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@patientspider

cosmic muddle. learner, teacher, reader, writer, dancer, human. living in the midwest of the united states, paying attention to the seasons. she/they

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i want this for you

03.03.2026 22:57 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

i honestly love pulling my parka with the fake fur lined hood out of my closet. i love a sweater. i love a cardigan. i love a scarf. i love a hat. i love wool socks.

03.03.2026 22:56 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

me and Lou

03.03.2026 00:25 πŸ‘ 18 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

>looking for queer media
>ask the queer if their media is good or tropes
>she doesnt understand
>pull out illustrated diagram explaining what is good and what is fucking tropes
>she laughs and says "it's good media, dyke"
>buy the media
>its tropes

03.03.2026 01:41 πŸ‘ 153 πŸ” 27 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1

Can we please retire the phrase β€œBeauty is a beast” to describe traditionally feminine players, I hate it so much ty

03.03.2026 02:49 πŸ‘ 41 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

a poem πŸ’œ

03.03.2026 22:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

heartbreakingly beautiful!

03.03.2026 22:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Really proud of this one <3

"See You Cowgirl"
#queerart #collage #queerartist #transartist #noai

03.03.2026 05:19 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

yeah we’ll see πŸ™ƒ i’m very ok with gender questions being a lifelong fluid thing for me personally

03.03.2026 22:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

oh I love her. decided not to drive 3.5 hours each way to see this show in a few weeks but it hurts.

03.03.2026 22:46 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes I see ppl trying to argue about extremely complex and nuanced issues about morality and choices and systems and I am reminded that this is a free website where we chat with strangers in unedited blocks of short text that is structurally antithetical to real precision and rigor.

03.03.2026 13:01 πŸ‘ 69 πŸ” 11 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

i want modular breasts (can remove and re-add at will, no loss of sensation)

03.03.2026 22:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Horizontal wild plum branch with brand new reddish green leaves and pale pink flowers.

Horizontal wild plum branch with brand new reddish green leaves and pale pink flowers.

If you need some wild plum today, here it is. 🌱

03.03.2026 18:51 πŸ‘ 34 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yesterday the Post ran a story about the National Park Service censoring displays and exhibits critical of America's past. The NPS even has a database of what's being considered for erasure. I downloaded the 7GB database and turned it into a protest bot. Here's @nps-uncensored.bsky.social.

03.03.2026 20:04 πŸ‘ 22 πŸ” 20 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
Preferred Qualifications
Knowledge of Destiny and Zoom
Knowledge of the field of human services

Preferred Qualifications Knowledge of Destiny and Zoom Knowledge of the field of human services

When the Oracle of Delphi is hiring

03.03.2026 22:08 πŸ‘ 20 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Another good Kansas org to donate to! They're affiliated with my healthcare provider, and a good way to help transgender locals with expenses

26.02.2026 19:22 πŸ‘ 14 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

omg

27.02.2026 00:27 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As a thank you to everyone contributing, I will share my most recent favorite piece of dad culture.

Scrub Daddy has one job, he's a scrubber. Scrub Mommy is a sponge, but she's also a scrubber, too.

Scrub Mommy has a second shift.

26.02.2026 20:42 πŸ‘ 19 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

i also immediately thought β€œlou behavior”

26.02.2026 23:19 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

it’s so much!! and here it doesn’t get reliably warm until mid-May so I just have to accept that these drastic fluctuations will likely continue

26.02.2026 23:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

high of 32 deg today, 50 tomorrow, 60 friday, 30 saturday. this time of year is a serious test of my sanity (figuratively and also clinically)

25.02.2026 23:30 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

so charming

25.02.2026 23:14 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

just went to one of their in-person trainings last night and cannot recommend it enough.

24.02.2026 16:58 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

happy birthday!!!

24.02.2026 23:16 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

When you read old books, you start to notice moments in history when a new or fashionable medical discovery has created a fad. There are times when every character attributes behavior to nerves, or to glands, or to hormones. Lately, it feels like the anti-trans moral panic is giving us gametes.

24.02.2026 20:31 πŸ‘ 28 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

yoooooo

24.02.2026 23:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Preview
Queer Manifestos: Editorials from Chinese Queer Zines | Made in China Journal Since the late 1990s, even amid continuing media censorship and sporadic government crackdowns on LGBTQIA+ activism, there has been a boom in queer groups, organisations, and events in urban China. Se...

Queer zines often feature queer manifestos. What do Chinese queer manifestos look like? Read this translated and edited essay from the latest issue of @madeinchinajournal.com. Thanks also to the support of the Leiden Chinese Queer Collection. madeinchinajournal.com/2026/02/23/q...

24.02.2026 21:13 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

nothing

twinkling

far off

24.02.2026 23:12 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

in other news i am lookin real cute tonight but no photos on public bluesky 😀

22.02.2026 22:24 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

watching Drag Race for the first time and lately I have had a lot more interest in wearing makeup and fun outfits?? shocking development

22.02.2026 22:19 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0