looking for writers with the sales record of Stephen King, the social media presence of a Kardashian, and the gratitude of someone being rescued from a burning building.

Publishers are looking for writers with the sales record of Stephen King, the social media presence of a Kardashian, and the gratitude of someone being rescued from a burning building.

lmaooooo where's the lie 😭

11.12.2025 19:02 πŸ‘ 198 πŸ” 57 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0
screenshot: James Blatch from Substack sharing an article titled: The AI Witch Hunt Has to End...

screenshot: James Blatch from Substack sharing an article titled: The AI Witch Hunt Has to End...

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
no

when people point out its a plagiarism machine he said that should be settled in courts...
How about we don't need the courts to tell us that plagiarism and slop is bad. It just is bad. Thats it. Thats not a witch hunt. Its facts.

11.12.2025 22:45 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0