Another week, another blog I'm sharing by @askasub.bsky.social βοΈπβ¨π©·
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Another week, another blog I'm sharing by @askasub.bsky.social βοΈπβ¨π©·
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βbottoming for watersports is an act of feminist resistanceβ
when people ask what happens *after* i get locked in the human-sized dog cage
iβm done with gay panic time to start fisting
me combing through two dozen dating app profiles a day that are completely identical to each other
βaftercare seems like a lot of work are people really doing thatβ
me:
when the baby subs ask me about Fake Dom red flags
me, an indoor kinkster, trying to go to a party
me preempting the mansplaining on a date with a silver lake / brooklyn straight man in carhartt
me actually taking the time to read what someoneβs into before messaging them on a dating app
me googling what a particular hanky color means
tfw you catch feelings for someone with a primary partner and now you have to read polysecure
when i, a bottom, develop feelings for another bottom
showing up to a date with a man who prefers natural makeup
when yet another person i was really vibing with ghosts after three days of conversation
me actually having to put myself out there to meet people
me charging my vibrator before partnered s*x
me finding out how much impact toys cost
i am once again asking for the women of los angeles to stop making Good Luck Babe so hard for me to listen to
you SAID to βmake myself at homeβ
me getting into non-monogamy: love is expansive! people are beautiful! my emotional skills will prevent me from feeling pain!
every six months:
me when asked what type of sub i am
Impact tops when they forget to lay out all the equipment in a convenient way
kπnksters making their dating app profiles
me opening the dating apps to find a thousand βwant to surprise him for his birthdayβ couples
when i canβt help but talk back knowing iβm gonna feel it in my butt tomorrow
when iβm getting impact in front of another sub & pretending to be tougher than i am
me opening the dating apps to find a thousand βwant to surprise him for his birthdayβ couples
kπnksters making their dating app profiles
Impact tops when they forget to lay out all the equipment in a convenient way