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πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ USA Today Bestselling Author: Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In (HarperCollins); Senior Fellow & Fmr. Prof, Harvard Law School; Founder & Principal, Cambridge Negotiation Institute; Catholic; LGBTQ+;

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Why Images Beat Words in Negotiation: Insights from Political Meetings
Why Images Beat Words in Negotiation: Insights from Political Meetings YouTube video by Bob Bordone

When a picture is a great #negotiation tool. 3 lessons from @zohrankmamdani.bsky.social. youtu.be/9lR0erQ0QPs?...

07.03.2026 11:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Why Violent Strategies Fail in the Long Term
Why Violent Strategies Fail in the Long Term YouTube video by Bob Bordone

If you think the threat of #war w/ #Iran, or an actual war is a good way to achieve US foreign policy goals, here's why I think you're wrong. #negotiation #influence #persuasion youtu.be/TFlfNdXC91o?...

27.02.2026 23:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Milan-Cortina 2026 Olympics Drama: Why Cities Really Stopped Bidding
Milan-Cortina 2026 Olympics Drama: Why Cities Really Stopped Bidding YouTube video by Bob Bordone

How the International Olympic Committee changed the way it chooses host cities from competitive #auctions to value-creating #negotiation & #dialogue. #olympics #MilanoCortinaOlympics2026 #MilanoCortinaOlympic2026 youtu.be/3XAjl1m-xo8?...

14.02.2026 00:17 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Why My Dog Is a Better Negotiator Than Most People
Why My Dog Is a Better Negotiator Than Most People YouTube video by Bob Bordone

Today, my #goldenretriever Rosie takes the stage to offer 9 #negotiation lessons for humor and lots of cuteness! youtu.be/hLhJQRyPCTQ?...

07.02.2026 12:09 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Why My Dog Is a Better Negotiator Than Most People
Why My Dog Is a Better Negotiator Than Most People YouTube video by Bob Bordone

To celebrate my #goldenretriever's 9th birthday, here are 9 #negotiation lessons I've learned from my #dog Rosie youtu.be/hLhJQRyPCTQ?...

07.02.2026 04:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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#80 College in a Polarized World: Navigating Conflict with Resilience with Bob Bordone Podcast Episode Β· College Is Fine, Everything's Fine Β· 01/27/2026 Β· 31m

What a treat to speak with the two clinical psychologist hosts of the #podcast College Is Fine about the challenge of being in college during a period of high #polarization podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/8...

03.02.2026 19:43 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Bob Bordone: Cope Better With Conflict Podcast Episode Β· The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall Β· 02/02/2026 Β· 56m

Can embracing #conflict help us lead a more meaningful life? That's my argument as I sit down with Andrew Marshall for The Meaningful Life Podcast this week. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...

02.02.2026 15:08 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Tips for Dealing with Bullies and Threats in Conversation
Tips for Dealing with Bullies and Threats in Conversation YouTube video by Bob Bordone

The theme of this year's meeting of the #WorldEconomicForum in #Davos was "The Spirit of #Dialogue."

Today, tips for deciding whether to stay in #dialogue when you experience bullying or threats!

As always, comments/reactions are welcome. youtu.be/T8Gv_UUCt9I?...

23.01.2026 22:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Photobombed by my #goldenretriever in this week's #negotiation video. Watch as she literally falls asleep from minute 1 through the end. Also watch if you are interested in the perils of using our leverage when you negotiate. @cnn.com youtu.be/z0fOfIZHszI?...

17.01.2026 13:25 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
npr on Instagram: "This letter writer asked her mom what name she wanted to go by as a grandmother. Then, she hated the answer. Is she stuck with it? …" This letter writer asked her mom what name she wanted to go by as a grandmother. Then, she hated the answer. Is she stuck with it? ⁠⁠Sahaj Kaur Kohli, therapist, author and founder of @browngirltherapy, and Bob Bordone, senior fellow at Harvard Law School, and author of "Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up Or Giving In," respond to this question for Dear Life Kit.β β πŸ’Œ Dear Life Kit is @NPRLifeKit’s advice column. To hear @sahajkohli and @bobbybordone answer more audience questions, click the link in our bio or search β€œLife Kit” wherever you listen to podcasts.β β πŸŽ™οΈ Video Host and reporter: Andee Tagle/NPR β€’ @andee_tagle⁠πŸŽ₯ Video producer: Beck Harlan/NPR β€’ @beckharlan⁠🎧 Podcast producer: Sylvie Douglas/NPR β€’ @exclu_sylvie

What a treat to be on this vid for @NPR LifeKit! www.instagram.com/reel/DTYybHw...

12.01.2026 03:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
How Alcohol Affects Business Negotiations
How Alcohol Affects Business Negotiations YouTube video by Bob Bordone

It's #DryJanuary! That means time for research-backed strategies on the use of #alcohol & #drinking in #negotiation. With some added #heatedrivalry fun for those who are fans! youtu.be/4y0ng49mgoU?...

10.01.2026 00:51 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Easy Ways to Get More Out of Every Negotiation This Year
Easy Ways to Get More Out of Every Negotiation This Year YouTube video by Bob Bordone

Looking for some #NewYear2026 resolutions? Here are 3 #negotiation-related tips that are good resolutions for all your 2026 interactions. And a fun shout-out for #heatedrivarly fans! #conflictresilience youtu.be/RluBdO5ijqo?...

02.01.2026 22:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Dear Life Kit: I have the same holiday drama with my family every year Podcast Episode Β· Life Kit Β· 12/16/2025 Β· 22m

Facing some tough #holiday drama or #family conflict? Today I speak on @npr.org LifeKit as we respond to real-life challenges! #conflictresilience @florried.bsky.social podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/d...

16.12.2025 20:11 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Turning conflict into an opportunity for growth
Turning conflict into an opportunity for growth YouTube video by ABC News

What a huge honor to speak w/
@giobenitez.com on ABC News Live this morning about using #conflict to create connection during the #holidays! #conflictresilience youtu.be/P07JLHV_x5o?...

13.12.2025 23:21 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
How to Survive Awkward Family Fights This Holiday Season
How to Survive Awkward Family Fights This Holiday Season YouTube video by Bob Bordone

4 tipcs for surviving holiday stress w/ your family! #conflictresolution #conflictresilience youtu.be/4hTzOs9Stq0?...

29.11.2025 04:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Navigating Thanksgiving Without Losing Your Mind (or Your People) A Thanksgiving Guide for Navigating Faith, Politics, and the People We Love

Just in time for #Thanksgiving -- featuring my recent appearance on the Faithful Politics Podcast. faithfulpolitics.substack.com/p/navigating...

25.11.2025 16:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Restorative Justice Meets Conflict Resilience: Reflections & Lessons Join leading restorative justice scholars as they discuss the insights, lessons, and limits of conflict resilience in research & practice.

Join me & the leading restorative justice scholars in North America on Dec. 16 at 7:00pm EST for a live, online roundtable panel as we discuss all things RJ & conflict resilience. Register here for FREE: @CambridgeNegoti #conflictresilience #negotiation. www.eventbrite.com/e/restorativ...

18.11.2025 16:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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In medicine we’re trained to treat disease, not navigate workplace conflict. It can feel like running a Code Blue without any ACLS cards.

My book review of Conflict Resilience by @bobbordone.bsky.social & Joel Salinas is out in CJPL ➑️

07.11.2025 14:41 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
What Makes Bob Barnett One of the Greatest Negotiators of Our Time
What Makes Bob Barnett One of the Greatest Negotiators of Our Time YouTube video by Bob Bordone

Today, I celebrate a mentor who passed too soon. 6 #negotiation lessons from the great Bob Barnett. On Monday I was honored to celebrate the life of the great Bob Barnett. #negotiation #conflictresilience youtu.be/RyI-K6jw6-s?...

08.11.2025 04:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Building Conflict Resilience: Tools for Better Disagreement Can conflict be a GIFT to drive deeper connection? Join as we explore how to use better disagreement to build a more just & peaceful world.

Boston Area Friends- Join me on Nov. 16 from 11:30am to 1:00pm at The Paulist Center (5 Park St.) in Boston as I discuss my new book CONFLICT RESILIENCE and how it matters in a divided country. All are welcome. Register here: @paulistfathers.bsky.social www.eventbrite.com/e/building-c...

03.11.2025 11:20 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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How To Disagree About Gender with a Close Friend (Part I) Podcast Episode Β· The Disagreement Β· 10/24/2025 Β· 51m

One of my most memorable coaching sessions of the year was public (by consent, of course)! Here I coach Larissa Phillips of The Free Press on how to have a conversation with a friend around differences related to gender! #conflictresilience #ConflictResolution podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/h...

24.10.2025 11:52 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Pope Leo XIV Accepts Resignation of Bishop Edward Scharfenberger of the Diocese of Albany; Appoints Bishop Mark O’Connell as Successor

Read the full release at: https://ow.ly/7UGq50XeBKy

20.10.2025 10:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Broadway Strike Threat: Practical Lessons for Negotiators
Broadway Strike Threat: Practical Lessons for Negotiators YouTube video by Bob Bordone

Broadway uplifts. But a strike may be on the horizon. How to get out of this #negotiation impasse? My thoughts! #conflictresilience #broadway www.youtube.com/watch?v=fN_l...

18.10.2025 03:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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EARCOS Sponsored Webinar Details

Attn: Friends and educators in Asia. I'll be presenting a LIVE talk with Q&A on Saturday morning, October 4, 2025 at 9:00am (8:00pm EDT) on "Conflict Resilience: Tools for Negotiating Disagreement and Building Connection." #conflictresilience sites.google.com/earcos.org/b...

03.10.2025 01:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Conflict Resilience with Bob Bordone | Takk og lov – med Anine Kierulf

What a treat to be on a Norwegian podcast focusing on #law and #society and discussing why #conflictresilience matters in this moment now more than ever. shows.acast.com/takk-og-lov-...

10.09.2025 14:48 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Author Talks: How the best leaders cool down when conflict heats up Polarization is on the riseβ€”but ironically, so is discomfort with disagreement. New research reveals the costs of avoiding conflict and offers a three-part framework for confronting it constructively.

A personal #bucketlist moment -- being interviewed as part of McKinsey's Author Talk series! www.mckinsey.com/featured-ins...

26.08.2025 21:34 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Mediate.com's 'Rising Tides: Raising the Standards of Mediation' Conference The Rising Tides conference is your opportunity to elevate your practice, connect with leaders in the field, and gain cutting-edge tools to navigate today’s mediation practice challenges. Designed wit...

Honored to be the keynote for @Mediate.com's annual conference! Register here and you'll get a copy of my new book CONFLICT RESILIENCE: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In #conflictresilience #mediation mediate.com/mediate-com-...

23.08.2025 07:31 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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So great to speak about #conflictresilience w/Jacob Morgan #conflictresilience #negotiation #conflictresolution podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/h...

18.08.2025 20:58 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Trump & Putin: Deal or Disaster?
Trump & Putin: Deal or Disaster? YouTube video by Bob Bordone

A #negotiation hot-take on the #TrumpPutinSummit. youtu.be/KS3chGyHoQU?...

16.08.2025 03:38 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Happy National Book Lover's Day! Join me in @BostonLogan today from 2:30 to 4:00pm as I sign books to celebrate w/@iHeartRadio's Lisa Donovan #conflictresilience #negotiation #nationalbookloversday

08.08.2025 10:32 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0