Kahuna

I can understand why Belle wants to use the strap on more. My preference for sex with my wife is oral on her, but she still wants PIV about once a month or so.

Great update as always Thumper. It gets me thinking though as you’re now pussy free but Belle is also cock free. I know from what you have written she still has orgasms, but I do wonder if women see being cock free in the way we view being pussy free?

I get that. My wife has a similar perspective.

Do you think she ever would? I assume you are encouraging of it?

I would be as well! We try sleeves from time to time which is good. I don’t feel much whilst wearing it, so difficult to cum, but my wife can get off riding me with it.
The visual of wearing a strapon whilst caged is soooo hot!!!!

I have always wondered if she played. I think some of your earlier posts on your blog alluded to it. So with you permanently locked, I was intrigued if she still wanted intercourse. I guess the answer is yes.
Also read your latest blog post. Love that she wants you to use the strapon. So hot!

Again, very similar to my situation.

Does she ever tease you to get you leaking. In my case my wife will tickle my balls a bit but it’s mainly focused on oral for her as I’ve messaged previously.

So as a follow up AMA is Belle encouraging of you with your chastity?

Makes sense. Quarter of a day for the year. Was Belle impressed with you achieving 8 hours unlocked last year?

So what’s your unlock goal for 2026? It’s going to be hard to top 8 hours in 2025.

I love these little vinaigrettes of yours from time to time. Belle can be such a tease!

I thought that might be the reason and it makes sense. I’ve been reading your blog for years and as my wife and I have moved more and more to one sided sex, I can appreciate the desire of chastity even more.

Yep when my wife’s friend used the word ‘pleaser’, I thought that captured the way I am perfectly.

Yep that’s my wife. It’s not her thing whilst it’s certainly mine! Likewise from the few time in my life I’ve had head I’ve never cum. We had the discussion many years ago and agreed it would only be me giving oral, so that’s permanent for us and I never expect she will suck me.

Yes that is certainly me as well. I love watching my wife cum. Even this morning post NYE celebrations (we’re in Australia) when we went to bed I went down on her to welcome in 2026 before she rolled over and left me dripping and on edge.

Clean up if my favourite thing to do. Sometimes after licking my cum from her pussy, my wife will say “You’ve had pussy 3 ways” by that she means I went down on her before sex, pussy for sex and freshly fucked pussy to clean up.

I think in part I’m a visual person and very much a pleaser, whereas being kept on edge and in denial ramps up my horniness. Perhaps that’s why I’m attracted to not cumming for extended periods and chastity.
Do you think it’s part of the attraction for you?
Sorry long story to get to my question.

Similarly when I was younger I had several guy on guy experiences (with 3 different guys) and it was one way. I serviced and sucked them to completion and then I jacked off after. I didn’t want anything in return, I was happy to get them off as I am very happy to get my wife off with no expectation.

I’m not complaining at all, I prefer it that way. Post intercourse I also do clean up. It’s rare not to. She says she enjoys it because I enjoy it, but cleaning up is the only time she squirts, so she seems to enjoy it more than she lets on. And clean up is unprompted. She just sits on my face.

It got me thinking as in my relationship with my wife it’s the exact opposite. Oral sex is one way only with me going down on her once a week (or more if she’s in the mood). We have been married more than 20 years and I think she has sucked me 3 times but only in a 69 and never to completion.

So a sort of question/comment/observation/feedback. I was having a conversation with one of my wife’s friends the other night after a few too many drinks a she said ‘I’m a pleaser when it comes to guys.’ So asked what she meant and she explained she likes to get guys off with head jobs so they cum.

I would prefer to be in your shoes so to speak as I think being caged removes the temptation to get off whilst edging.

And I had to tell my wife to go easy with tickling my balls. Most of my focus was on pussy eating, which helps me feel satisfied. When I finally did cum, it took less than 30 seconds and there was plenty for me to clean up.

It was and sometimes not so much, although if you’re literally talking hard, then i was (a lot) and leaking.
It took huge self discipline and once i got to eight weeks or so, i thought i would cum just with light touch, which is hard as I shave bald every day!

I’m super impressed. Your journey to long term chastity is next level. Earlier in the year I achieved 10 weeks no cumming but unlocked, which is challenging not to jerk off. Not sure I could do it again without being pierced and locked. Might make it my 2026 goal!

Damn, I missed the AMA. 17 hours too late.

Wow! On track for less than half a day unlocked for the year. I’ve followed your blog for many years now and it’s incredible to think how far you have progressed from where you started with a basic CB plastic device (from memory) and no PA piercing.
My 10 weeks no cumming pales in comparison!

So I hit 9 weeks, on for 10. My wife has said there will be a lot for me to clean up with some ‘old school’ sex to celebrate.

To add this, is more of a test for myself and to show my wife I can go for extended periods without orgasm. I am aiming to achieve 10 weeks, but long term I would prefer chastity so the decision about release is taken out of my hands!