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Courtney Bates-Hardy

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Queer and neurodivergent poet. ANATOMICAL VENUS out now from Radiant Press. she/her

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FIRST PERSON | My spouse asked what kind of woman I was. A life and death moment gave me the answer | CBC News After coming out as trans to her partner, Carrie Biner grappled with knowing who she was as a woman. But when she and other bystanders saw an overdose crisis unfolding and had to respond with urgency,...

My partner wrote a story as well. We wanted them to be kind of connected but also to share different things:

01.03.2026 19:56 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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FIRST PERSON | When my spouse came out as trans, we had to learn who we were all over again | CBC News Courtney Bates-Hardy has always been able to talk to her partner about everything. That openness remained a mainstay of their relationship after her partner told her she was trans and as the pair went...

I wrote a First Person story for CBC that came out yesterday about my partner coming out as trans and the ways our lives changed. There’s so much more to our story, and this is just a small part of it.

01.03.2026 19:54 πŸ‘ 26 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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"I’m back in the therapist’s office with my parents, watching the snow fall."

Excerpt from Courtney Bates-Hardy's (@poetcourtney.bsky.social) poem "πΉπ‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘›π‘˜π‘’π‘›π‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘–π‘›, 2025" + promotional poster for del Toro's πΉπ‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘›π‘˜π‘’π‘›π‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘–π‘› (2025)

Read "πΉπ‘Ÿπ‘Žπ‘›π‘˜π‘’π‘›π‘ π‘‘π‘’π‘–π‘›, 2025" in ISSUE 2.3: longconmag.com/issue-2-3/co...

19.02.2026 01:08 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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two drag queens are sitting next to each other on a couch in front of a pink wall Alt: two drag queens are sitting next to each other on a couch in front of a pink wall and laughing

This is so funny to me because I was such a baby bi when we met πŸ˜‚ Even then!

15.02.2026 22:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Watching Love is Blind is like anthropological to me. It’s this whole other culture that I don’t see myself in at all as a queer person and it’s both fascinating and disturbing.

12.02.2026 02:32 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

About a year ago, someone asked me if I was part of the bacon lettuce tomato community and now it’s become a thing that my partners and I say to each other ALL THE TIME πŸ˜‚

11.02.2026 16:09 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Finished watching Angel for the second time in my life. I still sob over Illyria asking Wesley if he’d like her to lie to him now 😭

07.02.2026 19:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a girl in a hoodie is asking if she is a ghost Alt: a girl in a hoodie is asking if she is a ghost

Me, getting perceived as straight all week with a trans partner and a girlfriend:

06.02.2026 04:52 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Sir Ian McKellen performing a monologue from Shakespeare’s Sir Thomas More on the Stephen Colbert show. Never have I heard this monologue performed with such a keen sense of prescience. Nor have I ever been in this exact historical moment.TY Sir Ian, for reaching us once again.
#Pinks #ProudBlue

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Went to see Markiplier’s Iron Lung last night at the late showing and I haven’t seen so many teenagers in one space since I was a teenager.

01.02.2026 21:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

β€œWhy do things have to happen all the time?” -my gf

01.02.2026 18:34 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It’s written like a historical document with multiple editorial queries and interjections.

31.01.2026 00:29 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

For such a prolific novelist, I’m really finding Margaret Atwood’s memoir to be a slog.

31.01.2026 00:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Definitely not melting down because my new office was too loud today while I was on a deadline. Why would anyone think I’m autistic?

30.01.2026 00:11 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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29.01.2026 04:42 πŸ‘ 95 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 0

There are few things weirder than sitting at your library job while knowing that someone you went to high school with is a block away at the courthouse because they’ve been charged with accessory to murder.

28.01.2026 23:11 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Meet the Alaska Student Arrested for Eating an AI Art Exhibit A conversation with Graham Granger, whose combination of protest and performance art spread beyond campus. β€œAI chews up and spits out art made by other people.”

After the AI bubble pops, put this hero on some stamps.

www.thenation.com/article/soci...

24.01.2026 00:04 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

He literally said, if you do this to my brother, I will attack your girlfriend. Tit for tat! πŸ˜‚

22.01.2026 18:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

CBC producing all these think pieces and interviews about why booksellers are going to judge the Giller Prize this year like it’s a big mystery. Well, I can solve it for you: it’s because most writers don’t want to be associated with the award anymore after the boycott πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

20.01.2026 21:50 πŸ‘ 12 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Are you even lesbians if you don’t get mistaken for sisters? πŸ˜…

17.01.2026 17:41 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Courtney Bates-Hardy Frankenstein, 2025 β€’ POETRY

I wrote a pantoum about Guillermo del Toro's Frankenstein and familial estrangement due to my queerness. I love the film so much that I've watched it 3 times since it came out, and according to GDT, that means I'm married to it. Delighted to have my poem featured in @longconmagazine.bsky.social

14.01.2026 17:03 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Delighted to be featured in this issue of long con!

14.01.2026 16:27 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Side note: I have three brothers, two of whom have been wonderful and welcoming and I’m so grateful for their support.

10.01.2026 16:41 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

We haven’t spoken for over two years. I’ve never met his daughter, and I hope he treats her better than he treated me. He called me a bitch once, but he’ll never call me a bitch again.

10.01.2026 16:36 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

all because I told him to clean up or do something our mom had asked for. My coming out as queer was inherently threatening to the way he thinks women should be and act, so he rejected me completely under the guise that I had done something wrong in our past and deserved to be punished for it.

10.01.2026 16:36 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

that included this incident when we were young. What he didn’t say is that he stopped talking to me b/c I’m queer & my partner is trans, but he didn’t have to. At some point in our teen years, he stopped respecting women & stopped seeing me as human, & it was obvious from him calling me a bitch

10.01.2026 16:36 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I keep thinking about how my brother called me a bitch when we were teens, and I slapped him, because that was how I was taught to deal with bullies. When I came out as queer and my partner came out as trans, my brother stopped talking to me. He had a list of grievances…

10.01.2026 16:36 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Renee Nicole Good, murdered by ICE, was a prize-winning poet. Here’s that poem. Renee Nicole Good, 37, mother to a six-year-old boy, was murdered earlier today by an ICE agent in Minneapolis, a few blocks from her home. According to the Minnesota Star Tribune: [An ICE agent] s…

β€œi want back my rocking chairs, / solipsist sunsets, / & coastal jungle sounds...”

A poem by Renee Nicole Good, who was murdered by ICE earlier today.

lithub.com/renee-nicole...

08.01.2026 03:53 πŸ‘ 5156 πŸ” 2442 πŸ’¬ 58 πŸ“Œ 119

So uh, is anyone else worried about Star Trek leaving Netflix in a few days??

01.01.2026 18:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

King Sorrow by @joe-hill.bsky.social is my 150th read of 2025, and what a book to finish out the year on. I hated to see it end but I needed to know how it was going to end. An incredibly moving book about the divisive times we live in and the compassion we need to get through them.

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