He insists on not being adorable, btw. I have a different opinion on that.
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He insists on not being adorable, btw. I have a different opinion on that.
Me, in a PSN-Party: "I'll be going to kitchen, I'll mute myself for a sec hun."
My partner, with ADHD: "Oki."
Also my partner, with ADHD, just 30 seconds later:
"Hey Red. Red? Reeed? Reee-heeed? Where is my Reeed? Red? Reeeed... did my Red abandon me? Is there no Red? Siigh. Siiiiiigh. I miss Red."
Listen, you just can't expect me to share a minecraft world with anyone and *not* do silly stuff.
A bee farm in a minecraft world is shown, with the surrounding area redesigned to look like a runway of an airport including a little control tower.
So I got that Minecraft server with my partner, and he did a little bee farm, and he loves it when in the morning "his squadron takes over air superiority", and thus I asked if he minds if I were to "redesign" the area a little bit...
I think that'll do.
#minecraft #bees #notthebees
(Besides, I'm not that guy to "have another random dude every other day"; quite the opposite. But I do have a handful of "friends+" and that does it. Friendship first, but partner comes before anything for me. Gladly, we got to the point where he trusts me with that.)
Yea, pretty much the same here. It was quite an ongoing debate, because my partner basically ONLY had relationships where he ended up being left for "not being enough". Took quite a while, but at this point, it's basically an "I can have some fun and he knows I'm not getting rid of him" agreement.
It's posts like these that really make we wonder how I, the hyper-sexual and super-sex-positive guy, ended up with a basically asexual furry from over the big pond.
Don't get me wrong, I do love that fellow (and that is gladly a mutual feeling), but... still. :D
it's all just art. "porn" is just art that makes you horny, in precisely the way that "horror" is art that makes you scared and "metroidvania" is art that makes you write video essays
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Es ist mir komplett egal, wie albern viele damals "Rdmkr" fanden - aber sowas passiert halt, HrrKschk wenn man alte Titel spielt. Hrhrhr. So nämlich! Bnn! 🍌
I got a great question on my Ramadan thread: do Muslims also need to avoid consumption by proxy in videogames? Does consuming in-game food or drink break the fast? Basically: does your character have to go fast?
The answer is no, unless you happen to be playing Sonic the Hedgehog.
Post reads: People with ADHD have what’s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). It’s an extreme emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection. Your brain can’t regulate the emotional pain, so a small comment feels like a devastating attack. A minor correction feels like total failure. Someone’s tone feels like hatred. It’s not oversensitivity. It’s not being dramatic. Your brain literally can’t modulate the intensity of that emotional response. It’s neurological, not a character flaw.
Post reads: If you love someone with ADHD, understand that tone is a weapon you didn't know you were carrying. A short text or a sigh of frustration isn't just a moment of stress to them, it's a signal of impending exile. Your consistency and reassurance aren't coddling; they are the bridge that helps them cross the gap of their own neurological insecurity.
These were really good posts explaining Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria I had to pull over
On a personal level, this is one of my hardest things to deal with. Thankfully its not constant, and I've learned outward reactive regulation, but inside its still this, and sometimes the sad slips out >> 1/2
(Talking about me, I mean. As I wanna be the better partner. I already love him, he doesn't have to do shit to improve on being adorable. :D)
Interesting. My partner isn't on bluesky, but I just forwarded those screenshots asking for some feedback if he experiences it like that. He doesn't exactly have ADHD, but something super similar - that's a fresh perspective, and there's always room for improvement in terms of "be a better partner".
Me at a wonderful interview on #ard #ardklassik #twitch with Budi about the ARD Gamejam Classic Edition. Later stornothorsten from the berlin @amazefest.bsky.social enters the talk too 🖖🏼💋🦍
Watch here www.twitch.tv/videos/26974...
#ard #gaming #gamejam #classicmusic
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"...illegal, immoral, and unethical in every modern context..."
If it doesn't stop your administration from doing anything, it sure shouldn't stop you from doing something.
asked the “””realfood . gov ai””” about eating babies. it redirected me to grok, which answered my question. glad my taxes are being put to use ☺️
"...illegal, immoral, and unethical in every modern context..."
If it doesn't stop your administration from doing anything, it sure shouldn't stop you from doing something.
(The only person in my feed who probably gets this is @jyotimishra.bsky.social but hey, there goes I guess.)
Had someone named "Morn" in an online game on my team earlier.
Messaged them: "Nice DS9 reference bud."
They never got back to me.
I'm going NUTS over questioning myself - did they just not reply or was it *perfectly on point*?! 🤬
#startrek #trekkies #deepspace9 #ds9
Als merch „Wärters Echte“.
@herrkaschke.com Basteln?
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Eine Portion gebratene Instant Nudeln mit Asia-Gemüse Mix, mit Chop Sticks im Bild auf dem Tellerrand.
Ich kontere heute mal: Migräne verlangte nach Comfy Food, also hab ich heute mal probiert, mit Instant Nudeln anzubraten. Mit einem Schuss Sojasoße und vor allem einer GUTEN Portion Chilliflocken - brauchte ich heute. Für den ersten Versuch SEHR gut gelungen, würde ich sagen, und komplett veggie.
If you are in Seattle, please go patronize this store because this is amazing content/promo 😂 (laughing to keep from crying, and I do kind of low-key want that orange spider plant I have never seen that before)
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That's so Me, every time I grab my 3DS and think "Mmh, been a while since I used that synthie on here..."
#Bandcamp 🩷
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New Lead still peak Animal Crossing because no crafting and breaking tools and recipethon nonsense. A hill I’ll always happily die on.
Hitting the club at a Saturday evening like ya‘ll should.
#animalcrossing #animalcrossingnewleaf #acnl
