The way sex in my thirties has been the best I've been having in my life?????? But oh my god when I'm ovulating I feel like a succubus fresh from HELL and HUNGRY.
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The way sex in my thirties has been the best I've been having in my life?????? But oh my god when I'm ovulating I feel like a succubus fresh from HELL and HUNGRY.
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The existence of both pro and lifestyle Findom kink dynamics way before social media probably breaks their brains.
It's another form of bashing sex workers and women in general. She's a full ProDom, dude, not someone who would have dated you but "just got greedy", or a "low-tier" version of a pro.
This is just your reminder for various masc subs:
You are cool. You are going hard against a pile of heavily policed gender stereotypes about what men and masculinity is supposed to do. Accepting what you want is ok takes real courage, and is admirable.
Inspired: It's a direct conduit to that hormone-driven brain of yours, and such a precision access point requires additional security controls regardless of size 🗝️
🎶🎄Have a holly jolly kinkmas.... 🗝️🎶
#flr #chastity #keyholder #femdom
an 18 inch silver and blue fish shaped silicone paddle, suspended in a fishtank amongst many large goldfish
an 18 inch silver and blue fish shaped silicone paddle, laid out on a wooden cutting board with a knife and a pair of chopsticks.
an 18 inch silver and blue fish shaped silicone paddle, laid on a cabbage leaf in a worfully undersized steamer basket
Are regular impact toys a little too firm for you? Maybe they're too dry, or not wriggly enough?
Or maybe, like me, your formative years were right in that period of time where people were getting slapped with fish on TV a lot?
Introducing the Catch of the Day.
www.funkittoys.com/product-page...
Brain fog is awful for sure. Best wishes for brighter days soon <3
Pretty pretty! ✨
Mid-coitus I attempt to disarm her by letting out a Wilhelm Scream. Her parry is frame perfect, countering with the Goofy Yell, killing me instantly.
An xkcd comic showing a spectrum line of "Ways of Making Tea by How Angry British People Get When Americans Do Them" From left to right, with right being indicated as "More Angry": Making it in a kettle, boiling water in a pot/steeping in a mug, making it in a chalice and ampulla stolen from the crown jewels, and comedically far to the right, microwaving a mug.
Today's @xkcd.com comic is exactly why I now have an electric kettle after my time living in the UK 😆
Another great quick-play daily challenge puzzle (this one for visual pattern recognition) is based on the card game SET. It was also a NYT daily game years ago, but is now on the game company's website.
SET is one of the few games where I get extremely competitive IRL 😈
www.setgame.com/set/puzzle
Getting to explore dark fantasies and demand suffering is great, but also making my sub call me a comedic genius every time I tell a terrible joke is pretty great too.
Running around the woods in elf ears and playing make-pretend together, yes 😄
It's not that it's a kinky kind of LARP, just that there's a big overlap between "people who play at larps" and "people with connections to kink"😂
It's also where I originally met my long-term submissive boyfriend.
A lot of my understanding of what a healthy FLR could be before I was ever in one came from the bird site community many many years ago, where you and @fernss.bsky.social were particularly memorable voices. Thank you for being such a guiding light. 💜
Yep, men overstepping boundaries, feeling entitled to "a chance", and/or assuming consent or that consent to one thing means I ought to "reasonably" consent to more unless I have a "good reason" is pretty standard for most millennial women, & then add them projecting pornified kink views on you... 😑
A problem with being a dominant woman "easy to find" online or on apps is people seeing you as a kink dispenser. Prodomme but free 😕
The best advice I see is to meet kinky folks at munches or workshops, then just focus on genuine kink friends without trying to smash.
Oh, or go LARPing 😆⚔️🧝♀️🌿
...as you said, it is (relatively) easy to find & procure attention from these women for money. This accessibility *is* the core aspect to their service.
It feels easier than meeting/dating a woman who happens to be dominant, which is a subtle but important difference from "finding a Domme".
A lot of BDSM is addictive and abusive outside of the context of risk awareness, informed ongoing consent and accountability. Mental/emotional/financial risks are up there with physical, & I consider findom RACK and not SSC.
People gravitate to it because....
How men who weren't actually into any of these things ended up looped into findom and why, and how to connect them with what they're actually looking for.
Like you mentioned, a lot of it stems from just not realizing that it is most definitely *not* the only option for exploring F/m relationships.
Fake is tricky. The original "online findom" kinks are related to that - addiction kink, manipulation, and "ruin" at the hands of an uncaring hottie weaponizing her looks, etc. For some subs, that's the rush. Blackmail/catfishing victim kinks are similar.
My fascination with it has always been....
Consider it a good growth challenge then, perhaps a creative project? 😊 This is a great place for community discussions, which is my favorite part; you lose a lot by keeping to DMs.
Welcome to Bluesky! You should make some posts so I can learn about you first ☺️
As soon as I realized that Worf's journey through TNG and DS9 is often about struggling against the fallout of generational trauma I became a lot more sympathetic to how messy that grumpy bitch's problem solving skills need to be.
I know several; I have studied that "world" for years.
It wasn't p/a. I was telling you what that language signaled to me, in case you didn't realize it. Often the more subs vilify findoms the more they're often willing to dehumanize and disrespect me if I don't act the way they want or expect.
You accuse me of not knowing much. If you automatically assume the other person has no clue, how can we have a discussion about it?
My point was that men end up in the pro world when they really want an actual relationship, and "twitter findom" providers blur that line unethically sometimes.
