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Tired dad, nerd, and trans lady. ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ She/her.

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The cover of the book "To Die For: A Cookbook of Gravestone Recipes" by Rosie Grant

The cover of the book "To Die For: A Cookbook of Gravestone Recipes" by Rosie Grant

I cannot wait to read this.

06.03.2026 20:50 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ok how can I get that doorknob hanger.

05.03.2026 12:42 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

For two years I didn't have a belly button

05.03.2026 04:00 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I believe we call that "a torrent, somewhere"

04.03.2026 23:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I really appreciate it! Let me think on it, I might have a different idea from a commission standpoint.

As an aside, I have one of your pastel Jupiters and I adore it.

02.03.2026 23:39 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Also I'm notoriously indecisive and at this point I'm genuinely unsure why I keep adding messages to this thread?

02.03.2026 22:50 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I do really appreciate the offer though! And I'm totally open to the idea of a commission in general, I'm just not sure if I'd want to pair them with these specifically, if that makes sense?

I'm a little babbly, sorry

02.03.2026 22:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So the backstory here is that I have two kids, and one's favorite animal is foxes and the other's favorite is racoons so whenever I see fox jewelry I also look for raccoons because I want to have them both. So I think I'd want the pieces to look similar-ish if that makes sense?

02.03.2026 22:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Awesome.

Last question, not a deal breaker but: do you also have raccoons.

02.03.2026 20:40 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Does the earring on the right just look different from the left because of glare or is the design eroded?

02.03.2026 20:38 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

These are earring studs right? I made that mistake once before.

02.03.2026 20:35 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you!!! I love a good dangly earring. Just not so much with the poking into my head when I'm wearing a hat.

02.03.2026 17:50 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh cool! I...have honestly never considered that I could bend the wire myself.

Still an earrings noob. ๐Ÿ˜

02.03.2026 17:43 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ok great, then French hooks are fine! I just have to figure out how to wear them so the wires go down instead of straight back...

02.03.2026 17:36 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Butterfly earring

Butterfly earring

Blue leaf earring

Blue leaf earring

Thank you! Now this might be my ignorance of earring wearing, but are these also considered French hooks?

02.03.2026 17:33 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I only happen to have a copy because I was in Israel in yeshiva when my rebbe did a shiur on it so I picked it up in Jerusalem somewhere.

01.03.2026 23:53 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oooh can I recommend a book? It's called ื”ืกืชืจื™ื ื‘ืืกืชืจ and it essentially synthesizes all the midrashim into like a cohesive narrative with some additional commentary.

I don't know how easy it is to find online though and I don't think it's in English. But if you can get it, it's worth it.

01.03.2026 23:47 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

YES!

01.03.2026 22:10 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh, Kate Rockwell from Mean Girls!

01.03.2026 21:56 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

YES! I saw Beetlejuice 1.0 before the pandemic really started and it was Sophia Anne Caruso, but after watching all the clips of Elizabeth in v2.0 I like her energy so much more.

01.03.2026 21:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Also Elizabeth Teeter rocks in everything

01.03.2026 21:07 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ok but what are you waiting for? Welcome to the candy store!

01.03.2026 21:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Beats me. I'm Ashkenazi.

01.03.2026 18:36 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A screenshot of Sefaria

A screenshot of Sefaria

Huh. Sefaria for me shows it correctly then.

01.03.2026 18:33 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh I *always* forget about Parah. Zachor, Shekalim, Shira, HaGadol, sure. Friggin Parah.

01.03.2026 18:29 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wait what special haftorah should it be?

01.03.2026 18:27 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

But that is the right haftorah for Ki Tisa?

01.03.2026 18:19 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Which one is it giving you

01.03.2026 17:41 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Today? It's not open until April!

01.03.2026 16:11 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Come back to NYC for Schmigadoon, I'll go with you

01.03.2026 16:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0