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@hilaryshhh

Hedge lawyer. Swan boat rider. Chicago. Perennials not patriarchy. Abolitionist. Sex+. USDA Hardiness Zone 6a. She/her.

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One of the things I love about Chicago is that it's an incredibly courteous city.

12.03.2026 13:22 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Gyms need an "old hag" section. I don't care about "training" or "gains," sonny. I'm just here for osteoporosis prevention.

10.03.2026 17:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

That is not a very fun fact

10.03.2026 17:47 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Fill it with pennies and Scrooge McDuck that shit

10.03.2026 17:33 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Mariah Manson - "All I Want For Christmas is the Beautiful People"
Mariah Manson - "All I Want For Christmas is the Beautiful People" YouTube video by Bill McClintock

youtu.be/A1X3d2zWx94?...

10.03.2026 17:32 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Linda

10.03.2026 12:34 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Can't be. I don't see Muammar Gaddafi.

09.03.2026 23:08 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Can't have. Nobody knows what "the job" is and that includes the President.

09.03.2026 22:50 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh wait it's not just "walking around with no legs"... it's "DIED AND are walking around with no legs."

09.03.2026 22:48 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

First they came for the trans people, and I said nothing because I wasn’t trans. Then they were like actually I’m pretty sure you are trans and I said no I’m not and they went okay well show us your penis then and I said what no get out of my face and they said that one’s a girl get her

06.03.2026 16:05 πŸ‘ 2635 πŸ” 581 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 0

It's not just or even mostly that we don't believe girls. It's that we don't care what they tell us

04.03.2026 14:44 πŸ‘ 52 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 3

Omar's caucus should have supported her in that. His attacks on her heritage were inexcusable.

25.02.2026 05:39 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Okay, Mr. Davidson's "apology" was shit. Did not center the victims, did not acknowledge the harm done to Black people. Classic "sorry if you were offended."
Coprolalia is a disability. Being an insensitive, disrespectful clot isn't.

24.02.2026 00:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Okay, also, BAFTA made a series of terrible decisions here. I'm sure they thought they were doing something really progressive, but what a stupid mess.

23.02.2026 04:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have a lot of empathy for Mr. Davidson. I've read about this type of tic and it sounds like something out of my nightmares.
But expecting Black people to accommodate or forgive real harm because I (a white person with a disability) empathize with the harmdoer *is* white supremacy, sorry.

23.02.2026 01:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

From what I understand, mere awareness that it's deeply harmful to shout it at a Black person could "load" the tic.
Which sounds like a nightmare.
But expecting Black people to be "accommodating" about that kind of harm is definitely white supremacy.
Reading about it was very compassionate of you.

23.02.2026 01:23 πŸ‘ 91 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Every time I see "mogging" I think about cats. It sounds like a verb that means "existing as a cat."

21.02.2026 00:38 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Joke's on him because I'm a billionaire whore nun with kids.

20.02.2026 17:37 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

OMG it's too late now they've touched it

19.02.2026 16:33 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

A publication for conservative young urban working moms could potentially be read by tens of dozens.

18.02.2026 03:15 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Counterpoint: You can just get in the sea

18.02.2026 03:05 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Hochstein ballet had a good rep. Serious about technique and definitely strict, but not evil.

17.02.2026 22:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

My mom found a place with a director who just loved teaching dance to kids. But there were a couple of pretty notorious studios in Rochester and if you wanted to dance in the Nutcracker or whatever that was where the auditions were. My teacher encouraged the effort but provided psychological prep.

17.02.2026 21:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

If growing D-cups hadn't ended me as a dancer, regular interactions with people who made everyone they work with miserable eventually would have. And that would just have meant I "didn't want it badly enough." As if enduring cruelty and verbal abuse was an integral part of the art form.

17.02.2026 20:54 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I was 12, prepping for my first ballet audition, and my teacher warned me the audition coordinator might say horrible things about my body in front of everyone. "Don't let it get to you." It went well, but the thought of facing adults who called young girls "fat cows" almost scared me off.

17.02.2026 20:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Homeland Security Blanket

13.02.2026 05:44 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I am almost 47 years old. Today for the very first time I asked another woman if she'd like to go out on a date. She said she'd love to.
To my fellow midlife-emergent queers: hang in there.

11.02.2026 18:41 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

She was really spiraling

11.02.2026 17:21 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

THEY ARE BUYING UP WAREHOUSES TO HOLD HUMAN BEINGS IN DETENTION INDEFINITELY.

I feel crazy at how everyone is acting like this is normal. These are concentration camps being built right before our eyes. These buildings are not meant to house human beings. People will be caged like cattle and die.

10.02.2026 23:19 πŸ‘ 6448 πŸ” 2406 πŸ’¬ 146 πŸ“Œ 70

Yeah I did a spit-take

11.02.2026 00:44 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0