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She/her. Enthusiast. Bipolar. Software nerd, glorified mechanic. Cats. Cancer survivor. Chicago transplant in Oklahoma. :)

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Rockwell’s painting re: freedom of speech - a guy standing up in a room full of people speaking up

Rockwell’s painting re: freedom of speech - a guy standing up in a room full of people speaking up

American beer is tasty, refreshing and cheap. All in all, a good thing. #millerlite4eva

10.03.2026 03:49 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It is! If you’re ever in Tulsa this is a guaranteed good time.

10.03.2026 03:40 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
A sticker on a cabinet at this bar reading “mamas don’t let your cowboys grow up to be racists”.

A sticker on a cabinet at this bar reading “mamas don’t let your cowboys grow up to be racists”.

An old gas station price sign on the wall of this bar reading “918” - i do love this town.

An old gas station price sign on the wall of this bar reading “918” - i do love this town.

10.03.2026 03:11 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
A sticker with a basset hound on it reading “do a lil drugs play a lil country music”

A sticker with a basset hound on it reading “do a lil drugs play a lil country music”

10.03.2026 03:03 👍 7 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Vouching for dat ass

10.03.2026 02:47 👍 6 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Me and my friend Bird smiling in a selfie

Me and my friend Bird smiling in a selfie

10.03.2026 02:20 👍 20 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
A neon sign in a bar window proclaiming “Sorry We’re Open” - sorry is red, we’re is white and open is blue.

A neon sign in a bar window proclaiming “Sorry We’re Open” - sorry is red, we’re is white and open is blue.

First beer in a while

10.03.2026 02:05 👍 30 🔁 1 💬 3 📌 0

Sh does enjoy the attention ☕️

10.03.2026 00:43 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
A pretty brown cocker spaniel is laying all stretched out on the back of the sofa.  She has gold eyes and pink and orange tags hanging from her purple collar.  There’s a gray blanket on the back of the sofa.  In the background is our front door with a horseshoe over it for good luck.  🍀

A pretty brown cocker spaniel is laying all stretched out on the back of the sofa. She has gold eyes and pink and orange tags hanging from her purple collar. There’s a gray blanket on the back of the sofa. In the background is our front door with a horseshoe over it for good luck. 🍀

Having coffee with one of my best girlfriends - meet Rosie:

09.03.2026 17:50 👍 320 🔁 10 💬 9 📌 0
an old picture (2021) of my cats when the twins were kittens, maybe 3 months old.  My old cat Ripley (a light gray tabby, bug chubby fellow) is laying on a multicolored rug next to a shiny pillow.  On the pillow are two snoozing kittens, one curled up in a ball, and the other's feet are dangling off the pillow.  They're both tiny gray and brown tabby cats.  It's a very cozy scene.

an old picture (2021) of my cats when the twins were kittens, maybe 3 months old. My old cat Ripley (a light gray tabby, bug chubby fellow) is laying on a multicolored rug next to a shiny pillow. On the pillow are two snoozing kittens, one curled up in a ball, and the other's feet are dangling off the pillow. They're both tiny gray and brown tabby cats. It's a very cozy scene.

This popped up in my photo memories today. The twins will be 5 in May. How the time flies.

08.03.2026 22:58 👍 78 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0

Me, seeing the light of salvation approaching: I forgot to take my meds

07.03.2026 17:51 👍 19 🔁 7 💬 0 📌 0
Geode ice-dye tie-dye shirt.  Rainbow colors

Geode ice-dye tie-dye shirt. Rainbow colors

Rainbow geode 🫡

08.03.2026 01:10 👍 15 🔁 3 💬 1 📌 0

Now more than ever I’m convinced losing Anthony Bourdain meant we lost probably the biggest person on tv who advocated for the wonders of meeting new people and calling anyone online who hated learning new cultures the children they were, ruthlessly to the camera.

07.03.2026 23:55 👍 9543 🔁 1558 💬 132 📌 56
My father sent me a poem via email this morning and it’s very apropos - Stopping By Woods on a Snowy Evening by Robert Frost: 

Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer 
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound's the sweep 
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep, 
And miles to go before I sleep, 
And miles to go before I sleep.

My father sent me a poem via email this morning and it’s very apropos - Stopping By Woods on a Snowy Evening by Robert Frost: Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening Whose woods these are I think I know. His house is in the village though; He will not see me stopping here To watch his woods fill up with snow. My little horse must think it queer To stop without a farmhouse near Between the woods and frozen lake The darkest evening of the year. He gives his harness bells a shake To ask if there is some mistake. The only other sound's the sweep Of easy wind and downy flake. The woods are lovely, dark and deep, But I have promises to keep, And miles to go before I sleep, And miles to go before I sleep.

Dad gets it

07.03.2026 17:58 👍 11 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

A member of ACT UP said that during the peak years of the AIDS crisis in the 1980s: “We went to funerals and buried our friends in the morning, protested in the afternoon and then fucked danced and partied all night.”

Because the world is on fire, it’s on us to live out loud. We need to do it all.

07.03.2026 16:34 👍 1323 🔁 376 💬 12 📌 6

1976 babyyyy

07.03.2026 09:21 👍 11 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0

All the wrong people have imposter syndrome.

07.03.2026 03:01 👍 2081 🔁 405 💬 36 📌 46

DO HARM TO YOUR ENEMIES; TREAT YOURSELF WITH KINDNESS!

07.03.2026 03:31 👍 50 🔁 17 💬 0 📌 0

I love this. I hope it’s fun as hell.

07.03.2026 01:22 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

youtu.be/d18UWu4dRv4

07.03.2026 01:13 👍 6 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

100% friend. Thank you. 🙏🏻

05.03.2026 22:53 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Thank you so much ☺️

05.03.2026 19:13 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Thank you 🙏🏻 💙

05.03.2026 19:02 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

So much better! Thank you!

05.03.2026 11:34 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
I’m laying on my side on a sofa and there is a tabby cat all spread out on me. He’s laying on his side, with his head on my chest and paws stretched out in front of him.

I’m laying on my side on a sofa and there is a tabby cat all spread out on me. He’s laying on his side, with his head on my chest and paws stretched out in front of him.

This one missed me

04.03.2026 23:06 👍 33 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0
A white woman in the back seat of a car, smiling and waving at the camera.  There’s a big goofy white guy in the front seat, taking the picture, also grinning like a maniac.  They’re very happy to be reunited.

A white woman in the back seat of a car, smiling and waving at the camera. There’s a big goofy white guy in the front seat, taking the picture, also grinning like a maniac. They’re very happy to be reunited.

I’m home from the hospital, my brother picked me up.

04.03.2026 22:52 👍 246 🔁 5 💬 18 📌 0

I’m really sorry. Thank you for being my friends.

24.02.2026 19:45 👍 5 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 1

Find a note on my phone that starts “Hi all”

24.02.2026 19:44 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 1

Thank you guys. 💙

24.02.2026 19:44 👍 10 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0