High-achieving women don't burn out from doing too much. They burn out from performing too long in a register that was never quite their own. And the cost follows them home.
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High-achieving women don't burn out from doing too much. They burn out from performing too long in a register that was never quite their own. And the cost follows them home.
I wrote about it
So I'm thinking. The attack on Iran is illegal in that Congress never approved it. Does that mean that the many many people involved in executing it will be liable? Thinking NΓΌrenberg trial and how obeying illegal orders IS illegal?
Right - so oil prices will rise as a consequences of the attack on Iran. That means the His Orange Greatness will benefit even more from the oil he's stealing in Venezuela. It's all business, baby...
And let's not forget that the US is doing their best to influence elections in Europe.....
Would anyone have compiled a complete list of crimes comitted during the second presidency? And a complete list of crimes until then?
What they don't tell you about stress. It's a serious change to your system. Here's what happened to me: mettehl.substack.com/p/long-term-...
I'm curious about how it would go for a service provider if Karoline Leavitt was in charge of customer service.
Two things make this ridiculous: US hospital ships are in docks in Alabame. And there's free healthcare in Greenland. Oh and an American crew member on US submarine was just evacuated to go to hospital in Greenland. Good thing he didn't have to wait for one of those ships to arrive....
And what with the demand to deliver a FIVE year social media history - with LinkedIn only going a year back - nope not going. I went to Canada, though. Lovely place.
I would think King Charles has norms, values, integrity. Just a thought.
Think mobster methods. What has forced her?
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So yes - you can be loud as an introvert. For different reasons. One is masking. And it all comes at a cost.
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How come nobody calls it out for what it is: The undermining of democracy?
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About THAT video!
By posting it, you're helping spread the hate.
The thing is: We all know how vile the orange soandso is. We all know.
And you're playing right into his game when you spread this video.
For crying out loud, please take it down!
Please take it down. It's not helpful and very rude.
Would you please stop spreading it and take it down. Thank you.
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We knew they really like to hit, shoot and be abusive to people - mainly brown people but others will do just fine, too - now they also start international incidents. CONSULATE'S ARE NOT US TERRITORY!!!!!
What is the lowest level of school acceptable for DHS?
Hitler was awful. But he didn't have any convictions for sexual assaults....
Ventesorg - ja, det er jo nok kun noget for andre...
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It's my understanding that because of NATO, all the European NATO members and Canada will go together and fight the US over Greenland. It's not a choice. It's the oath. If one member is attacked, we're all attacked. So forget about just France - you have ALL the NATO members fighting America.
So we sat down in the plane. A crew of mature women and a younger man. He welcomes us all. And then he said: Along with the girls, I....
Girls? Really? 2026?
Lige i ΓΈjeblikket er der bred enighed om, at hende, der blev skudt af ICE forleden, ja hun var en indenlandsk terrorist. USA er ved at blive delt. Dem, der Γ¦der lΓΈgnene rΓ₯t og de andre. De fΓΈrste er omkring halvdelen.
Din antagelse her er, at dem, der støtter Trump, læser og lærer noget som helst om Grønland fra andre kilder end Trump og Fox. Den almindelige amerikanske borger er fløjtende ligeglad med, hvad der sker uden for USA. Sad fact.
It's never been about security and protection of anything. It's about minerals. The US has fall access to establish more bases etc, but so far they've removed I believe about 90% of staff at their airport base in northern Greenland. It's get rich scheme. Nothing else.
Just wondering....