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Faith, community, activism. Daily prayer and occasional ramblings. Shouty Campaigner. Facilitated by @toorebecca, in memory of Dave Lucas.

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I am taking a break from social media. The public consumption of horrific trauma as the Epstein files are released is beyond words. I want to witness, but not to raw, unfiltered abuse while I eat my breakfast. Available at deconstructingchurch@gmail.com. Stay safe. R

07.02.2026 10:24 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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The Traitors star Matthew co-founded anti conversion practices group, revealing church tried to 'cure' him of being gay In 2015, as a 24-year-old missionary, Matthew Hyndman was subjected to conversion therapy after private online conversations were leaked.

So angry tonight that two of the young men in tonight's episode of 'The Traitors' have gone through spiritual abuse related to their sexuality. Faith organisations need to proactively reform on this issue. Lives are being ruined. www.attitude.co.uk/culture/the-...

16.01.2026 21:17 πŸ‘ 14 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

I was aware of much of it, but it was still pretty hard. Very well
done though.

11.12.2025 16:39 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm going in on the 'See No Evil' documentary. See you on the other side ...

11.12.2025 09:09 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Shame on the @cofe. #LLF should never have been started if it was going to finish this way. What a shambles. I am so, so sorry to all harmed by this news.

16.10.2025 17:42 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

This is beautiful x

04.10.2025 08:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yet the tree can thrive again, just look at Sycamore Gap. You have been very much in my thoughts the last 24 hours. Peace be with you, and looking forward to seeing you at the conferance on Monday, hopefully.

04.10.2025 07:57 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

A moment for those survivors impacted by Bp Sarah's appointment. I hear the pain and frustration. I know there are issues, and accountability must still be pursued. It is a complex day, and my thoughts are very much with you.

03.10.2025 09:47 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So glad it isn't Bp Wilcox. Also glad I paused finishing my conference paper ...

03.10.2025 09:30 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

And the misogyny begins ... let us discuss ++ Sarah's appointment on her merits, not her gender, for God's sake!

03.10.2025 09:25 πŸ‘ 10 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

++Canterbury Designate Sarah took time to mourn with us when Dave died. She is not perfect, but who is? She has taken on a mammoth challenge knowing the personal cost. Knowing some of the concerns of survivors, I cautiously welcome this appointment, looking forward to what next.

03.10.2025 09:16 πŸ‘ 11 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

When you're trying to finish your conference paper on inclusion and safeguarding, and the Church of England decides after months of silence it might be announcing the new Archbishop of Canterbury two days before you speak ...

01.10.2025 11:03 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1
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Safeguarding LGBT+ People in the Church: A Two Day Conference in Oxford Eventbrite - St. Columba's URC presents Safeguarding LGBT+ People in the Church: A Two Day Conference in Oxford - at Cohen Quadrangle B&B, Exeter College, Oxford, England. Find event and ticket…

One week to go. We'd love to see you there on site or online. Such an important topic, please do share.

www.eventbrite.com/e/safeguardi...

29.09.2025 09:54 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Poster for Safeguarding LGBT+ People In The Church promo. Blue background, yellow and white writing. Image of two people against a beige background.

Poster for Safeguarding LGBT+ People In The Church promo. Blue background, yellow and white writing. Image of two people against a beige background.

Have you got your tickets for the Safeguarding LGBT+ People in the Church conference yet? Attend on site or online. as best suits you. Join us, it will be profound and prophetic. www.eventbrite.com/e/safeguardi...

19.09.2025 14:58 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Book cover for 'Don't Forget We're Here Forever' by Lamorna Ash

Book cover for 'Don't Forget We're Here Forever' by Lamorna Ash

'In this version of Christianity ... it felt like there was harm stitched into the other side of its welcome.' Lamorna Ash speaking truth to power, and knocking me for six at the same time.

14.09.2025 11:41 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Yellow and white text on a blue backgroung. Title is 'Safeguarding LGBT+ People in the Church. Subtext is '2025 National Conference. Mon 6th - Tues 7th October. Talks from leading experts, Q&A panels. Booking link: www.safeguardingLGBT.eventbrite.co.uk. Sponsored by st Columbia's United Reformed Church, Oxford and Exeter College, Oxford. OAK - Oxford Affirming Ministers and Churches. Image is of two women on a beige background.

Yellow and white text on a blue backgroung. Title is 'Safeguarding LGBT+ People in the Church. Subtext is '2025 National Conference. Mon 6th - Tues 7th October. Talks from leading experts, Q&A panels. Booking link: www.safeguardingLGBT.eventbrite.co.uk. Sponsored by st Columbia's United Reformed Church, Oxford and Exeter College, Oxford. OAK - Oxford Affirming Ministers and Churches. Image is of two women on a beige background.

If you are at all concerned about safeguarding #LGBTQ+ people in the Church, please do join us for this conference in just one month! I'll be speaking from an intersectional perspective. Hope to see you there!

08.09.2025 10:55 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
'To HEAL and Not to Hurt: A fresh approach to safeguarding in Church' by Rosie Harper and Alan Wilson. The cover shows an image of the God Samaritan (in green and yellow horizontal stripes) with the injured man (red top, yellow bottom) as two figures in the background walk away.

'To HEAL and Not to Hurt: A fresh approach to safeguarding in Church' by Rosie Harper and Alan Wilson. The cover shows an image of the God Samaritan (in green and yellow horizontal stripes) with the injured man (red top, yellow bottom) as two figures in the background walk away.

Another corker I've had on my shelf for ages and finally got around to. Should be required reading for anyone involved in #faith and #safeguarding.

21.06.2025 16:16 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The Ordinary Office is a community that celebrates life and supports those with vulnerabilities - all of us at some time in our lives. Assisted death should only come once we can adequately assist abundant life. Today's bill passing will not promote that.

20.06.2025 14:40 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Peace be with us all tonight.

13.06.2025 22:23 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Book titled 'Domestic Monastery' (top) by 'Ronald Rolheiser' (bottom). It has a blue cover with an image of a dog on a sofa by a window.

Book titled 'Domestic Monastery' (top) by 'Ronald Rolheiser' (bottom). It has a blue cover with an image of a dog on a sofa by a window.

What a thought provoking little book. Sparking lots of thoughts around 'Ordinary Monasticism' and how we live as isolated faithfuls.

11.06.2025 10:24 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yet always magical even in the liminal space with evil around. There's something in that ...

25.04.2025 12:52 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Gold balloons and streamers with grey shadows on a white background

Gold balloons and streamers with grey shadows on a white background

The Ordinary Office is 5 today! It has been such a turbulent year, and I'm having some downtime to contemplate what next, but this felt worth celebrating. Thank you to everyone who has been part of the journey, and cheers to Dave.

25.04.2025 12:46 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Street lantern in the snow

Street lantern in the snow

Not sleeping? Nocturne is here for you. buff.ly/rr6NKtO

06.03.2025 00:10 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Oops ... sorry!

05.03.2025 21:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Schnauser dog (grey and white) peeping out from under a grey and white striped bedcover

Schnauser dog (grey and white) peeping out from under a grey and white striped bedcover

Good night, rest well. Night Prayer is here for you. buff.ly/TIX4Y0X

05.03.2025 21:08 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A big splash of water

A big splash of water

Well, I am ready to drop already! What a day, hope yours was calmer. Here is Evening Prayer for you. buff.ly/nMD5JgT

05.03.2025 17:43 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Teal bowl of tomato soup

Teal bowl of tomato soup

Soup with Midday Prayer here, how about you? buff.ly/nn6B1u5

05.03.2025 12:45 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely this. I am open to arguements about an ethical end of life service but this is not it. By a mile.

05.03.2025 10:03 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

More and more concerned about the #AssistedDying bill as safeguards continue to be rejected. Meanwhile my local hospice has a shortfall of over Β£1m. We should be investing in good lives not dubious deaths.

05.03.2025 08:03 πŸ‘ 17 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Person's forehead with an ash cross on it

Person's forehead with an ash cross on it

Here comes another day. Anyone getting ashed today? Morning prayer is here for you. buff.ly/WfWP3bN

05.03.2025 08:00 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0