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Paul RyderπŸ”œThe Pit

@paul-ryder

NSFW. 18+ only. Gay. Husband. Leather and bondage fetishist in Leeds, UK.

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The power is going to have to remain low for the time being while I build up resistance (pun intended)

11.03.2026 14:51 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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I lost the original 4mm to my e-stim box ages ago so I've been sans electro until I finally replaced it. I even added to my collection, including some nipple clamps. After all this time I'd forgotten what 9v to the nipples felt like! πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«βš‘οΈ

11.03.2026 14:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

So what you're saying is, you have... plausible "deniability"! 😎

09.03.2026 16:17 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Toys in and of themselves aren't evil... it's how you use them and on whom! 😈

09.03.2026 16:00 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Well done!

25.02.2026 12:03 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I can't even imagine the flexibility required to get your arms through the bars in the first place!

24.02.2026 23:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As for Trip, he was later auctioned. All record of his new identity and the purchase were erased. His current wearabouts and owner are unknown.

23.02.2026 13:32 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

In a bitter twist of irony he would wear the mask permanently when The Company sought to make an example of him. The techniques they developed in breaking him would be used on future drones, leading to a 68% improvement in the conversion process.

23.02.2026 13:32 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

His signature tool was his gas mask, relying on the base level programming which caused even incomplete drones to cluster together. This resulted in a 99% retrieval rate which made The Company very pleased. That was until they discovered Trip was taking massive bribes to let the 1% escape.

23.02.2026 13:32 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Charles "Trip" Ryder, an ancestor of mine, was a bounty hunter specialising in the reacquisition of rubber drones that had escaped the programming facility run by The Company.

23.02.2026 13:32 πŸ‘ 17 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Ultimately I agree that people participate in kink and fetish based on their values. I've always believed that it's a personal journey and just because someone practises it one way, doesn't mean you have to do the same. Labels are a jumping off point for the conversation (whatever form that takes)

23.02.2026 10:09 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Some folks will want 24/7, no negotiation, and CNC. Others will want a casual hedonistic experience. The majority of people will sit somewhere inbetween, with some oscillating between two points depending on their current needs/mood.

23.02.2026 10:09 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's interesting to see the terms "scene-based" and "identity-based" kink/fetish. Personally I don't see the community as two seperate groups, but rather the two philosophies as ends of a spectrum with some bell curve distribution in between. So little of expression is ever binary.

23.02.2026 10:09 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you Sir

18.02.2026 19:59 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Even though I'm generally fine showing off my fetish side, there's still some anxiety showing my sub side. Anyway, here is a tastefully cropped pic from a recent visit to my Sir - @mancsrigger.bsky.social

18.02.2026 10:46 πŸ‘ 20 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1

"Dear Sir/Madam, I was enamoured by your recent submission to <insert social media> featuring <insert name of subject>. It is my wish, with your ascent, to participate in a similar experience. If this is of interest to you please may we compare schedules for a rendez-vous?"

18.02.2026 10:40 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

How's your tea art?

10.02.2026 13:38 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Don't be disheartened by a smaller loss than you were hoping for. A gradual loss is healthier and less likely to result in rebounding. Plus when you're at the start of a diet, weight loss is often water. Stick with it! You've got this!

04.02.2026 10:36 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's one of the reasons why I liked what the Switched app did to communicate your preferences, but it just doesn't seem to be as popular last time I used it.

02.02.2026 13:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I've often found the Recon settings overly simplistic and not very descriptive. When I first started, "passive" invoked an idea of someone that just lies there and not really engaged. It doesn't really suit power bottoms or sub Tops

02.02.2026 13:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

That hood looks intense!

30.01.2026 09:54 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

No, but I come across as weird with new people

23.01.2026 11:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I may have been weird last time we met

22.01.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Certainly where I'd like to be!

21.01.2026 14:11 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I started with the trousers out of Gear and then just bought more gear from the same brand, but I'm lazy so I imagine there is a better, more thrifty alternative

19.01.2026 14:27 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You're getting the urge to try tactical too?

19.01.2026 13:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Is that even a real question? Of course the gear stays on!

15.01.2026 10:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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My first set of tactical gear has arrived. Now I just need some stuff to help me 'detain' any bad boys that cross my path! #gay #mlm #tacticalgear

13.01.2026 13:33 πŸ‘ 36 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Not being able to talk should be the default. If you're talking then you're not fully focused on the wonderful situation you're in.

13.01.2026 10:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Very resourceful!

09.01.2026 09:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0