Mistress DragonFly

All I want for christmas....
Is a man who knows his place and obeys without question!

#Femdom #FLR #FemaleLedRelationship

I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.

The perfect way to to make chaste and submissive men servile and obedient.

Happiness is; A female-led relationship!
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.

Last night was absolutely wonderful.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.

Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.

If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣

This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.

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The #edgeomatic was a success but a bit more difficult tu use and calibrate than I thought. I'll write my review of the device in a later post.

Yes it it ended up being a pussyfree weekend. I've been thinking of removing the privilege since our summer weekend. It's definitely not permanent, but I want my cunt to be even more of a rare treat. He came in SO many other ways, though. He was completely dry when I locked his cage again last night

This last period is only 48 days. The 4th "love weekend" this year will be Dec 28-31. In 2026 there will be only 3.

We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.

The car is packed and ready. We take off early tomorrow morning. Just unlocking his cage and giving him his first quick "reward" 🤣 before leaving.

#7: On Sunday he will be well spent and not very eager 😈. It will be a nice time for me to restrain him to the bed again and bring out "The Sucker". He is going to be completely dry and begging for mercy before I lock him back into #chastity for the last 50 days of the year. Video by The Shackler.

#6: Throughout the weekend there will be a lot of dirty talk and #SPH #humiliation. Simply because my husband gets so turned on by it. Comparing his tiny penis to my 10" Mr. perfect dildo, mocking his stamina, real hung men vs his #pussyfree lifestyle, making him suck and orally worship my dildos...

Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends?

A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.

This was a very good piece on prostate play. Understanding how the prostate work is the key to understanding the male orgasm, and once you do it's way easier to get started with male #chastity.

Yesterday was just maintenance, but it had to be proper because there won't be any next weekend.

I tried uploading a photo of his bruised behind, but it turned out as all black. Is that some kind of Bsky censorship?

My husband was unable to sit down at work today after yesterday's rather harsh maintenance #spanking. It's a good thing his office building is equipped with standing desks 🤣. He got to taste both the bath brush and my Delrin cane before finishing up with 30 mins of #cornertime.

#5: Only a few more days to go 🤩. After two whole reward days with 100% focus on my husband, next Saturday will be mine. We've never done RL #cuckolding, but my husband is no stranger to seeing me orgasm on "Mr Perfect", my wonderful 10" dark brown dildo powered by my Stallion #fuckingmachine.

Sweet. I need one of these... 😈

I just received a question regarding our "love wekends" and how I deal with his refractory periods.

To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.

#4: I know he has been dreaming about access to my divine cunt and to make love to me like a normal man. He has been 100% #pussyfree for 100 days. I will MAYBE grant him access! On Thursday when we've arrived at our holiday home. He'll be SO eager, but his tiny #prejac peanut won't last long 😈.

Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea?
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.

I just love the #SPH and #Cuckolding comics by @burdieowo.bsky.social. They are super cute. I'd love to see some with #FLR and #Chastity theme as well 😉.

#3: Next Friday will be MY day 😈, but he is going to love it. He'll spend most of the day in tight inescapable bondage and the sensory deprivation hood he loves so much. Hopefully I'll be able frustrate him and to keep him on the edge of orgasm for hours using my #Edgeomatic and various tools.