Alma Frances Pellett 🏳️‍🌈⚢ 🏳️‍⚧️✝️♓️🚯🤷‍♀️

I really need to get my autistic child to understand that my dilators are not skylanders or amiibos 🤦‍♀️

I’ve forgotten what it’s like to get over a cold. 🤦‍♀️

I’ve had this lingering something for four days, and it’s starting to get worse. I need it gone!

There’s debauchery to be done. 🤤

I shifted to Kraft dinner with ketchup recently (hearing it was a Canadian thing from Barenaked Ladies). Actually quite good 🤷‍♀️

So today I got my first real taste of ai for software development. It certainly does make everything faster, from development to testing to documentation.

I’m absolutely checking its work as I go, since I know google ai is wrong half the time.

But it makes me wonder how long I’ll be needed 😓

Make an Amazon wish list ☺️

*insecure bear girl*

I should not be this “fluffy” after getting so much sleep

Introduce yourself with 5 cars you've owned

1966 Plymouth Belvedere
1981 Dodge Ram 50
1999 Honda Civic
2004 Toyota Sienna
2006 Scion xA

And who knows, maybe I’ll have something develop into a deeper relationship. You never know what’s going to happen in life.

Fin/11

I think I’ve really managed to hit my hoe phase (h/t @poetickate.bsky.social)

And yes, I’m being careful and safe. I’m still getting tested every quarter, just to be sure. I’m making clear about boundaries of relationships and what I’m willing to do (though I’m willing to try if it’s new)
10/

And just like that, the world opened up (so to speak 😬)
So lately I’ve started a relationship with a young woman which seems to be only for play, went dancing and made out with a woman, and have had some very promising chats with a couple others. Tonight I even offered to a friend I’d known a bit
9/

But something changed when I started physical therapy. All of sudden there became the possibility that the new parts I’d had installed could be something more than . . . functional. 😅
8/

And then last years depression made everything horrific, so I didn’t really go out or see anyone.

Even after the depression, things didn’t really pick up. Yes, I was going out and reconnecting with friends, but not to any kind of relationship.
7/

So anyway, back to the original thread, from which I digressed twice 🤦‍♀️

Since my surgery (almost two years ago) my sex drive has been pretty much nonexistent. Mainly because of the trauma of the surgery (no regrets!) but also because I fell back into feeling I shouldn’t abuse (🙄) this gift.
6/

Causing it.

😏

5/

The reason I enjoy these parties so much?

My second favourite thing in the world is seeing women experience pleasure.

This always leads to the question of what the first favourite thing could be.
4/

Side note; swingers parties aren’t the best for lesbians. They tend to be pretty heteronormative. Couples swapping and such. So ive done my best to enjoy dancing and the atmosphere.

But I digress
3/

Last night, at a house party of swingers, I was reminded why I go to them, even though I’ve never done much in the way of connecting with anyone.
2/

I think I’ve finally achieved my slut phase.

I mean, I’ve been trying for much of the time since I started my transition, but I’ve never had the confidence in myself to let go of expectations and just be myself. I would attend swingers and sex positive events, but never hit it off with anyone
1/11

Good evening out dancing tonight. Also got to make out with a lovely young woman. ☺️

Does that ever go away? Too often I worry something is going to get back to my ex that’ll be used to show I’m a terrible parent. 🤦‍♀️😭

What was your almost name?

Danica

I really couldn’t decide on a name, and my mother, when asked, just talked about how much they had prayed over the name they gave me (😮‍💨), so I just exchanged my first and middle names, with slight alterations.

I also have a half brother Danny and cousin Danielle🤷‍♀️

5 authors I've read at least 5 books by:

Terry Pratchett
Agatha Christie
L Frank Baum
Jessica Day George
Shannon Hale

(I could easily go on)

I’m so broken up about this. Ardis was such an amazing woman, my bridge to the Mormon History space when I first started working for the Church History Department. I’m not ashamed to say that I fangirled hard when I met her, showing her off to my coworkers. 😭😭

The GenX urge to dance if we want to

Wow, I’m 2 for 2 😰

So -that- is my problem! 🤦‍♀️

see this, do it

☆ pronouns: she/her
☆ height: 5'11”
☆ zodiac: Pisces
☆ smoke: 420 if someone offers (sometimes)
☆ tattoos: 5
☆ piercings: 2 (just ears)
☆ fav color: blue and green
☆ fav drink: water 🤷‍♀️

I feel like his “practical grounds” are just a cover. It’s not the courts job to get into the how of things.
“It’s too hard” can’t be an argument against returning money illegally taken (i.e. stolen)

And yes, it’s possible I’m just venting to the ether because I’m a lonely old woman who goes out a lot but hasn’t developed close friends with whom she can talk about this stuff.
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Tough.