Ghosts of Christmas
My mother passed away. But she is still teaching me, months after her death.
My motherβs dementia left me feeling like she was a ghost. I wrote about how Dickensβ A Christmas Carol helped me make connections between losing her and living a better life. Thank you to The Dispatch for publishing it! thedispatch.com/article/ghos...
27.12.2025 22:44
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Courage in Closeness
On the necessity of new friendships
New post!
βLiving requires that we harness joy because the body can only take so much despair. Iβve found that joy in new friendships, which, as Cicero wrote βimproves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and dividing of our grief.ββ
open.substack.com/pub/blueviol...
25.11.2025 02:58
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WWPH Presents America's Future; a Literay Salon β Solid State Books
AMERICAβS FUTURE speaks to joy and resilience amidst political turmoil in the United Statesβ¦β Poets & Writers magazine, September/October 2025 Complimentary RSVPs here
This Sunday at 2PM at @solidstatebooksdc.bsky.social! Psyched to lead a mini workshop alongside brilliant @mshatter.bsky.social, as well as reading with goddess @kristinatabor.bsky.social and the rest of the crew!
Free! Join us! All the exclamation points!
www.solidstatebooksdc.com/events/2025/...
30.10.2025 14:40
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Thank you!!!
05.10.2025 18:56
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The Weight of Dolls
On Body Image and the Stories We Inherit
New post up on Blue Violet, my Substack. Itβs not just about Barbie tho βBarbie was one of my earliest influences, her plastic proportioned body dressed and undressed in my hands, where I learned what arms, breasts, stomach, and thighs were supposed to look like.β
open.substack.com/pub/blueviol...
05.10.2025 18:47
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Thank you, Matt. Iβm so sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds debilitating. I have so much admiration and respect that youβve been managing it for 8 years β₯οΈ I have not figured out whatβs going on yet, but Iβm trying to stay hopeful for answers while also adapting as best I can.
06.09.2025 15:57
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Thank you β₯οΈ
06.09.2025 15:49
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Sick, Grieving, and Suddenly Thinner
The pounds I didn't mean to lose
New post up today with beginning contemplations on chronic illness and weight loss. I hope these writings help at least a few people feel less overwhelmed and alone in their own bodies, and Iβd love to talk about it in the comments or 1:1.
open.substack.com/pub/blueviol...
06.09.2025 15:43
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Thanks a lot @melostrom.bsky.social. Your support means a lot. So glad to be a part of this beautiful group of writers @kimsrogers.bsky.social, @kristinatabor.bsky.social, Charlotte Hamrick and Janet Murie with @dianegotauthor.bsky.social (Ed) @emergejournal.bsky.social
28.06.2025 15:08
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So proud to be a part of this!
18.06.2025 17:50
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Wonderful! Thank you, Pat!
09.06.2025 03:48
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Launch day nears for DENATURED: STORIES OF CHANGE included in GRIEVING HOPE. Would love to see you in the virtual audience! (Link below.)
Mahalo @dianegotauthor.bsky.social.
Congrats fellow authors @charlotteham504.bsky.social, @kristinatabor.bsky.social, @ronita.bsky.social & Janet Murie.
25.05.2025 19:39
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Iβm grateful to share space in this book with the brilliant authors @kimrogerswriter.bsky.social @charlotteham504.bsky.social , @ronita.bsky.social, and Janet Murie. Link in bio to pre purchase the collection!
11.05.2025 18:17
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I miss my mom all the time, but Motherβs Day was particularly special. I share some of our journey through dementia in my forthcoming microchapbook MEMORYβS EBB, out June 1, part of this beautiful collection GRIEVING HOPE from @emergejournal.bsky.social and edited by @dianegotauthor.bsky.social
11.05.2025 18:17
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Thrilled to be a part of this!
16.04.2025 14:18
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@tommydeanwriter.bsky.social ?
01.03.2025 18:44
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Iβm looking for favorite short stories and flash about love β€οΈ. Any ideas??
01.03.2025 18:43
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Writer friends and acquaintances: have a workshop or workshop idea you haven't figured out how to get it out there or market it? Message me. I have something brewing
23.02.2025 02:55
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Yay Tommy!
19.02.2025 15:56
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17.02.2025 17:43
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Good advice for getting out of a writing rut.
16.02.2025 17:22
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Thanks. Good advice. Miss you, friend.
16.02.2025 17:22
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I've found that consistently being in writing spaces is really helpful. Workshops, writing groups, etc.
16.02.2025 16:04
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Iβm reading later today & hoping being in community helps bump me out of this funk!
16.02.2025 17:21
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