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Mette Hvied Lauesen

@mettehl

Writing about little things, small things, leadership things, grief things. I don't interact with anonymous profiles. Be transparent. I am. And single men don't need to send me "How are you" messages, thanks. Happily married with no plans to change it.

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High-achieving women don't burn out from doing too much. They burn out from performing too long in a register that was never quite their own. And the cost follows them home.

I wrote about it

10.03.2026 09:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So I'm thinking. The attack on Iran is illegal in that Congress never approved it. Does that mean that the many many people involved in executing it will be liable? Thinking NΓΌrenberg trial and how obeying illegal orders IS illegal?

08.03.2026 13:37 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Right - so oil prices will rise as a consequences of the attack on Iran. That means the His Orange Greatness will benefit even more from the oil he's stealing in Venezuela. It's all business, baby...

01.03.2026 11:02 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

And let's not forget that the US is doing their best to influence elections in Europe.....

28.02.2026 14:17 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Would anyone have compiled a complete list of crimes comitted during the second presidency? And a complete list of crimes until then?

28.02.2026 13:37 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Long-term effects of stress - what they don't tell you Stress does not always disappear without consequences. Discover the hidden long-term physical and cognitive effects of chronic stress and how it impacts you.

What they don't tell you about stress. It's a serious change to your system. Here's what happened to me: mettehl.substack.com/p/long-term-...

26.02.2026 19:58 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm curious about how it would go for a service provider if Karoline Leavitt was in charge of customer service.

24.02.2026 14:38 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Two things make this ridiculous: US hospital ships are in docks in Alabame. And there's free healthcare in Greenland. Oh and an American crew member on US submarine was just evacuated to go to hospital in Greenland. Good thing he didn't have to wait for one of those ships to arrive....

22.02.2026 17:14 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

And what with the demand to deliver a FIVE year social media history - with LinkedIn only going a year back - nope not going. I went to Canada, though. Lovely place.

22.02.2026 17:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I would think King Charles has norms, values, integrity. Just a thought.

21.02.2026 10:02 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Think mobster methods. What has forced her?

20.02.2026 09:07 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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New leader? Don’t forget to take care of yourself!

In my latest article, I share 5 reasons why leaders burn outβ€”and how you can avoid the same traps.

If you’re new to leadership or feeling the pressure, this is for you.

mettehl.substack.com/p/5-reasons-...

17.02.2026 09:08 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Why high-functioning professionals often recognise mental health strain too late How sustained responsibility and cognitive load delay recognition

I'm not saying you're the frog in the boiling pot of water, but...

mettehl.substack.com/p/why-high-f...

13.02.2026 09:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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"You don't look introverted!" The hidden work of adapting to an extroverted world

So yes - you can be loud as an introvert. For different reasons. One is masking. And it all comes at a cost.

Read more: mettehl.substack.com/p/you-dont-l...

12.02.2026 12:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

How come nobody calls it out for what it is: The undermining of democracy?

12.02.2026 07:52 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The ten rules of IKIGAI as a blueprint for sustainable success A practical framework for building a career and a life that can actually hold under pressure

Do you want a sustainable life? Read about the ten rules of the IKIGAI. They can serve as a blueprint for a career and a life that can carry pressure without collapsing, especially during stress, grief, or transition. Think structure, repetition, quiet habits.

open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...

08.02.2026 12:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

About THAT video!
By posting it, you're helping spread the hate.

The thing is: We all know how vile the orange soandso is. We all know.

And you're playing right into his game when you spread this video.

For crying out loud, please take it down!

07.02.2026 09:50 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Please take it down. It's not helpful and very rude.

07.02.2026 09:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Would you please stop spreading it and take it down. Thank you.

06.02.2026 22:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Grief and time – and why we cannot just wait for it to pass Not about moving on β€” but about moving forward, with grief as your companion.

I’ve guided people through grief for many years and I’ve seen too many people wait for time to fix their grief β€” and they end up living in gray for years.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

Read what I’ve observed: open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...

05.02.2026 09:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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When you're environment is what tires you Why visual environments can exhaust the mind even on β€œquiet” workdays

Are you too tired at the end of the day? Do you feel drained often? Here's what might be behind it and what you can do: open.substack.com/pub/mettehl/...

31.01.2026 09:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

We knew they really like to hit, shoot and be abusive to people - mainly brown people but others will do just fine, too - now they also start international incidents. CONSULATE'S ARE NOT US TERRITORY!!!!!
What is the lowest level of school acceptable for DHS?

28.01.2026 12:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Hitler was awful. But he didn't have any convictions for sexual assaults....

26.01.2026 16:23 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Webinar - ventesorg - nΓ₯r livet er sat pΓ₯ pause Webinar om ventesorg med viden og konkrete tiltag

Ventesorg - ja, det er jo nok kun noget for andre...
Hvis det nu ER noget for dig, sΓ₯ holder jeg webinar om det onsdag aften.

Læs mere her: www.mettehl.dk/webinar_vent...

12.01.2026 12:23 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's my understanding that because of NATO, all the European NATO members and Canada will go together and fight the US over Greenland. It's not a choice. It's the oath. If one member is attacked, we're all attacked. So forget about just France - you have ALL the NATO members fighting America.

11.01.2026 06:33 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So we sat down in the plane. A crew of mature women and a younger man. He welcomes us all. And then he said: Along with the girls, I....

Girls? Really? 2026?

11.01.2026 06:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Lige i ΓΈjeblikket er der bred enighed om, at hende, der blev skudt af ICE forleden, ja hun var en indenlandsk terrorist. USA er ved at blive delt. Dem, der Γ¦der lΓΈgnene rΓ₯t og de andre. De fΓΈrste er omkring halvdelen.

10.01.2026 15:04 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Din antagelse her er, at dem, der støtter Trump, læser og lærer noget som helst om Grønland fra andre kilder end Trump og Fox. Den almindelige amerikanske borger er fløjtende ligeglad med, hvad der sker uden for USA. Sad fact.

10.01.2026 13:46 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's never been about security and protection of anything. It's about minerals. The US has fall access to establish more bases etc, but so far they've removed I believe about 90% of staff at their airport base in northern Greenland. It's get rich scheme. Nothing else.

10.01.2026 13:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Just wondering....

04.01.2026 10:48 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0