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A nerdy trans woman and bio researcher. She/her and tired.

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There's something deeply pathetic & petty about one of the biggest msn papers coming to whine about the percieved unfair treatement in the comments of a small indie outlet that represents the structurally disadvantaged victims of the global hate campaign that the NYT supports.

11.02.2026 07:57 πŸ‘ 236 πŸ” 19 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

There is no reason anyone should trust a word your outlet writes on trans issues. You have done immense harm through biased and inaccurate reporting, and helped foment the exact shift you now celebrate by consistently abdicating journalistic integrity. Or more succinctly, go fuck yourselves.

11.02.2026 13:26 πŸ‘ 20 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

While it would be an improvement for the individuals, I don't see it changing the system, any more than cases now of municipalities having to pay out for police misconduct. The only way I see it changing is if cops are held personally liable (financially and criminally), like medical malpractice.

10.02.2026 14:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

it would be so funny if it happened during the super bowl when everyone is already posting OH MY GOD out of context

08.02.2026 18:26 πŸ‘ 1022 πŸ” 141 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 18

I may have a stroke.

Someone said protests don’t belong in church and it took every ounce of self-censure within me not to say β€œDeborah you are literally a Protestant.”

A PROTESTant.

I assume they think Luther was nailing Bed, Bath, & Beyond coupons to the door.

30.01.2026 17:15 πŸ‘ 7870 πŸ” 1989 πŸ’¬ 157 πŸ“Œ 126
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OpenClaw is interesting, but will also drain your wallet if you aren't careful.
Last night around midnight I loaded my Anthropic API account with $20, then went to bed.
When I woke up, my Anthropic balance was $O.
Opus was checking "is it daytime yet?" every 30 minutes, paying $0.75 each time to conclude "no, it's still night."
Doing literally nothing, OpenClaw spent the entire balance. How?

Benjamin De Kraker O @BenjaminDEKR Follow OpenClaw is interesting, but will also drain your wallet if you aren't careful. Last night around midnight I loaded my Anthropic API account with $20, then went to bed. When I woke up, my Anthropic balance was $O. Opus was checking "is it daytime yet?" every 30 minutes, paying $0.75 each time to conclude "no, it's still night." Doing literally nothing, OpenClaw spent the entire balance. How?

The "Heartbeat" cron job, even though literally the only thing I had going was one silly reminder, ("remind me tomorrow to get milk")
1. Sent ~120,000 tokens of context to Opus
4.5
2. Opus read HEARTBEAT md, thought about reminders
3. Replied "HEARTBEAT_OK"
4. Cost: ~$0.75 per heartbeat (cache writes)
The damage:
- Overnight = ~25+ heartbeats
- 25 Γ— $0.75 = ~$18.75 just from heartbeats alone
- Plus regular conversation = ~$20 total
The absurdity: Opus was essentially checking
"is it daytime yet?" every 30 minutes, paying $0.75 each time to conclude "no, it's still night."

The "Heartbeat" cron job, even though literally the only thing I had going was one silly reminder, ("remind me tomorrow to get milk") 1. Sent ~120,000 tokens of context to Opus 4.5 2. Opus read HEARTBEAT md, thought about reminders 3. Replied "HEARTBEAT_OK" 4. Cost: ~$0.75 per heartbeat (cache writes) The damage: - Overnight = ~25+ heartbeats - 25 Γ— $0.75 = ~$18.75 just from heartbeats alone - Plus regular conversation = ~$20 total The absurdity: Opus was essentially checking "is it daytime yet?" every 30 minutes, paying $0.75 each time to conclude "no, it's still night."

I’m starting to think the people who are excited about β€œAI agents” have literally never used a computer in their lives

01.02.2026 02:56 πŸ‘ 2699 πŸ” 518 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 149

finally a good dating app

27.01.2026 20:52 πŸ‘ 5815 πŸ” 1179 πŸ’¬ 67 πŸ“Œ 17

Amazing work, and your dress is absolutely gorgeous!

23.01.2026 15:15 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It makes sense though. The rest is exactly what I'd expect (I worked that census and actually had a couple crazies threaten to shoot me), but how does he not have his own shotgun?

23.01.2026 15:11 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh come on, it's not like the creator talked in an interview about how the initial She-Ra outfit was "a specific femininity that [Adora's] not comfortable with" and that felt like an uncomfortable costume, only to then come out as transmasc or something. Wait...

22.01.2026 22:30 πŸ‘ 12 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It feels like the same attitude that drives the "why would people be disabled when there's magic" argument in fantasy settings; they're treating fiction as wish fulfillment, and part of that wish is to not encounter anyone who challenges their views of aesthetic norms.

17.01.2026 15:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, it took me like 3 times to actually parse it. Such a weirdly constructed sentence.

11.01.2026 21:05 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Referring to Vivian Wilson (but weirdly avoiding using her name)

11.01.2026 20:49 πŸ‘ 18 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
02.01.2026 19:22 πŸ‘ 4424 πŸ” 957 πŸ’¬ 211 πŸ“Œ 435

As a Michigander with an old jeep, I keep recovery equipment with me to pull out vehicles every winter. I'd be laughing my ass off instead, and it would be deeply tempting to start doing donuts around them.

04.01.2026 17:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A potato that has been fashioned into a couch

A potato that has been fashioned into a couch

Feels like a personal attack tbh

01.01.2026 19:45 πŸ‘ 50 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

just saw a billionaire pack all his things in a bindle and start leaving new york city on foot. he turned and looked at me with tears in his eyes and said β€œmaybe one day when this city is safe we’ll return” before walking away

01.01.2026 18:59 πŸ‘ 7659 πŸ” 1362 πŸ’¬ 91 πŸ“Œ 48

It's funny how the article postulates that there's also no overlap between white guys and queer people. Because, much like yourself, they're the wrong KIND of white guy.

26.12.2025 20:13 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes I forget how much therapy has done until I encounter something that would have sent me into a spiral and instead I just take a moment and recover.

26.12.2025 16:19 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

whoever is writing reality lately is really getting heavy-handed with it. no subtlety at all

15.12.2025 23:25 πŸ‘ 3423 πŸ” 699 πŸ’¬ 36 πŸ“Œ 22
Owen in I saw the tv glow

Owen in I saw the tv glow

Transgender awareness week is over, you are unaware that you are transgender

23.11.2025 14:52 πŸ‘ 1560 πŸ” 238 πŸ’¬ 28 πŸ“Œ 12

I also read all of Narnia without catching the Christian undertones, so I might just be dense.

23.11.2025 15:12 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I think it's obvious IF you are at least somewhat aware of the message, and especially if you're in the particular intersection of millennial transfems who came out as adults. But I could easily see missing the allegory if you're not primed for it.

23.11.2025 15:11 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Ah, but you're assuming it doesn't further the goal of gender conformity. The same bullshit is happening in the USA, and I already know one (cis) woman who was physically attacked in the bathroom because she's a butch lesbian. It's not the tradwife-looking bigots being attacked.

22.11.2025 15:26 πŸ‘ 24 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's the Jurassic Park problem: tech bros are so preoccupied with whether they can, they don't stop to think if they should.

I've used neural nets for actual research. They're great when used correctly and based on models trained for a specific purpose instead of generalized crap.

21.11.2025 19:54 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
18.11.2025 18:03 πŸ‘ 191 πŸ” 57 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm currently out of work (guess who was funded by an NIH grant that got cut!) and as much as it sucks, it's the first time in forever that I've had energy to actually work on my mental health and just generally exist. It's been eye-opening realizing just how drained I was all the time.

07.11.2025 17:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
05.11.2025 15:46 πŸ‘ 14029 πŸ” 4407 πŸ’¬ 89 πŸ“Œ 61

It's such an astounding experience. Most of my years are still before coming out, but so much of my actual existence has occurred since. I have close friends who I'd swear I've known for decades, but I know I met them after coming out, so within about the past 4 years myself.

04.11.2025 14:11 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As a childless millennial, do I lose "real woman" points for only cooking for my girlfriend? Do I need to kidnap someone's kids to drive them around? Does my mom living independently hit me for further points? I have so many questions, all of which are "WTF is wrong with terfs?"

27.10.2025 19:30 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0