Me, a genderqueer AMAB: Sometimes Iβm a sophisticated lady!
My bf, in the most genuine and supportive way: My darling, you are always a sophisticated lady.
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Me, a genderqueer AMAB: Sometimes Iβm a sophisticated lady!
My bf, in the most genuine and supportive way: My darling, you are always a sophisticated lady.
π€£π€£π€£ #queerlove
Me: Iβm going to finish that PowerPoint after the cocktail reception.
Me, 3 Scotches later: I am not finishing that PowerPoint after the cocktail reception.
Some days I am genuinely awed at this life I have curated. Yes, it had tough choices, heart ache, stressβ¦but the rewards of seeking and creating my own destiny full of #selflove and #queerjoy have paid off.
I love when another queer person makes eye contact with me in public and smiles. A lil acknowledgment of unity. π³οΈβππ³οΈββ§οΈ#queerlife
I love when another queer person makes eye contact with me in public and smiles. A lil acknowledgment of unity. π³οΈβππ³οΈββ§οΈ#queerlife
Ro Laren is the original, and better, Kira Nerys. #StarTrek
You know whatβs awesome? Feeling courageous enough to ask out that hottie. Then a few dates in, the hottie says HE was βso nervousβ bc YOU are βSo smart & impressive. And so charmingβ β¦Itβs a funny reminder that others often see the good when we focus on our own insecurities
Some day Iβll be both confident enough to do the #nytcrossword without the letters turning blue as I type to tell me theyβre right AND smart enough to complete it. Some dayβ¦ a long time from now. π
Finland ended homelessness with a housing first strategy that gave people apartments before they secured employment
Now theyβre proposing a 4 day work week and 6 hour work days
True work life balance
Meanwhile in the US, people work two jobs and canβt afford food or healthcare.
βCloud 9β is so fantastic πππ
I especially love the in-between mini clips of the customers in the store π
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Thereβs something poetic about being depressed, listening to bjork and watching the traffic and city lights shimmer and refract in the rain drops on the uber window as you move across the cityβ¦ #heartache #mood
My cis female paramour to me today:
βYour femininity is regal and unapologetic. It suits you.β
I am so lucky to have found such supportive love. #nonbinary #genderqueer
The beauty of self love is undeniable. A year ago I would have never thought I could present my gender like this and be attractive to others. But today I felt cute, walked into a bar, and left that bar having made out with + exchanged deets with someone (and a hot someone). #nonbinary #genderqueer
My paramour thinking sheβs funny with this quip while we try to plan a date:
βOkay. Letβs circle back in Q1.β
She is, in fact, hilarious πππ #alwaysmakesmelaugh
βWar ravaged Portland.β I have one friend who grew up in and still lives in Portland. Heβs a trans male stoner whose birth and still used middle name is Star. And he has 5 cats and 2 dogs.
Not exactly the type to wage a war. Oh but heβll make you some hella cute art.
Just wondering if all those 2nd Amendmenters are getting ready to take up arms against a tyrannical government preparing to unleash its military on its own people, or β¦
Anyone else hoping that Janeway is going to save the day and reboot this βYesr of Hellβ?!
#startrek #captainjainway #yearofhell
Catching up on Alien: Earth. 2 episodes left. Honestly, loving it.
βThese French can really brioche.β -Hungarian coworker eating brioche on our business trip to Lyon π€£π€£ Heβs not wrong π€€
βThese French can really brioche.β -Hungarian coworker eating brioche on our business trip to Lyon π€£π€£
In Switzerland for work. A Spanish colleague is here too and staying at the same hotel. We ran into each other at breakfast. Except, I was getting food. He proceeded to grab an espresso, walk outside, smoke a cigarette, and leave for the office. Heβs max level European.
Something about a joint and BjΓΆrk just hits different.
My best friend: Do you ever wear ties?
Me: I upgraded my ties for pearls.
I came out (againπ³οΈβπ) today as nonbinary π³οΈββ§οΈto my brother and SIL. My SIL kills me πππ€£π€£
I am very high and DoorDash out here saying βCHECKMATEβ
Friend: This is the best way to start pride [month] β¦ shrooms and [chicken] strips.
β¦And itβs probably how itβll end too.
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At my childhood best friendβs wedding today. He said I look very happy; I said Iβm the happiest Iβve ever been. Then he said, βIβve learned a lot about you this yearβ bc we had some deep personal talks about depression/self harm & gender identity. I replied, βIβve learned a lot about myself!β
This week I was part of a beloved friendβs journey of realization & acceptance of their own transness as a (fellow) #genderfluid person. They told me my recent journey of self discovery & our conversations about it were major contributors to their own realization. And that is a beautiful thing. ππ³οΈββ§οΈ
Today I will complete my first ever full circumnavigation of the globe! Just call me Magellan ππππ SF > Zurich > Thailand > Singapore > SF.