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melissa boles

@melloftheball

she/her. storyteller. impatient optimist. pop culture enthusiast. trauma expert. fat queer w/ adhd. trying to find joy every day. melissaboles.com

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there is nothing i wish i had more than a credit card right now. i’m so hungry

20.02.2026 05:22 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Emily St. John Mandel Does It Again β€” Melissa Boles From its opening line, Exit Party by Emily St. John Mandel is intriguing, setting up a world that looks so different from our own but is also tinged with shades of things we are currently dealing wi...

blogging again about books and (eventually) tv and film, here’s the first installment!! melissaboles.com/blog/emily-s...

15.02.2026 04:58 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

yes that payment was overdue but I sort of needed that money for GROCERIES fuck

12.02.2026 15:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

losing my job in november (for having adhd!!) destroyed all the financial gain I’d been making and now i can’t even get a simple personal loan. just $1000 would change everything but noooo

04.02.2026 23:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

it is very nice to be going to work at a job again and also my new job has a lower hourly rate than my last job so I am already somehow $500 short of my bills and I just got paid. anyone need any editing, proofreading, writing, or citation work done?

31.01.2026 04:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i have been BITCHING about #AnimalControl not returning yet and it turns out season four has already aired three episodes?! i’m a big dummy lmao

22.01.2026 07:42 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i would cut off my hand for a warm chocolate chip cookie

21.01.2026 05:22 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

it is insanely difficult to find a good hot apple cider in this city. we are in WASHINGTON. there are apples EVERYWHERE

13.01.2026 10:41 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i’m supposed to make a $400 payment in two days and i don’t have it. i am looking for work - if you need social media support, editing, proofreading, audio or video editing, data entry, or anything similar, i am available!

08.01.2026 04:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

thought I was going to finally get some good sleep and then got a 2 am email that i was denied unemployment benefits for last week because i missed an appointment and it was the final hit. the last six weeks have been excruciating and exhausting and i feel positively broken

06.01.2026 11:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

my eyes are so tired and I am like half functional but I am writing??? so we are powering through

03.01.2026 21:11 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

We are a rogue state, run by a dictator, and the international community should treat us as such including all appropriate economic and diplomatic sanctions

03.01.2026 15:36 πŸ‘ 11560 πŸ” 2929 πŸ’¬ 272 πŸ“Œ 120

did i sleep at all last night? i truly have no idea

03.01.2026 17:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

holding my life together with silly putty and super glue and it is dicey i gotta say

03.01.2026 16:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

the way i would die for a $1000 personal loan right now

02.01.2026 01:33 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Graphic with a blue background and large white text reading β€œDEAR AMERICAN FRIENDS.” Below is a screenshot of a post explaining that Canada does not have CBS, that a β€œ60 Minutes” episode aired normally in Canada, and stating that Canadian networks are not subject to U.S. government interference. The post ends with β€œWe’re not under a dictatorship. You are.”

Graphic with a blue background and large white text reading β€œDEAR AMERICAN FRIENDS.” Below is a screenshot of a post explaining that Canada does not have CBS, that a β€œ60 Minutes” episode aired normally in Canada, and stating that Canadian networks are not subject to U.S. government interference. The post ends with β€œWe’re not under a dictatorship. You are.”

This message hits hard.

27.12.2025 20:38 πŸ‘ 45478 πŸ” 14330 πŸ’¬ 821 πŸ“Œ 494
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my sister got me this book [β€œThe Riddles of the Sphinx: Inheriting the Feminist History of the Crossword Puzzle” by Anna Shechtman] and a book of Sunday NYT crossword puzzles for Christmas and I’m STOKED!!!!

26.12.2025 00:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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merry christmas ya filthy animals

25.12.2025 23:19 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

if somebody could just magic $500 into my account that would really save my ass 😩😩

23.12.2025 00:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i’m working a part-time gig and receiving unemployment for hours not worked and i make too much for food stamps? this country is a joke country

22.12.2025 06:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i have not slept well or eaten well in a month and yesterday i felt the cold so deep in my bones that today by body said β€œno, sorry, absolutely not”

21.12.2025 15:39 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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i do not know what to do when someone hits on me. it’s something that didnt really happen in high school because of my body type and now when it happens i feel like a bumbling idiot.

18.12.2025 20:27 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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you guys my sister is fucking incredible. she is amazing at her job. she bakes. she has her life together. she is so much of the reason i have survived this last year and i can’t buy her a Christmas present. i can’t afford food so presents are out of the question and i’m SO MAD.

17.12.2025 18:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i’m working a seasonal gig at a Christmas market and my biggest fear was running into one of my coworkers from the job i’m on unpaid leave from. it just happened and it was 100% fine. as usual, my brain overthought the hell out of it.

14.12.2025 22:21 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

truly an amazing experience to apply for a job, get a response, and then immediately discover it is a scam. incredible.

14.12.2025 19:31 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

still looking for seasonal and temporary gigs or even something longer!

10.12.2025 06:23 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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i was SO CLOSE to feeling like i could breathe again financially and now i’m out of food and out of money and i just wanna

02.12.2025 13:27 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i am $180 short for my rent thanks to this mess going on with my job, so if anyone needs a writer or editor, data entry support, audio or video editing, transcription, or even someone to place phone calls for you between now and December 4, i am available for work!

29.11.2025 21:12 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

asked for an accommodation for my ADHD and was put on unpaid leave until the accommodation gets β€œfigured out.” if anyone needs a writer, editor, or social media consultant, or needs help with any kind of project (data entry, returning calls, etc.), i am suddenly avail.

23.11.2025 11:37 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

does anyone know how to hug yourself as tight as humanly possible because things are not great right now and it’s the only thing i can think of that will make me feel better but i cannot order it on the internet

25.11.2025 23:59 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0