Life appears to be 40% work 60% coaxing child to stay in bed
Life appears to be 40% work 60% coaxing child to stay in bed
Life is absolutely relentless has been for months. How do I make it stop?
Ah bugger. I think Iβm realising the thing I wanted to do, Iβm not going to be asked to do, even though it was promised, and itβs now taking me away from other stuff I want to do. π€
Didnβt see my phone for literally five minutes. 17 whatβs app messages. Parenting is insane
Clearly need to do less but earn more and live more. Feel burnt out af
Spread so thin, partly work, but partly refusing to compromise on the things I want/need to do for a change πͺ
How many relationships quietly die due to SEN? Shouldnβt be a taboo to say it either. Pretty much single these days.
Iβm confident that three days total bed rest, which I ainβt getting, might take the edge off my broken state for a bit
I just need two minutes of not taking any questions
I love these guys, but they defo seem to think Iβm full time, and Iβm Uber stressed about it all. Do I mention it a FIFTH time
I still maintain, parents today are unnecessarily running around like headless chickens, organising shit, their kids will not remember, then losing it with each other, siting unequal βmental load.β Just be with your kids. Ours remember Covid so fondly. Why? We spent so much quality time with them.
Artworking stuff from the kids playcentre. The struggle is absolutely fucking real, as they say
Full of ASD/ADHD son worry at the moment. Glue ear op, choosing schools, his anxiety π₯
Bit tired and lethargic all day. Then last hour I get an idea for something, mock it up and get excited about how it could work in practice. Think thatβs design for you.
SEND to us means often a 2-3 hr rigmarole of getting him to eat tea. Then the same again getting him to bed. Tired
Iβm either crushingly bored with work or burnt out. Likely the latter
I still think parents (us Inc) tie themselves in knots with the amount of pressure they place on kids to try everything. Then wonder why theyβre skint and shattered. The curmudgeon speaks again.
Gets a part-time job, gets ALL the freelance work. We know what would happen if I dropped the pt job (which Iβm not) π€
I think (some) clients donβt really want a designer. Itβs someone who knows which buttons to press in Adobe CS. Partly why Canva, AI and the likes is a big threat to the design industry?
Shatteringly tired and bored tbh today
Design by committee, never a good thing. No one person taking the lead. My emails suggest another long day of revisions to no particular end, on a job which really doesnβt merit the time devoted to it. Happy Monday all π΄ x
Never understood when a person doesnβt fancy doing a job, rather than saying βno thanksβ they prefer to fall from the face of the earth ππ€·ββοΈ
Locked out his kids YouTube app and discussed with him. Letβs keep it simple, with one aim he can focus on. Donβt hit your sister. Do that for a week, it comes back. π π€·ββοΈ got to try #adhd night x
Genuine question. How do you discipline a child with ADHD? Sure, a high proportion of bad behaviour is the condition, but thereβs got to be some shithousery we need to work on, even if itβs only 5%. Being taken for mugs imo. Take away a nice thing. Fuck all effect.
Once you give up drinking, people who do drink become really fucking annoying
I may just be old and a βLudditeβ with regards to AI, but currently finding it all a bit depressing with regard to design. Tell me Iβm wrong, somebody π₯
Bored with long evenings coaxing a child into bed multiple times tbh.
First thing I do when get in. Close blinds and curtains. Everyone at home seems content to live in a goldfish bowl.
βIt gets easierβ they said. That statement was not intended for SEN kids Iβm sure.
Pity the woman who lives next door. Exceptionally understanding or deaf