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Lara Lillibridge

@laralillibridge

(she/they) Pan sexual, genderqueer, queerspawn. Author of The Truth About Unringing Phones; Mama, Mama, Only Mama; and Girlish:Growing Up in a Lesbian Home.

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We have a winner in our 2025 Prose Contest! Congratulations to Victor McConnell, for his story "Before It Gets Cold," chosen by this year's judge @laralillibridge.bsky.social!

Thanks to all who entered, as we continue to build our 2025 issue!

27.04.2025 21:30 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Writing craft talk: writing queerly Podcast Episode Β· The Gaily Show Β· 03/13/2025 Β· 45m

This week for our Thinking Clearly, Thinking Queerly episode we talked with @laralillibridge.bsky.social about writing craft and writing queerly.

And with everything going on right now, we need to be thinking queerly about how we write!

Check it out here:
podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/w...

16.03.2025 16:02 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not against the idea of daylight savings time as a rule but not really a fan of spring ahead in practice.

09.03.2025 12:32 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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It's Valentine's Day and the World is Burning but we must save ourselves and each other

laralillibridge.substack.com/p/its-valent...

14.02.2025 15:02 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to comment.

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I was so excited to have a pice on Jane Friedman's site!

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Thanks for reading and sharing!

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Thanks for sharing!

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4me

4me

From the aclu if ice come to your door

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Run Towards Beauty Except When You Can't

If you need a pick-me-up, this is just what the doctor ordered. Many thanks, @laralillibridge.bsky.social, for this beautiful piece and the images that go with it. I want those shoes!!

laralillibridge.substack.com/p/run-toward...

21.01.2025 22:37 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks, Lisa!

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Happy New Year from Poppy Strudel!

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To you as well!

25.12.2024 23:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Little baby me still gets all excited about the Breyer Christmas horses.

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β€œSometimes it is easier to see the trauma in others than it is in our own lives. It is in reading that we find validation. And in I Know Why She Stayed I had that experience, over and over. I did not know the term β€œeconomic abuse” but I have suffered from it. It is that shared experience that gives us words and power, for if we can name it, we can mourn what we lost, allow ourselves to feel rage, and finally release our pain and say, β€˜never again.’” - Lara Lillibridge, author of The Truth About Unringing Phones: Essays on Yearning and Girlish: Growing Up in a Lesbian Home

β€œSometimes it is easier to see the trauma in others than it is in our own lives. It is in reading that we find validation. And in I Know Why She Stayed I had that experience, over and over. I did not know the term β€œeconomic abuse” but I have suffered from it. It is that shared experience that gives us words and power, for if we can name it, we can mourn what we lost, allow ourselves to feel rage, and finally release our pain and say, β€˜never again.’” - Lara Lillibridge, author of The Truth About Unringing Phones: Essays on Yearning and Girlish: Growing Up in a Lesbian Home

When we decided to share our stories, we did so because we wanted wanted other women to understand that they are not alone. When we asked @laralillibridge.bsky.social
to write the foreword for the memoir, we had no idea how perfect her understanding of our work would be. Thank you, Lara!

15.12.2024 18:54 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Announcing @laralillibridge.bsky.social as judge of the next Slippery Elm Prize in Prose! See her work at laralillibridge.com, and send us your best at slipperyelm.submittable.com/submit.

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Yes, You Should Go. Persistence requires adventure

When I got divorced, I promised myself I'd say yet to any opportunity that came my way. I 100% agree with Amy Fish.

Yes, You Should Go. open.substack.com/pub/persiste...

10.12.2024 03:54 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I may not be the perfect mother, but at least I’ve taught my boys not to sleep before Brooklyn and never go 88 mph.

09.12.2024 03:43 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My favorite boss died in the AIDS epidemic, and when he selected his funeral home he made them promise to put out bowls of branded emery boards so everyone would have a party favor.

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Thanks for doing this! I'm still learning my way around this place, but I likes it.

02.12.2024 11:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I would also add "The Prettiest Star" by Carter Sickels.

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Storytelling/speaking is an art separate from writing. It can take a while to find your spoken voice as opposed to your written voice.

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Sometimes it takes me a while to be able to lower my defenses and accept feedback. It took a few weeks, but I finally tried a CP's suggestion on my WIP and OMG I love it so much more now! #booksky #writingCommunity #Memoirists #CNF #writers

22.11.2024 15:40 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I wish my staffie would wear pajamas!

21.11.2024 21:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Taste

Love this #essay in @bendinggenres.bsky.social by M. Florence.
bendinggenres.com/taste/

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The world needs more Maine Coon shapeshifter kittens!

21.11.2024 21:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Enchanting!

20.11.2024 14:46 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I mostly write in a cabin while the kids are at their dad's. I only keep a few changes of clothes there, so there's no big laundry pile, no teenaged athletic gear, and not as many fun craft projects to use to avoid writing. But if I'm in the zone I'll write anywhere, even defaulting to phone apps.

20.11.2024 14:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Boosting. Survey was quick and painless.

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