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Writer | Speaker | Queer πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ | Using words to heal + disrupt πŸ”— linktr.ee/beckaeppley

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Use the anger you’re feeling now to get caught up and keep fighting it.

25.01.2026 18:40 πŸ‘ 201 πŸ” 92 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 10
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The body can know before the brain is done learning.
Especially when you were raised with a script that no longer fits.

Conversation with Anne-Marie Zanzal. Link in bio.

#ComingOutLater #FaithDeconstruction

22.01.2026 16:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Image credit: @LatinoMuslimUnity
β€œSay their names:
-Silverio Villegas GonzΓ‘lez (38)
-Keith Porter (43)
-Renee Nicole Good (37)
-Jaime AlanΓ­s (57)
-Jocelyn Rojo Carranza (11)
-Roberto Carlos Montoya Valdez (52)

Rest in Power. We will not stop. They could have been anyone of us. β€œ

11.01.2026 20:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Don't believe newspapers that say we've lost. The fight back is strong We’re constantly being told what to think by the papers, but are we listening?

Don't believe newspapers that say we've lost. The fight back is strong πŸ‘‡

www.wearequeeraf.com/dont-believe...

23.12.2025 19:02 πŸ‘ 24 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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A Body That Has Lived On becoming while staying in my body.

β€œFor the first time, I feel good in my body.”

New essay on embodiment, aging, and staying present with yourself.
A Body That Has Lived β€” Substack

open.substack.com/pub/beckaepp...

#Writing
#PersonalEssay
#QueerStories
#Embodiment

16.12.2025 16:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

UPDATE: Another Chicago-area church has put up an immigration-themed Nativity scene.

A church member at Urban Village Church sent this one along, where Mary, Joseph and Jesus are gone and replaced with a sign that reads: β€œDue to ICE activity in our community, the Holy Family is in hiding.”

07.12.2025 22:31 πŸ‘ 8087 πŸ” 2804 πŸ’¬ 66 πŸ“Œ 89
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From my Behind-the-Scenes piece in Avoided No More (released last week):

β€œFor me, perfectionism goes hand in hand with expertise…
the bitter couple whispering in my brain.”

The book’s available online everywhere, but bookshop.org > billionaires.

#writing #queer
Music: Anxiety by Doechii

30.11.2025 01:15 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I’m closing chapters without the fear I used to carry.
And the essay I wrote two years agoβ€”Permission to Beβ€”was finally published in Avoided No More last week.

Let the chapter close. You’re still becoming who you need to be. Link in bio.
#AvoidedNoMore #PermissionToBe #QueerWriter

28.11.2025 21:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I’m learning to say things without shrinking after years of softening myself to keep the peace.

My essay Permission to Be is part of Avoided No More β€” 14 writers sharing truths we once avoided. Out 11.20.2025 (TOMORROW)

I stopped gaslighting my own knowing.

#PermissionToBe #AvoidedNo

19.11.2025 15:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Today was Day Two of Customs and Border Patrol’s Charlotte Operation. Members of our Safe to Work community patrols hit the streets early this morning and observed federal agents preparing to spend their day questioning grocery shoppers.

17.11.2025 04:02 πŸ‘ 511 πŸ” 232 πŸ’¬ 14 πŸ“Œ 10
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CLT, these guys are CBP agents, active in abductions along N Tryon this morning.
Saw them myself, was confirmed by other trained volunteers as well.

17.11.2025 16:29 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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CBP Mobilizing in Charlotte, Protest Planned | Queen City Nerve Sheriff Garry McFadden confirmed Thursday that CBP has informed him that agents will begin arriving in Charlotte as early as this weekend.

What we know now about CBP in CLT:

15.11.2025 15:23 πŸ‘ 26 πŸ” 13 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 3
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β€œMy essay Permission to Be β€” my coming-out story β€” is being published this month in, Avoided No More.

It’s about learning you don’t need permission to be who you already are. πŸ’›

open.substack.com/pub/beckaepp...

#PermissionToBe #AvoidedNoMore #ComingOutStory #LateInLifeLesbian #QueerVoices

11.11.2025 15:35 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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As expected, most schools receiving @GovBillLee’s private school voucher taxpayer handouts have shady testing & transparency, and β€œpatchwork” curriculums β€œlargely based in Christianity”

(Betsy Devos openly admitted β€œadvancing God’s kingdom” is the goal) nashvillebanner.com/2025/11/10/t...

11.11.2025 15:16 πŸ‘ 669 πŸ” 244 πŸ’¬ 45 πŸ“Œ 14

Music spiritual peace, and happiness by Lenzspot

11.11.2025 15:19 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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@joshjohnsoncomedy.bsky.social …. πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»

Watch the full clip here: www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMpomrF6/

#zohran #zohranmamdani

06.11.2025 18:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œThe Least of These” Were Never Someone Else.

Maybe the poor aren’t β€œalways with us.” Maybe we just keep building systems that make it so.

The real work isn’t saving anyone β€” it’s remembering proximity makes us human.

open.substack.com/pub/beckaepp...

#Deconstruction #Community #Writing #SNAP

05.11.2025 17:37 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Charlotte Regional Market, Saturdays except 11/29, 8am- 12:30pm
Davidson Farmer Market, Saturdays 9-12
Matthews Farmer Market, Saturdays 8-12

Charlotte Regional Market, Saturdays except 11/29, 8am- 12:30pm Davidson Farmer Market, Saturdays 9-12 Matthews Farmer Market, Saturdays 8-12

Charlotte and Mecklenburg County, NC is offering $50 in free SNAP tokens to Charlotte EBT card holders at three area farmer's markets.

28.10.2025 10:43 πŸ‘ 62 πŸ” 62 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 6
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Trans activist and Stonewall veteran Miss Major Griffin-Gracy has died aged 78.
Read more: https://bit.ly/4q7d0nX

15.10.2025 12:00 πŸ‘ 42 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
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Pondering how we let others define who we are and the power we give them to invalidate emotions that we experience.
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Music Love, peace and happiness by Goltare MC

#overreacting #dontgiveyourpoweraway #youremotionsarevalid #queer #wlw

13.10.2025 14:45 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I wrote this earlier this yearβ€”when the world already felt like it was breaking.
Now, those cracks have widened.
Maybe β€œnot knowing where to start” is exactly where we begin.

Full essay: Not Knowing Where to Start - link in bio.

#BeckaEppley #AMileDeep #RadicalHope #GriefAndGrace #EmpireIsFalling

13.10.2025 14:16 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Gaza Sumud flotilla: How Israel breaks international maritime law The Global Sumud Flotilla says its fleet of over 50 ships has entered the β€˜high-risk zone.’

The Global Sumud Flotilla says its fleet of over 50 ships has entered the β€˜high-risk zone.’

01.10.2025 03:30 πŸ‘ 521 πŸ” 286 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 15

Music credit Contains: Dena - Finnagram Tui

28.09.2025 16:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The magic I was taught to fear was never outside of me. It was my connection, my power, my hope.

✨ New writing on faith, survival, and reclaiming magic.
What power were you told to hide?
πŸ”— Read more link in bio

#Exvangelical #SpiritualHealing #ReclaimingMagic #BreakingCycles #InnerPower

28.09.2025 16:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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The President of Slovenia at the United Nations πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡³

25.09.2025 07:35 πŸ‘ 404 πŸ” 116 πŸ’¬ 9 πŸ“Œ 9
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Realizing that faith does not sustain your hope, but the dissipation of that faith can create the clearing to see the hope has always been inside of you.

Music: poetry of things - pinegroove

#rapture #rapture2025 #wakingup #queerauthor #wlw #queerstories #lesbian #wlw #queerwriters #exvangelical

25.09.2025 17:00 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Grateful that I get to be out now as a lesbian, even though my journey took 40+ years.

#comphet #wlw #lesbiansofinstagram #wuhluhwuh #lateinlifelesbianπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ #conversiontherepy #queer #lesbiansover40 #faithdeconstruction #exvangelical

19.09.2025 17:58 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Rage burns fast. Hope is harder. But hope is the only thing that stays. ✨

New Substack β†’ Hope Demands More Than Rage
πŸ”— Link in bio

#HopeDemandsMore #HealingJourney #RageToHope #realtalk #collectivepower

19.09.2025 17:53 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Andrea Gibson recites 'Love Letter From the Afterlife' in final TV interview
Andrea Gibson recites 'Love Letter From the Afterlife' in final TV interview YouTube video by NBC Chicago

Andrea Gibson
8/13/1975 - 7/14/2025

#poetry #Chicago

15.07.2025 22:00 πŸ‘ 19 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
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I’m still learning that healing doesn’t always mean removing every trace…

This piece is rooted in memory, survival, and growth that’s both mine and inherited.

For anyone carrying what they’ve already let go ofβ€”this is for you.

πŸŽ™οΈ Full version on Substack (link bio)
🌿 Reel voiced + written by me

27.05.2025 23:58 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0