I think itโs an (understandable!) error to frame the way bigots talk about trans people as โinvalidatingโ or as thinking weโre โnot realโ
They know we exist! The point is that they want to exterminate us, in whatever ways they can, because theyโre seeking a world where thatโs no longer the case
18.12.2025 17:30
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A weirdly positive side effect of living in this fascist hellscape is that I have been reading a lot more and I think it is actually helping me stay sane right now. And fueling my writing, which also helps me stay sane. Sooooโฆyeah. Thereโs that, I guess.
18.12.2025 17:32
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Iโm reading Kushielโs Dart for the first time and Joscelin has entered the chatโฆโฆI see this will be an enemies to lovers arc and I canโt WAIT
But also, Guy ๐ญ
17.12.2025 20:05
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PROPUBLICA???!!!!! I am flabbergasted
17.12.2025 20:03
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Something I wish we were currently better at grasping is that sometimes bad characters will do bad things. Not every villain has to be a rapist who eats baked babies, but they will be racists, bigots, assholes, and violent bastards you want to see lose. That doesn't mean I, the author, agree.
16.12.2025 20:53
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Still thinking about this and coming back to another line in the piece which is that it hasnโt even led to efficiency โ so what is even the point, then?? Youโre taking a reputational and creative L for literally no reason!
16.12.2025 21:23
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The Fetch Speaks by western hemlock
Your friend has something to tell you.
If you like interactive fiction I just published this short piece based on the fetch (no relation to Mean Girls), a figure in Irish folklore, with a trans spin on it. Iโve been getting into video game writing & narrative design and this is the first attempt Iโm sharing. Iโm quite proud of it!
15.08.2025 23:35
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Baldurโs Gate 3 literally made me a gamer. I did not play video games before that game. I was so looking forward to another one from Larian, but nowโฆ
Beyond disappointed. Especially as an author who has had their work stolen to train genAI.
16.12.2025 18:30
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Whaaaat NOOOO!!!! Thatโs so upsetting.
16.12.2025 18:24
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Primary them all and block anybody who comes with the โat this crucial juncture the most important thing is that we win.โ if they believed that they wouldnโt do this and with friends like them nobody needs enemies
16.12.2025 03:12
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Worst-Case Scenario
In recent author life news, WORST-CASE SCENARIO got a starred review from School Library Journal!
They loved my portrayal of OCD and of diverse teens with full, rich lives and romance in the midst of mental health struggles ๐ฅฐ
And called the book a โsafe environmentโ ๐ฅน
13.12.2025 02:20
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Right there with you! Or when they twist what you say into something they can be mad about. BYE
12.12.2025 21:47
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Iโll be talking to my agent today about this and I suggest all authors in tradpub do the same. We can play a role in helping our publishers fight this.
12.12.2025 17:57
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I always wonder with stuff like this why publishers arenโt justโฆhonest. Like, why not just say โHey yโall, most book printers are overseas and backed up but we are working as hard as we can to get you more copies of this book.โ
The industry is allergic to transparency to a self-defeating degree.
12.12.2025 07:06
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My cat loves sleeping on my lap and I can always feel the moment that she really falls asleep because the full weight of her head relaxes onto my leg and itโs the best feeling in the entire world ๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน๐ฅน
12.12.2025 07:03
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LETโS GOOOOOOOOO!!!!! Ready to pledge more years of my life to another Larian game!!!!!!
12.12.2025 06:00
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Bluesky feels like the only social platform left that isnโt a hellscape of ads with a soul-crushingly opaque algorithm and never ending circular rage bait discourse. Itโs nice here. Peaceful. I could get used to thisโฆ
11.12.2025 04:53
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Oh my god so THATโS how books are using Taylor Swift lyrics as titles without getting sued into the ground!!! I HAD NO IDEA
11.12.2025 04:49
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I am once again asking for the ability to toggle off seeing other peopleโs reposts in my feed without having to mute the individual.
10.12.2025 07:11
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my holy bible
09.12.2025 21:02
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I'm running for president on the platform that anyone who writes a review of a YA book and says something to the effect of "it reads young" is forever banned off the internet.
09.12.2025 17:39
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The queer and trans songs we loved in 2025 | Xtra Magazine
From Amaarae to Rosalรญa to Ezra Furman, hereโs what we had on repeat this year
Got to add my pick, โKFC Santerรญaโ by Cain Culto, to this list for @xtramagazine.com! One of my favorite things about that song is the fact he sampled a squeaky chair for the beat ๐ช
09.12.2025 18:14
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Gonna go even further: don't refer to it as "consuming media" when doing this. You aren't a consumer - it's not a product. You read books. You look at art. You watch movies and/or videos. Be careful about word choice.
Reject "consume" and REJECT "CONTENT."
IT IS ART.
YOU ARE ENGAGING WITH ART.
22.09.2025 02:59
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Ray Stoeveโs Newsletter
YA author Ray Stoeve shares monthly spotlights of trans YA & MG books, updates on their own books and writer life, culture recommendations and advocacy opportunities.
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22.09.2025 22:08
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You started with saying youโre โgenuinely curiousโ but the rest of your reply indicates you actually arenโt, so I wonโt be engaging further. Have a nice day!
31.08.2025 02:02
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The โfirst trans YAโ I talked abt last time actually WASNโT the first! How do we decide who is โfirstโ in trans YA, anyway? Today Iโm talking abt those elusive milestones, how we decide what qualifies, and what we learn when we ask that question.
29.08.2025 21:28
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Oooh havenโt heard of this one! Sounds perfect, thank you! The environmental Easter eggs is something I love abt BG3.
17.08.2025 21:37
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Alsoโฆnow what lmfao?! I followed BG3 with E33 and the bar is SO high for what my third ever video game will be ๐ taking recommendations! Story & world-building is most important to me, followed by exploration & accessible combat. And thereโs gotta be an easy mode (I played E33 on story mode).
17.08.2025 19:15
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I finished Expedition 33 two days ago and Iโm still thinking about that final choice. Absolutely brilliant writing and follow through on a theme until the very end. Iโve been learning a lot about what makes a meaningful choice in a video game and that one was a perfect example.
17.08.2025 19:09
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