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Erin Ekins (she/her)

@queerlyautistic

32. Autistic. Queer. Fat. Fangirl. Wearer of fab earrings. Author of 'Queerly Autistic: The Ultimate Guide for LGBTQIA+ Teens on the Spectrum'.

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Do NOT open your door for any authority unless they have a warrant — from a court, signed by a judge.

NO warrant, NO entry.

If they arrest you, you ALWAYS have the right to remain silent, even if they don’t read you any rights.

The ONLY thing to say: “I want a lawyer.”

15.02.2025 02:56 👍 12204 🔁 3965 💬 207 📌 133

Anti-autistic ableism isn't just deadly for autistic people.

When 'tackling the autism epidemic' = systematically attacking vaccines, it means anti-autistic ableism is deadly for all of society.

And you can't push back against that threat without centring the fight against anti-autistic ableism.

15.02.2025 18:33 👍 36 🔁 17 💬 3 📌 0

I'd also like to mention that THIS is exactly why seemingly proposed plans to cut the Access to Work scheme and put more responsibility on employers to accommodate disabled people will NEVER work.

15.02.2025 18:21 👍 11 🔁 4 💬 0 📌 0

The doctor who claimed MMR “causes autism” lost his license for falsifying data and also had developed a vaccine to compete with MMR, so he made it up to make money. Don’t come into my mentions with this shit.

15.02.2025 14:58 👍 885 🔁 252 💬 29 📌 6

They have never cared.

And, like I said, this isn't news to a lot of us. We already knew this.

But it will be an educational and radicalising moment for some, so let it be that.

Do not put your trust in corporations and companies. They aren't here for us.

WE have to be here for us.

15.02.2025 18:13 👍 8 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

I don't care how many times they put up a Pride flag, or kneel, or advertise that they're a disabled friendly employer.

The moment force is removed, or they think they can make a profit without being inclusive, then they will drop all pretence and happily regress, because they DO NOT CARE.

15.02.2025 18:11 👍 8 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0

Inclusivity within most corporations has come from one of either two things: force (ie. it's the fucking law) or profit-incentive (ie. they think it benefits their margins and shareholders to appear to be more progressive). But this shit isn't honest, isn't genuine, and it isn't baked in. Ever.

15.02.2025 18:09 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Not that this is news to many of us, but the past few months have really shone fresh light on how corporations are not and will never be on your side.

They have to be forced to be even tepidly progressive and inclusive, and when that force is taken away, they'll drop everyone in an instant.

15.02.2025 18:07 👍 14 🔁 3 💬 1 📌 1

People will say "what, at a time like this, how is this your biggest issue?" and it's not my biggest thing but it's a small thing you can do in yourself that primes you for noticing things and being a better accomplice and support and community member.

14.02.2025 04:28 👍 55 🔁 15 💬 2 📌 1

(Regarding the hope that people will stop using ableist takes about evil people.)

How we TALK about people shapes how we TREAT people. If you take it as a given that verbal abuse isn't right, doesn't that reinforce the idea that physical abuse isn't right?

14.02.2025 07:36 👍 21 🔁 9 💬 1 📌 0

The effect of all the worst, biggest sex pest fuckups on earth claiming autism as an excuse for their dipshittery, will be increased eugenics.

Each time one of these dipshits announces autism as a justification, they cement the public perception of autism as dangerous, antisocial, predatory, etc

13.02.2025 05:05 👍 838 🔁 173 💬 15 📌 5
A white trans person (he/them) with dark undercut hair and blue eyes, and their dog Tasha, a black and white pitty-foxhound mix. Both are smiling.

A white trans person (he/them) with dark undercut hair and blue eyes, and their dog Tasha, a black and white pitty-foxhound mix. Both are smiling.

My partner MousePounder wearing a Star Trek T-shirt with his arm around our dog Tasha, a black and white pitty-foxhound mix. She's standing alert and excited looking slightly to the left of the camera. He has a smiley face emoji over his face for privacy. The background is blurred.

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My partner MousePounder wearing a Star Trek T-shirt with his arm around our dog Tasha, a black and white pitty-foxhound mix. She's standing alert and excited looking slightly to the left of the camera. He has a smiley face emoji over his face for privacy. The background is blurred. Visibility Tags: #HelpFolksLive2025 #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #HelpSky #CommunityAid #CommunityAidRequest #SurvivalCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdFund

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08.02.2025 22:49 👍 111 🔁 120 💬 5 📌 57
The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights.

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The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights. SIGBI followed by a next arrow

The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights.

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The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights. SIGBI followed by a next arrow

The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights.

SIGBI followed by a next arrow

The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights. SIGBI followed by a next arrow

The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights.

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The Stonewall Inn and The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative are outraged and appalled by the recent removal of the word 'transgender' from the Stonewall National Monument page on the National Park Service website. This blatant act of erasure not only distorts the truth of our history, but it also dishonors the immense contributions of transgender individuals - especially transgender women of color - who were at the forefront of the Stonewall Riots and the broader fight for LGBTQ+ rights. SIGBI

The Stonewall Inn released a response to the National Parks Service removing the word transgender from the park outside of the Inn. A great reminder that we have to look after each other

14.02.2025 03:29 👍 26718 🔁 9735 💬 16 📌 18

'Access to Work' is a badly administered and bizarrely inaccessible scheme.

It's also one of the only things the UK government does to help disabled people to access work at all.

14.02.2025 08:45 👍 23 🔁 9 💬 2 📌 0
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Good morning to this man, and this man only #bbcqt

14.02.2025 08:04 👍 21566 🔁 5983 💬 528 📌 486

Some members of the queer community need to be strongly schooled about the shoulders of the strong and brave trans people upon which they stand. It seems they’re forgetting who they owe so much to.

There will be no trans exclusion or erasure. We will not allow it to happen. We must fight it.

14.02.2025 06:56 👍 126 🔁 25 💬 0 📌 2

If the government passes the buck back to employers to make reasonable adjustments for disabled employees, a proportion of employers will simply and quietly decide they'd rather not bother, and hire someone else

14.02.2025 07:43 👍 89 🔁 9 💬 2 📌 0

This is bananas. Access to Work is a scheme that specifically helps disabled people work in paid employment.

The minister's comments suggest too many people know about it so it needs paring back - and responsibility shifted to employers, who as we know just lurve more responsibilities

14.02.2025 07:41 👍 208 🔁 92 💬 14 📌 10
Graphic with a red to black gradient background. At the top it says 'Roses are red, Violets are blue, Do what you're told,' surrounded by small pink and red hearts at either side. Below this is an illustration of a cracked pink heart with an arrow through it. In the heart it says 'and don't be you.'. Below this it says 'LGBT+ Conversion practices are abuse.' At the bottom of the graphic is a qr code and the Equality Network logo.

Graphic with a red to black gradient background. At the top it says 'Roses are red, Violets are blue, Do what you're told,' surrounded by small pink and red hearts at either side. Below this is an illustration of a cracked pink heart with an arrow through it. In the heart it says 'and don't be you.'. Below this it says 'LGBT+ Conversion practices are abuse.' At the bottom of the graphic is a qr code and the Equality Network logo.

This Valentine's Day we have digital billboards across the city centres of Glasgow & Aberdeen, and a digital ad van in Edinburgh, to raise awareness of harmful conversion practices. If you spot our ad, tag us & use #EndConversionPracticesScotland.

equality-network.org/EndConversionPracticesScotland

14.02.2025 09:02 👍 47 🔁 33 💬 1 📌 4

Another fab #StarterPack

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Whom I’m honoured to be on the board with

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10.02.2025 18:32 👍 12 🔁 6 💬 1 📌 0

Every time we see reports of the number of autism diagnoses going up, I see people responding with 'alarm' and 'concern', when all I feel is relief.

Because every rise in number represents less people living their whole lives struggling to understand why everything is just so much harder for them.

07.02.2025 19:24 👍 244 🔁 40 💬 4 📌 1

A fine day to remember that if you think that DEI hiring policies means that unqualified people are getting jobs, then what you actually believe is that cisallohet abled neurotypical white men are somehow naturally the only people qualified for certain jobs.

And there's a fucking word for that.

07.02.2025 16:47 👍 45 🔁 12 💬 0 📌 0

All of this, and let me add...

-If you are in charge of any kind of space (store, library, office, house of worship, online communities, etc), you need to be doing everything you can to make it safe for trans people AND hostile to transphobes.

07.02.2025 16:34 👍 263 🔁 112 💬 3 📌 1

So far, there's a lot more evidence that fighting back can work than that it can't, whether it's through the courts, mobilizing public opinion, or even in some reported cases GOP politicians complaining.

06.02.2025 16:55 👍 934 🔁 279 💬 7 📌 8

Ooh, wow, there's a lot of you who have accumulated whilst I've been away!

Apologies for not being more active this year - I've been working on final touches for my next book (I hope to share news soon!) and dealing with a family tragedy simultaneously.

Hoping to see all of you more on here soon!

07.02.2025 15:20 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0

Want to make friends when you're autistic but also want to be on your own is hard actually.

07.02.2025 12:32 👍 183 🔁 20 💬 6 📌 3

I'm so exciiiiited!!!

21.01.2025 17:29 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

My present-purchasing friends and family have never had an easier time 🤣

13.01.2025 21:02 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Selfie of me, a white woman in my early 30s with a buzzcut and red rimmed glasses, peaking out happily from behind two compendiums of The Old Guard comics which I'm holding in front of my face.

Selfie of me, a white woman in my early 30s with a buzzcut and red rimmed glasses, peaking out happily from behind two compendiums of The Old Guard comics which I'm holding in front of my face.

Pro-tip: if you're going to dramatically swan-dive arse-over-tit into a brand new hyperfixation, make sure you do it a few weeks before your birthday.

13.01.2025 20:54 👍 12 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0