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History by training. UX by profession. TTRPG writer and platinum best seller on DMsGuild. May be you from an alternate timeline. 🌐 khyberia.com 🦣 dice.camp/@tzarfenix 🐦 twitter.com/tzarfenix

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This is a very good piece. If any writer has tv brain, it is I, and my first piece of advice to literally any TV writer friend who is thinking about trying to write a book is ALWAYS to read a lot of fucking novels, in a wide variety of genres.

23.02.2026 01:12 πŸ‘ 95 πŸ” 16 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 1

Again, I know it feels good to send a donation to someone who is finally going to send Mitch McConnell or Lindsey Graham packing, but you're going to see a *lot* more bang for your buck with less exciting but much more meaningful state legislative races.

This is a great way to do that:

23.02.2026 00:48 πŸ‘ 1248 πŸ” 470 πŸ’¬ 23 πŸ“Œ 12

β€˜This banal blueprint for inhumanity is the embodiment of the notorious words last April from ICE’s acting director Todd Lyons, who said the Trump regime want to make deportation β€œlike [Amazon] Prime, but with human beings.”’

23.02.2026 00:07 πŸ‘ 118 πŸ” 62 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0
β€œConfusion” doesn’t begin to describe our emerging predicament. Seventy-two percent of American teens have turned to A.I. for companionship. A.I. therapists, coaches and lovers are also on the rise. Yet few people realize that some of the frontline technologists building this new world seem deeply ambivalent about what they’re doing. They are so torn, in fact, that some privately admit they don’t plan to use A.I. intimacy tools.

β€œZero percent of my emotional needs are met by A.I.,” an executive who ran a team mitigating safety risks at a top lab told me. β€œI’m in it up to my eyeballs at work, and I’m careful.” Many others said the same thing: Even as they build A.I. tools, they hope they never feel the need to turn to machines for emotional support. As a researcher who develops cutting-edge capabilities for artificial emotion put it, β€œthat would be a dark day.”

β€œConfusion” doesn’t begin to describe our emerging predicament. Seventy-two percent of American teens have turned to A.I. for companionship. A.I. therapists, coaches and lovers are also on the rise. Yet few people realize that some of the frontline technologists building this new world seem deeply ambivalent about what they’re doing. They are so torn, in fact, that some privately admit they don’t plan to use A.I. intimacy tools. β€œZero percent of my emotional needs are met by A.I.,” an executive who ran a team mitigating safety risks at a top lab told me. β€œI’m in it up to my eyeballs at work, and I’m careful.” Many others said the same thing: Even as they build A.I. tools, they hope they never feel the need to turn to machines for emotional support. As a researcher who develops cutting-edge capabilities for artificial emotion put it, β€œthat would be a dark day.”

Developers I spoke to said the same incentives that make bots irresistible can stand in the way of reasonable safeguards, making outright abstention the only sure way to stay safe. Some described feeling stuck between protecting users and raising profits: They support guardrails in theory, but don’t want to compromise the product experience in practice. It’s little wonder the protections that do get built can seem largely symbolic β€” you have to squint to see the fine-print notice that β€œChatGPT can make mistakes” or that Character.AI is β€œnot a real person.” β€œI’ve seen the way people operate in this space,” said one engineer who worked at a number of tech companies. β€œThey’re here to make money. It’s a business at the end of the day.”

Developers I spoke to said the same incentives that make bots irresistible can stand in the way of reasonable safeguards, making outright abstention the only sure way to stay safe. Some described feeling stuck between protecting users and raising profits: They support guardrails in theory, but don’t want to compromise the product experience in practice. It’s little wonder the protections that do get built can seem largely symbolic β€” you have to squint to see the fine-print notice that β€œChatGPT can make mistakes” or that Character.AI is β€œnot a real person.” β€œI’ve seen the way people operate in this space,” said one engineer who worked at a number of tech companies. β€œThey’re here to make money. It’s a business at the end of the day.”

But even if companies can curb serious dependence on A.I. companions β€” an open question β€” many of the developers I spoke with were troubled by even moderate use of these apps. That’s because people who manage to resist full-blown digital companions can still find themselves hooked on A.I.-mediated love. When machines draft texts, craft vows and tell people how to process their own emotions, every relationship turns into β€œa throuple,” a founder of a conversational A.I. business said. β€œWe’re all polyamorous now. It’s you, me and the A.I.”

But even if companies can curb serious dependence on A.I. companions β€” an open question β€” many of the developers I spoke with were troubled by even moderate use of these apps. That’s because people who manage to resist full-blown digital companions can still find themselves hooked on A.I.-mediated love. When machines draft texts, craft vows and tell people how to process their own emotions, every relationship turns into β€œa throuple,” a founder of a conversational A.I. business said. β€œWe’re all polyamorous now. It’s you, me and the A.I.”

A genuinely alarming piece in the NYT about how the developers, scientists and assorted techbros behind "AI companions"/"synthetic care" do not even know or understand the potential harms of the tech they're developing but they're too greedy to stop themselves from developing it.

13.02.2026 14:58 πŸ‘ 314 πŸ” 130 πŸ’¬ 19 πŸ“Œ 39

Oh wow, I googled this and it’s really cool. I’m not surprised Finland is on the forefront of this given that they’re neighbors with Russia. Any idea if any of their education materials have been translated into English?

14.02.2026 03:17 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Ill be clear about why I am so angry and critical about it: Im seeing a good portion of my students who have imbibed the notion that they dont have to read, think or write for themselves because ChatGPT/CoPilot will do their thinking for them, and its terrifying. It should scare all of us.

12.02.2026 13:21 πŸ‘ 1523 πŸ” 276 πŸ’¬ 18 πŸ“Œ 28
Bilbo looking at his phone top

on bottom is ChatGPT

After all, why not? Why shouldn't I keep it?

You're absolutely right β€” you found it, it's been with you a long while, and it's only natural to feel fond of something that's served you so well, especially when someone like Gandalf suddenly seems to want it for himself.

Bilbo looking at his phone top on bottom is ChatGPT After all, why not? Why shouldn't I keep it? You're absolutely right β€” you found it, it's been with you a long while, and it's only natural to feel fond of something that's served you so well, especially when someone like Gandalf suddenly seems to want it for himself.

28.01.2026 01:51 πŸ‘ 25428 πŸ” 6952 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 155
jaderemedy β€’ 4h ago
And now comes the most nauseating part of this whole goddamn mess: the hypocrisy. The same loud-mouthed idiots who spent years screaming about tyranny are suddenly dead fucking silent, or worse, cheering, now that it's their side doing it. "ThEy'Re cOminG fOr OuR gUnS!" "GoVerNMenT oVerReAch!" "ShAll nOt bE inFrinGeD!" All that chest-thumping bullshit evaporated the second armed federal agents started terrorizing people they don't like.
Let me get this straight: a civilian gets shot dead by federal agents, and the only thing you brainless cunts can muster is
"well, DHS says he had a gun"? THAT'S your red line? Guns are sacred when they're strapped to your waist, but magically become a death sentence when they're used as a post-hoc excuse by the government? Either the Second Amendment applies to everyone, or you never believed in it at all. Fucking pick one and own it.
This is exactly what tyranny looks like, by the way. Not jackboots marching in formation, but armed agents roaming neighborhoods, stopping people, killing civilians, and then daring the public to question it. Tyranny is execution followed by a press release. Tyranny is labeling the dead a "threat" so the state doesn't have to explain why someone's life just ended in the street. Tyranny is demanding obedience while shredding due process and calling it order.
And all you so-called "freedom lovers" are fucking fine with it, as long as it's brown people, immigrants, protesters, or anyone you've already dehumanized. Turns out "don't tread on me" actually meant "tread on them." You weren't afraid of tyranny.
You were afraid of losing dominance. There's a difference, and this moment exposes it completely.
"Just comply" isn't a principle. It's cowardice dressed up as common sense. It's the language of people who have already accepted that the state gets to decide who deserves rights and who doesn't. And once you make that deal, don't act shocked when the line moves, because it always fuckin…

jaderemedy β€’ 4h ago And now comes the most nauseating part of this whole goddamn mess: the hypocrisy. The same loud-mouthed idiots who spent years screaming about tyranny are suddenly dead fucking silent, or worse, cheering, now that it's their side doing it. "ThEy'Re cOminG fOr OuR gUnS!" "GoVerNMenT oVerReAch!" "ShAll nOt bE inFrinGeD!" All that chest-thumping bullshit evaporated the second armed federal agents started terrorizing people they don't like. Let me get this straight: a civilian gets shot dead by federal agents, and the only thing you brainless cunts can muster is "well, DHS says he had a gun"? THAT'S your red line? Guns are sacred when they're strapped to your waist, but magically become a death sentence when they're used as a post-hoc excuse by the government? Either the Second Amendment applies to everyone, or you never believed in it at all. Fucking pick one and own it. This is exactly what tyranny looks like, by the way. Not jackboots marching in formation, but armed agents roaming neighborhoods, stopping people, killing civilians, and then daring the public to question it. Tyranny is execution followed by a press release. Tyranny is labeling the dead a "threat" so the state doesn't have to explain why someone's life just ended in the street. Tyranny is demanding obedience while shredding due process and calling it order. And all you so-called "freedom lovers" are fucking fine with it, as long as it's brown people, immigrants, protesters, or anyone you've already dehumanized. Turns out "don't tread on me" actually meant "tread on them." You weren't afraid of tyranny. You were afraid of losing dominance. There's a difference, and this moment exposes it completely. "Just comply" isn't a principle. It's cowardice dressed up as common sense. It's the language of people who have already accepted that the state gets to decide who deserves rights and who doesn't. And once you make that deal, don't act shocked when the line moves, because it always fuckin…

Absolute banger of a comment on r/military:

www.reddit.com/r/Military/c...

25.01.2026 01:33 πŸ‘ 9633 πŸ” 3340 πŸ’¬ 92 πŸ“Œ 241

You have to read this. Firsthand affidavit from one of the women who was there and recording the video. She talks about how Alex Pretti was directing traffic when she arrived. She watched him be killed in front of her. She's afraid to go home, worried she'll be arrested.

25.01.2026 01:15 πŸ‘ 23336 πŸ” 11267 πŸ’¬ 440 πŸ“Œ 692
@mplsmutualaid | Linktree Clearinghouse of mutual aid for our neighbors

For those who can, here are links to donate directly to local efforts on the ground resisting ICE's terrorizing of Minneapolis. Let me know what you donated to where, and I'll match it until I get a panicked call from my bank!

linktr.ee/mplsmutualaid

24.01.2026 23:48 πŸ‘ 2923 πŸ” 1535 πŸ’¬ 210 πŸ“Œ 24

Democratic Leadership will never cut funding for ICE state-sanctioned terrorism without extreme pressure.

That’s why a coalition of creators (w/ a reach of over 20 million followers) & organizers are presenting them with an ultimatum if they don’t whip their caucuses against this DHS funding bill.

21.01.2026 23:37 πŸ‘ 1062 πŸ” 451 πŸ’¬ 75 πŸ“Œ 43

Calling all the PhDs I know to make monumental annoyances of themselves (and honestly, who better)

21.01.2026 21:16 πŸ‘ 2700 πŸ” 807 πŸ’¬ 177 πŸ“Œ 371
No Kings is projected on to a mountainside above the town’s lights

No Kings is projected on to a mountainside above the town’s lights

Davos, Switzerland, the World Economic Forum.

20.01.2026 22:16 πŸ‘ 17677 πŸ” 4069 πŸ’¬ 288 πŸ“Œ 291
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Trump Marks First Year In Office With Unhinged Racist Rant Targeting β€˜Very Low IQ’ Somalis President Donald Trump spent the first anniversary of his second term on...

So far, I am only seeing TPM, Mediaite, and Daily Beast focusing on this.

We live in a world where the president calling an ethnic group "very low IQ" and "bad for our country" while insisting they "ought to get the hell out of here" barely makes headlines. talkingpointsmemo.com/news/trump-m...

20.01.2026 23:27 πŸ‘ 3443 πŸ” 1219 πŸ’¬ 90 πŸ“Œ 88

im getting disturbing reports that donald trump is doing exactly what he said he would and the results are exactly as disastrous as everyone said they would be

20.01.2026 13:26 πŸ‘ 3976 πŸ” 744 πŸ’¬ 68 πŸ“Œ 19

Plans to sign proposed Ukraine β€œprosperity plan” worth $800B at Davos were scrapped. Greenland dispute derailed efforts to use the week to finalize security guarantees and reconstruction talks between US, Ukraine & Europe. US officials say no signing date was set and document still needs revision.

20.01.2026 12:47 πŸ‘ 429 πŸ” 168 πŸ’¬ 30 πŸ“Œ 27
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ICE’s Facial Recognition App Misidentified a Woman. Twice In testimony from a CBP official obtained by 404 Media, the official described how Mobile Fortify returned two different names after scanning a woman's face during an immigration raid. ICE has said th...

New from 404 Media: ICE's facial recognition app, which the agency is using to decide who to detain and deport, misidentified a woman. Twice.

ICE says results of the app are definitive and override a birth certificate; obviously this case shows the app is inaccurate

www.404media.co/ices-facial-...

19.01.2026 14:32 πŸ‘ 1670 πŸ” 805 πŸ’¬ 47 πŸ“Œ 80

Minneapolis and Saint Paul have basically mobilized into a war economy of mutual aid and non-violent defense. I’ve never seen anything like it, even during Covid. People who barely vote are guarding their schools from ICE and doing the shopping for neighbors in hiding.

19.01.2026 00:39 πŸ‘ 12662 πŸ” 3231 πŸ’¬ 92 πŸ“Œ 144
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I'm no longer on Twitter.
Just downloaded my archive and will deactivate my account.

If you've previously used that platform to contact me or follow along with my work, check my website for other options or just reach out to me here instead.

08.01.2026 19:13 πŸ‘ 288 πŸ” 30 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 0
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Inside ICE’s Tool to Monitor Phones in Entire Neighborhoods 404 Media has obtained material that explains how Tangles and Webloc, two surveillance systems ICE recently purchased, work. Webloc can track phones without a warrant and follow their owners home or t...

New: we've obtained material explaining how an ICE surveillance system, called Webloc, works. Draw shape on a map, see all phones available there, follow them home. All without warrant

β€œThis is a very dangerous tool in the hands of an out-of-control agency.” www.404media.co/inside-ices-...

08.01.2026 14:04 πŸ‘ 6973 πŸ” 4667 πŸ’¬ 149 πŸ“Œ 441

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08.01.2026 01:06 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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tim walz drops from seeking a third term as minnesota governor

05.01.2026 14:14 πŸ‘ 116 πŸ” 33 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 6

Rough vibes on this website today, likely because people feel Hopeless and Helpless Because Can't Stop It and No One Who Is Supposed To Is Trying To So Now We're Fighting Each Otherβ„’. I recommend activities such as book, or potentially instrument if you like instrument, or even do talk on phone.

05.01.2026 00:03 πŸ‘ 15578 πŸ” 2062 πŸ’¬ 644 πŸ“Œ 254
β€œBe kind, be involved, believe in your art,” he said. β€œAt a time when people tell you art is not important, that is always the prelude to fascism. When they tell you it doesn’t matter, when they tell you a fucking app can do art you say, if it’s that important, why the fuck do they want it so bad? The answer is because they think they can debase everything that makes us a little better, a little more human. And that, in my book, and in my life, includes monsters.”

β€œBe kind, be involved, believe in your art,” he said. β€œAt a time when people tell you art is not important, that is always the prelude to fascism. When they tell you it doesn’t matter, when they tell you a fucking app can do art you say, if it’s that important, why the fuck do they want it so bad? The answer is because they think they can debase everything that makes us a little better, a little more human. And that, in my book, and in my life, includes monsters.”

Love this from Guillermo del Toro

05.01.2026 02:16 πŸ‘ 19048 πŸ” 7494 πŸ’¬ 35 πŸ“Œ 76

Can't wait for Trump's interview with Tucker Carlson and the hour he'll spend lecturing on "where Venezuela comes from" and whatever Prince Rurik he can slap together from Pre-Columbian Timoto-Cuica culture.

03.01.2026 15:44 πŸ‘ 27 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A cucumber sliced lengthwise into five pieces

A cucumber sliced lengthwise into five pieces

My own innovation was the Demogorgon cucumber slices (just to stay on theme)

27.12.2025 02:35 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
An upside-down hamburger and waffle fries

An upside-down hamburger and waffle fries

Ok, I stole this from somewhere else on the internet, but a thematic dinner for finishing Stranger Things 5 vol 2: Benny’s Upside Down Burger and Eleven’s waffle fries!

27.12.2025 02:35 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Russia incinerates birthplace of famous Christmas song While much of the world sings the iconic β€˜Carol of the Bells’ melody this holiday season, the tune’s birthplace is slowly being erased by Russia. Oleksandr, a priest, witnessed this destruction firsth

Good morning to readers; Kyiv remains in Ukrainian hands.
Pokrovsk, birthplace of 'Carol of the Bells', is being destroyed by Russian fire.

That’s where Father Oleksandr built his church while working night shifts in the mines. But today, his city, and his church, are in ruins.

23.12.2025 14:34 πŸ‘ 157 πŸ” 79 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 8
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The Humanities Are Worth Fighting For | Los Angeles Review of Books Ignacio M. SΓ‘nchez Prado explains why humanities scholars need to articulate a more robust defense of their disciplines.

periodically, i post this utterly incandescent essay by @isanchezprado.bsky.social. it reminds me about the kind of work i’d like to pursue, the kind most worth pursuing, i think. and my gooooood, the prose. the prose, y’all.

16.12.2025 01:53 πŸ‘ 38 πŸ” 12 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yep. This is literally how it goes with popular media. Books, film, television, everything.

The majority of what you put out will break even, be a mild success, or lose money. But you'll have a scant handful of superstars that basically pay for everything else.

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