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Jess πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

@jess-does-lyfe

trans dude | dad | Earthseed enthusiast | disaster prep | living in Asheville πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆβ›°οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ§—β€β™‚οΈβ˜•οΈπŸ²

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Technically it will grow back but that will only be relevant if you’re still alive

06.03.2026 23:56 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

move slow and repair things

06.03.2026 12:06 πŸ‘ 2880 πŸ” 897 πŸ’¬ 5 πŸ“Œ 0

My kid has a bad cough and has not been sleeping much which means I have dutifully been rotating between my bed and her floor every 1-2 hours for the past several nights and I am very very upset about this stupid Spring Forward daylight savings bs that’s happening Sunday.

06.03.2026 13:12 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

When it comes to the South, national queer/trans media tends to veer between doomerism and exultation.

By now you've probably heard that several prominent anti-trans Democrats lost primaries on Tuesday. This is, of course, good. But it ain't the whole story.

A🧡, y'all, from @transnews.network

05.03.2026 22:02 πŸ‘ 170 πŸ” 66 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 1

This is a new to me song and I’m struggling to post this imperfect learning of it.
But fuck it, we ball.

06.03.2026 02:05 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I was put to work rolling quarters, but in exchange I had free reign on the gumballs. They were the huge, multicolored ones so I really couldn’t eat that many. Smart move on her part.

05.03.2026 21:00 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yep 😞

05.03.2026 16:04 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Oh yea that’s super problematic.
When I was a teenager my mom had me watch a documentary about a trans man who got ovarian cancer and she convinced me it was because he was on T.
*puts a quarter in therapy jar*

05.03.2026 14:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Watched something on YouTube last night and was served a PE ad.

That’s not actually a problem of mine, but thanks for the male affirmation. πŸ˜‰

05.03.2026 14:51 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ah ok. Gotcha

05.03.2026 14:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Need? It’s an option not a necessity.

I feel like this is coming from the whole β€œworth of a β€˜female’ body is reproduction” tho.

05.03.2026 14:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Preview
Season 3 Episode 9: The Albatross Around Our Necks | TransSpotting Get more from TransSpotting on Patreon

This past weekend I chatted with some friends about trans news in Kansas (and war in Iran but that episode isn’t out yet).

Here’s the Patreon link (goes public next week but please support the pod). www.patreon.com/posts/season...

05.03.2026 14:02 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

As interesting as this is - I wanna know what people’s grandmothers did for a living -

Paternal: worked for the same bank for 40 years rising from teller to VP of the branch (basically she ran it)

Maternal: entrepreneur of many pursuits including for a brief time in my childhood - gumball machines

05.03.2026 13:45 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Yep. Sounds about right

05.03.2026 13:34 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I gave a β€˜wassup’ nod one time to a trans guy at the gym and he didn’t react well, so I don’t do that anymore.
I could make a male loneliness joke here, but I think he was just stealth and I picked up on something I wasn’t supposed to.

05.03.2026 13:31 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

When I see trans women working retail or service industry I give a simple compliment (earrings, clothes, makeup). And they get it without a full πŸ‘‹πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈβ¬‡οΈ
Conversely if I see another trans guy I completely ignore them like the invisible man they are.

05.03.2026 13:21 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

It bothers me every time I hear someone talk about American soldiers dying.
They’ll say something like β€œ6 soldiers. How many more?”
And I think β€œ1000+ civilians. How many more?”
There is no one life that’s worth more than another life. Why do we value Americans more? We drop the bombs on them dammit

05.03.2026 13:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’―

05.03.2026 13:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

For what? For whom? Why?
What did they do to deserve this?

05.03.2026 12:52 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t like US soldiers dying, but what’s really digging into my conscience is all the civilians that US military is killing. Every soldier knows this is a possibility when they sign up. These civilians are just trying to live in their homes, in their schools, in their countries. And we kill them

05.03.2026 12:50 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Small world! I work for an org that works with this org. They do good stuff!
Best of luck with the fundraiser!

05.03.2026 12:23 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Hello! Getting closer to my goal of helping the most vulnerable Angelenos. Please help or RT if you can ❀️

fundraisers.hakuapp.com/molly-knight-1

04.03.2026 22:01 πŸ‘ 622 πŸ” 370 πŸ’¬ 8 πŸ“Œ 7

And mazel ofc!

04.03.2026 22:12 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ”₯

04.03.2026 22:10 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

AI used for writing has this kinda hard to pin down but clearly nonhuman cadence and just feels so manufactured like living in a very plastic disposable world that I do not want to be a part of.

04.03.2026 15:48 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I do like that it takes questions better than google if I’m coding solo or trying to learn a new concept, but overall it’s not worth much.

04.03.2026 15:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It can be useful for coding in limited circumstances, like setting up a new project or troubleshooting but only with the understanding that it will be wrong a lot.
It’s mostly a scraper so sometimes faster than looking through stack overflow…

04.03.2026 15:42 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ–€

04.03.2026 04:21 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

One of the worst things that social media commentary has done has been to comvince oppressed people that we don't need each other.

04.03.2026 01:05 πŸ‘ 230 πŸ” 52 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1

Knowing who to be mad at really is praxis.

19.02.2026 19:26 πŸ‘ 682 πŸ” 162 πŸ’¬ 10 πŸ“Œ 0