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Sweet Basil

@sweetbasil

She/they/he, queer, nerd, and mom to humans, cats, and plants. US Zone 6b "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - ANAIS NIN

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Being on a comics podcast was so incredibly stressful.

I was always so terrified the right name would escape me when I needed it.

I'm not dumb, just traumatized.

08.03.2026 03:29 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Life is so frustrating when I have to match a word to the picture in my head.

08.03.2026 03:20 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm good at most things I try with two exceptions: dexterity and nouns.

08.03.2026 03:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I love minimalist design

07.03.2026 17:27 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometimes a little spontaneity is called for and rewarded.

06.03.2026 03:29 ๐Ÿ‘ 4 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wouldn't have it any other way ๐Ÿ˜˜

05.03.2026 15:22 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I need to take pics, but after a concerning scan last fall, I needed to lose weight for my health. I discontinued my SSRI which helped put me back in touch with my appetite.

I have both lost a significant amount of body weight and am lifting more weight.

Still hot and obese.

05.03.2026 14:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 4 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You did. Lol

04.03.2026 14:22 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me: I always get so stressed about directing
@strictlyworse.bsky.social: have you ever considered that every single time it's always worked out and been amazing?
Me: not possible without the stress. Surely.

04.03.2026 14:19 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Today while watching the kids I sat down with a bag of teddy grams on the couch.
The littlest one sits next to me with a box of fruit loops.
We both make eye contact and remember no eating in the living room so we both walk to the kitchen table without saying a word.
I love them so much. ๐Ÿคฃ

02.03.2026 20:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 1 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Seeds are sprouting! ๐ŸŒฑ

01.03.2026 00:05 ๐Ÿ‘ 35 ๐Ÿ” 3 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I might be, maybe, a little hot.

28.02.2026 03:24 ๐Ÿ‘ 4 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I like to imagine I'm confident, but I'm always bewildered when someone shows genuine excitement about getting to know me.

How dare they not seem mildly disinterested in a way that makes me feel like I need to earn their attention.

27.02.2026 01:09 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

No person is perfect. No one loves perfectly. No one is fully healed and free of the impacts of trauma.

If you're lucky, you'll find the people who make healing possible and your faults seem small.

Love that brings out your best self is priceless โค๏ธ

25.02.2026 13:15 ๐Ÿ‘ 6 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Calling @emilyhardingwrites.bsky.social !

23.02.2026 17:24 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's adorable, and is definitely Hallmark movie material.

23.02.2026 17:22 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And we recognized it too late, but I matched with a parent of two students and now have a date in two years after graduation lol.

23.02.2026 17:13 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Feeling settled and secure enough in my life, health, and relationships to investigate the dating scene again.

Make a feeld profile, swipe, swipe, parent of a student -- "shit shit shit!"

22.02.2026 16:16 ๐Ÿ‘ 5 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Hats off to you! Thanks for the vote of confidence.

22.02.2026 16:12 ๐Ÿ‘ 1 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have one day of melted snow to bring my gardening ๐ŸŒฑ and seed starting trays in from my shed.

Then blizzard.

I can do this

22.02.2026 14:54 ๐Ÿ‘ 20 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
An IV on a Caucasian arm administering a biologic drug designed to treat Crohn's disease.

An IV on a Caucasian arm administering a biologic drug designed to treat Crohn's disease.

It's taken over half a year, stopping my SSRI, eliminating some problem foods, and getting regular IV infusions to get to a place where I feel healthy again.

And I feel so good.

I'm hopeful about my future.

I'm also proud of myself. I'm so fucking cool

18.02.2026 02:31 ๐Ÿ‘ 7 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Steak frites with a fresh chimichurri prepared by @strictlyworse.bsky.social

I'm one lucky duck

07.02.2026 22:55 ๐Ÿ‘ 9 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We're on day 8 of a new semester and new classes and I've already heard "This is my favorite class. I look forward to it all day," from a student I did not expect it from.

Taking the win!

05.02.2026 19:36 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh if only I realized how much harder January would get.

31.01.2026 01:23 ๐Ÿ‘ 2 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And his rest stop is solid

29.01.2026 01:06 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's the first of two nights I'm going to be gone at a conference and poor @strictlyworse.bsky.social is already consoling both kids through tears of missing me.

What a saint.

29.01.2026 01:06 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Played in the snow with my kids for hours today. My oldest heard stories from my mom about me digging tunnels in the snow as a kid and had to try it out.

Living and loving joyfully because hope is defiant when those in power use fear as a cudgel.

27.01.2026 00:56 ๐Ÿ‘ 8 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Caboose was such a perfect boy. I'm so sorry for your loss โค๏ธ

24.01.2026 00:45 ๐Ÿ‘ 0 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My 7 y/o: you are lucky to be friends with a game designer like me

@kidcryptid.bsky.social: I sure am

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

24.01.2026 00:33 ๐Ÿ‘ 3 ๐Ÿ” 0 ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0 ๐Ÿ“Œ 0