John

Is it me or has the # of active companions in the vancouver area dropped a ton in the last six months? Are there only a select few holding out?

Im so glad you’re not taking it personally, i know this stuff has caused alot of stress for you before! So glad to hear you are handling it better. It doesn’t make the actions of these guys right, but its important to not let these guys rattle anyone

Question all European Companions, how do you handle deposits from international tourists, such as Canadians? And im not familiar with SW laws in most european countries. Is enforcement on johns = to , < than or > the USA or Canada? Any thoughts?

Im getting tired of these review boards personally. One section of perb is now domimated by these old farts who clearly have no respect for women or the service providers, and the language used and the way they talk pisses me off, and this is coming from the client side

I think the most misunderstood thing about men is that sex isnt the primary goal of our love or interest in women.. its being seen, feeling safe with our emotions, being respected and sharing wonderful life experiences together. There’s more joy in that than simply having a romp

Oh boy...

They all brought a different benefit to my life. So when I grieve the loss of a particular person, im grieving the loss of that person, and what they bring to my life, and im not going to find that experience again. Thats the truth

Im a big believer that there is no such thing as “better”, that instead, we find other connections that offer a different perspective and a different connection, but there is no comparison. Of all the connections i’ve ever had with people, especially lovers, not once would i compare any of them.

When you meet someone and that person uniquely brings you certain benefits and enjoyment to your life, when they leave your daily presence and the connection changes, oftentimes, you’ll hear “you’ll find better” or “you’ll find someone that meets what you need later on”.

The shared intimacy, the connection, the fun date nights, its all amazing. And i imagine it feels incredibly special to the companion as well if the connection is solid

I wish i could talk to someone in this industry about the recent heartache and pain im going through. So much has changed in the last 30+ days and i feel so alone :(

Invest in someone else for awhile. I’ve put myself out there for more than 2 years only to end up back to the same place. Everytime i finally feel happy and feel full of life, something happens and its exhausting, mentally taxing and exhausting.

Invest, i will do everything to make her feel happy and appreciated, and all i ever want is a chance for that connection to be long lasting. I am totally okay with the container that exists in these relationships, but i still will care about them. I just don’t know if i have the energy to full on

It’s tough as hell. I don’t mind the transactional nature of what im getting involved in, the benefits far outweigh the costs, but real connection building is still my priority. When i connect with a companion long term, ill treat her like id treat anyone i care about. I will give warmth, i will

The more depressed i tend to be. I just want things to work long term, and i want to find someone i can thoroughly build a connection with long term, these one year bonds start to get to me, because it takes a year to fully connect to someone… so to do it all over again just once its peaking

Life has taken a turn the last 30 days… things rarely turn out to work in my favour, and this idea of “find the next” person is always interesting to me.. how many “next” people are there? In theory, billions, but sometimes, i just want stability and consistency, and the more inconsistency i find

The easiest solution is to hire a SW’er as mentioned above. If your goal is to find a “unicorn”, yea that will likely never happen ethically

I was there once, now im 6 digits in debt 🤣🤣🤣 but my desire for connection and intimacy supercedes my desire to rid my debt 🤣🤣 i hope you enjoy it! Being debt free is the best thing ever❤️

Fun fact: Rates are non negotiable and seeing a provider is a luxury not a right. If you can’t pay, don’t do it.

This sounds like a fun idea just to do with your part-time BF, just to get the acknowledgement haha

Im planning another trip to MTL in the late summer, it might become a yearly tradition for me :D

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Thats an interesting perspective

Johnara sounds good too (or whatever combo goes with my real name) but i love all these provider combo names 😍 Kimara anyone? @kimpeccable.bsky.social @inaraoneill.bsky.social

Happy to be a simp!

Worth every second gentlemen!!! Go see this beauty in person!

I thought my first arrangement partner had retired but i just saw she’s back and rebranded, i wish i could go back and make amends, she was the best person I ever had the privilege to see in person. Id literally give up just about anything to go back and fix things. Too bad time machines dont exist

These same men would complain if $150/hour was standard, these guys will always be the worst

I am incredibly sorry this happened to you, this guy is a douche and deserves to never see another provider again.