T-Ray

Ok. That is really cute!

Absolutely!

¡Gracias!

What podcast are you listing to? I have been wanting to do the same.

Little thong by the pool action!

Well now I wanna be friends! LMAO!

Regardless, I enjoy you content and all you do. Quietly, mostly, (cause I am dealing with my own situation lol) but I like what you do. I hope knowing that you are not alone helps!

LOL. In my world NOTHING is foolproof at all. Each day is a new day and new attempts. To me, the secret sauce has been grace. Didn’t do shit today? Whelp, while that isn’t something we should do EVERYDAY it’s ok for today (OMG THAT IS HARD) but giving myself permission helps.

Love you boo! Cause no one else loves you (or is as harsh with you) as you are with yourself!

It can be hard to find the balance especially with ourselves. We are our own harshest critics. I have found that it is beneficial to me to be flexible and understanding. When I find myself being difficult I remind myself that this is a plan I made and no one but me will know if I don’t succeed

I think knowing it isn’t a demand chain but rather a task list I want to get done. Free yourself from the demands and give yourself the opportunity to do your best. Do not beat yourself up. Just do what you can. I have struggled with that for years so I get it.

I fully get that. I think having the grace to say to yourself “I did my best” but also actually trying your best is, at least for me, enough. There are for sure days that I feel like I could have tried harder but I did all I could so yay!

Ya know what I find helps me, is making a list of things I want to get accomplished, but having grace with myself for anything I don’t do. I just roll the list into the next day. Also, I have to constantly remind myself that I am the not one who knows about half these things.

You have such cute humps!

Good for you AND the bed!

I am sorry you are feeling ill! That’s not what any of us want for you but DAMN you look good!

Same! Would have stayed in bed with you though.

This is a black and white headshot. I am wearing long sleeves and fingerless gloves. I am tired but still going!

So, it is Mono Monday and I was more busy than I expected. I wanted to take a cute, staged photo. Instead I took a random pic between appointments. BUT it is black and white so… YAY? lol.

Man sits by a pool at night in a thong at night in Mexico.

So, I have been thinking about what to post as my last pic from 2025. I think this one from my first but very much not my last visit to Puerto Vallarta is correct. Happy New Year everyone as 2025 comes to a close let’s hope for a wonderful 2026!

I say no. Who knows what they have going on in their lives? You are taking your time to say something. That to me says more than a reply. Don’t let your self worth hit the ground over something like that.

The #1 movie when you were 10 years old is how your 2026 is gonna go.

Uh oh!

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Good for her for exploring what could happen!

Aww bummer! Well she maybe got an idea?

That is a statement that invites further questions. Like, alone? Was she encouraged and if so by whom? Did she like them?

You are just so pretty!

Listen, I have always been a believer that size should be determined by the one receiving. LMAO.

And we salute you for doing it! The dedication, the resolve. I for one am INSPIRED!

On it!

Huh, well! At least there is a memory? LMAO.

I 100% feel ya.