a screenshot of the music video Planet of the Bass, it has a man in a white outfit and angel wings, a woman in a robe and a crown, the caption reads "Women are my favorite guy"
happy international women's day to all my international women
I don't identify 100% as a woman but it's still at least part of the sum total of my identity. It's not wrong to refer to me as one. It's just not the entirety of who I am.
Anyways trans and cis women and girls everywhere deserve safety and equality, TERFS can get wrecked, fight for it, happy IWD.
It's International Women's Day. Last night I got to do a drag show as THE woman who gets blamed for literally everything:
"Get out."
A heart-shaped button featuring a vintage illustration of a woman holding a bunch of flowers in front of an American flag and the text FUCK ICE.
Shout out to the Gen-X roadie looking dude dressed all in black buying an American flag at the Goodwill today who saw me with my cart full of every fake flower in the building and wordlessly handed me this button.
Standing in line at the grocery store? Waiting for the bus? Why not take a moment to look at your phone and
✨ Witness The Horrors ✨
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"Watch to the end for.." - "first of all NO and secondly I will now also not watch the beginning."
Literally terrifying. They will just flat-out make up reasons to criminalize whatever kinds of art they see as obscene and whichever kinds of people they see as undesirable. Knowing with reasonable certainty that actual dangers will go undetected and unprosecuted because of it makes me sick.
Makes sense! Now I know it's fans/memes, rather than stadium employeespeak. (But I also love that employees picked it up and are using it.)
Unless this is a term commonly used for hockey arenas I was previously unaware of. But omG so cute. 😍
Wait did this have any influence on anything here.
I'm so tired of the stupidest, greediest, most cowardly and mendacious sacks of shit being put in charge of things. Nothing has to be like this.
It's Carly Rae Jepsen with fabulous platinum blonde hair wearing the green sequin dress from her video for "The Loneliest Time" and matching gogo boots. Iconic.
Not an exact replica, but 100% what my own version of this would look like.
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It's a mirror selfie of me wearing a floorlength dark green sequin dress with a high leg slit and fully gloved sleeve on the left, and a shoulder/arm cutout on the right. It's pretty great.
Made a dress inspired by Scorpio space disco queen Carly Rae Jepsen.
6 burlesque people, one with a snake, and another wearing a horse mask under red stage lights. We are all wearing different colours of KN-95 masks
Rad show tonight with super groovy people in an atmosphere of community care. Put on a mask and join the fun every last Friday of he month at Experimental Phase at the Cobalt.
Extra benefit: got to hang out with @fayehavoc.bsky.social and Helios the gorgeous snake co-star!
I have to admit at some point that I will, in fact, never have my shit together. It's just not gonna happen, is it.
Debuting my first new act in ~3 years, and performing solo for the first time in almost a year, so of course I'm panicking and unprepared and running late and feeling absolutely loopy on only 2 hours of sleep.
2+ minutes of this guy saying absolutely nothing.
It's 6am let's see how fast I can bleach my roots before I have to wake the fuck back up at 10am.
Me: I'm going to be so productive tonight.
Also me: Whoops, was productive on the wrong thing!
Late to the party here but yeah.
When you think you're maybe gonna finish a thing today but then it becomes inevitable that you need to put an invisible zipper in the thing.
One day I hope to strike the right balance and find a healthy pace, but I'm afraid that day's not going to come anytime soon.
Every time I do something selfish (take a little 3-day trip to visit my friend on Galiano, edit some photos,) I pay for it by having to condense all the work I have to do into an even shorter window of time, which just leaves me even more stressed and rushed. Love that for me.
Is this situation a direct result of my inability to manage my time and projects properly, and of my desperation to break even financially? Yes. Is working while tired slowing me down and causing more delays and mistakes than I'd be dealing with if I were better-rested? Also yes.
More all-nighters than I can count. Several micro-naps a day. Downtime only when I'm eating and literally can't sew. Have spent every date with my partner this year passed-out/asleep. Making time for friends and events, but my introvert heart needs to be alone and not-working, sometimes. I'm dying!
YES.
Nearly 7 weeks into 2026 and I AM SO TIRED OF WORKING MY ASS OFF ALL THE TIME. I love my clients - they literally sustain me - but holy Christ if I could just experience a couple days WITHOUT a deadline screaming towards me like a runaway freight train that would be GREAT.
