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@highkeylee

A Father first! Foster Carer for nearly a decade. Husband, passionate about keeping siblings together, dreamer and sufferer of long-term FOMO (Fear of Missing Out!) Radio Amateur - M3LEE

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Tugging at the corners Tugging at the corners of an overstretched system, navigating trauma-informed puberty, and why we need to bin the 'defiant' tag for good.

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01.03.2026 14:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The Kids We Forget: When our 'Forever' Children pay the price of fostering Three non-negotiable's for protecting your birth child’s sense of belonging

Birth kids didn't sign the contract, but they’re doing the work of fostering every single day. This one is for the birth children living in the shadow of the system.
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26.02.2026 16:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Influence Doesn’t Happen From the Side lines Why I believe attending the Minister’s meeting still matters!

I have written a response to Sarah Anderson's article on #FosterWiki and you can find it here:
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24.02.2026 14:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I truly believe this is the time to strike. Can we all collaborate to make 2026 the year of The Foster Carer?

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The carers are ready. The system is failing. The only thing standing in the way of an unstoppable alliance is "branding."
Put the mission first. Put the carers first.
Fosterwiki & @FosterSupport β€” The door is open. Shall we make history?

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Working apart, you are two streams hit by a drought. Together, you are a river that can carve through the hardest stone of systemic bias. 🌊
A unified, independent front would be the ONLY voice the DfE couldn't ignore or buy off. #StandWithCarers #IndependentVoices

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

(FosterWiki)and @FosterSupport are the only two major players left who are solely member-funded. No LA contracts. No government "hush money."
But while they work in separate lanes, the system stays winning. It’s time to bridge the gap!

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Subsidised Advocacy - If an organisation’s budget comes from Local Authorities, can they ever truly stand up to them?
It’s like a ref being paid by the home team.
Carers don’t need "polite" representation. They need un-bought, fierce independence. @fostersupport.co.uk (& Fosterwiki)

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The UK fostering system is in a tailspin, and the "solutions" being offered are more of the same. 10,000 new places? Great. But who is protecting the carers already in the system? Certainly not the organisations taking money from the LAs they should be challenging.

15.02.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Am I alone in thinking this?

08.02.2026 18:04 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The rules aren't stuck in another century - Our imagination is! Why Foster Carers are tired of being the 'slogan', not the PRIORITY

Apologies in advance, this was a long rant!

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08.02.2026 13:08 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Finally. Back up and running.. @nwfg.bsky.social

02.02.2026 22:07 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Storms, sparklers and forever Celebrating my son’s independence, my daughter’s birthday recovery, and the art of the low-maintenance friendship.

Latest ramblings...

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02.02.2026 15:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Oh Miriam, the dream of being strapped in beside you at 30,000 feet lives on. Sadly, my bank account flies strictly economy, so unless I win the lottery or you start doing budget-airline cameos, our business class bonding session will have to stay in the realm of in-flight fantasy!

16.01.2026 10:39 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Unwrapping emotions Post-Christmas reflections and a look at 2025

After sharing my reflections on 2025 and laying everything out openly, I came across a post from last January where I wrote about wanting to be the kind of person the kids remember with a smile. That hope still guides me, and I’m doing my best to live up to it!

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10.01.2026 11:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Lee Martin (@highkeylee) I wrote about menopause β€” something I once thought I had no right to talk about, but now realise men absolutely need to understand if we want to support the women we love.

I wrote about menopause β€” something I once thought I had no right to talk about, but now realise men absolutely need to understand if we want to support the women we love.

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06.01.2026 09:14 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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A year that nearly broke us β€” and somehow made us stronger Grief, fostering, family chaos, and the unexpected moments that saved 2025

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05.01.2026 18:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Thank you

04.01.2026 21:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Here's the big government announcement on how they plan to waste money tempting more people into a broken system.

31.12.2025 11:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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31.12.2025 11:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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First bit of #hamradio since the madness of Christmas started. I hope you are all doing well.

27.12.2025 16:35 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Septimana horribilis Not as catchy as when her Majesty said something similar!

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05.12.2025 16:20 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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The #Baofeng UV-32 feels solid in the hand. Excellent quality.

25.09.2025 16:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Kids have enjoyed a bit of sunshine, Lego in the garden and a homemade sweet potato curry! #delicious. I'm now sat scanning some #hamradio repeaters for an opportunity to chat

06.09.2025 16:00 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A landscaped garden, with a log cabin in the centre and seating areas all around. Tired fence panels in need of a lick of paint.

A landscaped garden, with a log cabin in the centre and seating areas all around. Tired fence panels in need of a lick of paint.

The promise of a reasonable day ahead. Happy Monday all. (Yes, I do need to paint the fence!)

01.09.2025 12:59 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Working in the garden today trying to fix my antenna systems. I hope to also reporogram my hotspot later as it's not been working since I had it repaired. #hamradio #nwfg

18.08.2025 09:12 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Phone a Friend Is anyone available to step into that role

Balance is a myth that I keep trying to believe in.

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18.06.2025 16:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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From Famous(ish) Encounters to Cozy Corners: Navigating Our Turbulent Days and Long Nights Amidst the beautiful chos of daily life

Do you love the cosy corner?

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26.05.2025 12:58 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Nick Ferrari discussing @lbc.co.uk this morning, the controversial policy around suspending police officers when allegations are made. Without any evidence to suggest guilt. Sounds familiar to foster carers! #fostering #fostercare #thefosteringnetwork

23.04.2025 07:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Heart and Home: The Fostering Chronicles The New Podcast

The podcast is back baby!!

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01.04.2025 16:07 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0