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Educator, Writer, Clown Sex/BDSM Educator & 🌢️ Human Mx. Strap Sucker Los Angeles 2025 Leatherdyke, Auntie, Warlady-In-Waiting badlylickedbear.substack.com

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DAMN

04.03.2026 18:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

He's doing a great job of foreshadowing his own end.

02.03.2026 18:02 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€

01.03.2026 16:15 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
01.03.2026 15:34 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

"Canceled?" Don't you mean ALLEGED SERIAL RAPIST MAX LANDIS?

28.02.2026 23:13 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The Post-Patriot Act Era has been living hell and everyone knows it. The death of empire is never fast, never pretty, and never kind to everyday people.

28.02.2026 22:51 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Who the fuck keeps voting for this absolute joke of a leader?

28.02.2026 19:26 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Do your fuckign job, Chuck, or get the fuck out of the way.

28.02.2026 19:25 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I am too old for this shit.

28.02.2026 19:00 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Christ, this is bleak.

27.02.2026 23:54 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The focus on consent parallels a trend I saw in some of my Queer, Gen Z students, when I was teaching film theory, where they would construct narratives where the audience would be assured that no character had ever experienced actual harm, stories with resolution, but no real conflict.

27.02.2026 23:23 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I don't get into the conversation about consent and negotiation in Pillion in this piece, but, like with Heated Rivalry, I'm very interested the emergence on a focus on "consent porn," and whether consent is implied, unmentioned, implicit, or explicit in softcore narratives.

27.02.2026 23:23 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Preview
Pillion, Divided In which I cannot envision myself reading Min Kamp (My Struggle) while my submissive begs for attention.

Everyone seems mildly concerned that movie about a gear fetish biker in a 24/7 D/s relationship with a naive twink doesn't have a comprehensive consent negotiation.

Meanwhile, as a BIPOC in wearing her domme hat, I have things to say about race in Pillion.

27.02.2026 23:23 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

We're a pair of precious angels.

27.02.2026 02:56 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

"Friends" is a beloved American sitcom that aired from 1994 to 2004, following six young adultsβ€”Rachel, Ross, Monica, Chandler, Joey, and Phoebeβ€”living in New York City. The show explores their friendships, romances, careers, and personal growth over ten seasons.

27.02.2026 02:49 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

BRING IT BACK!

26.02.2026 18:33 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Death

War

Pestilence

Famine

25.02.2026 16:15 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

These shirts don't choose themselves.

25.02.2026 16:14 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Barf-O-Rama

23.02.2026 18:34 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I want to know what the other questions she asked, that he believes are less significant?

22.02.2026 18:30 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

When I read a story about someone who identifies as a "screenwriter," and who only has three minor IMDB credits, and lives in a cozy, beachside community, what I first want to know is: "Who is paying for their lifestyle? What do they actually do?"

22.02.2026 18:09 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

This is the language that fascists and bigots use to describe us and to justify the denial of our existence and our civil rights.

As a person who is transsexual, Indigenous, and Jewish, I cannot imagine using that language to describe myself or any other person.

21.02.2026 16:27 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I am not, and just like transgender identity and gender diversity isn't a mental health condition or disorder, the notion that mental health is anything other than health and that there's anything inherently wrong about having a mental health diagnosis is also repulsive.

21.02.2026 16:22 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Tom Noonan as Francis Dollarhyde in Manhunter, wearing a stocking mask, shirtless, covered in tattoos, transformed.

Tom Noonan as Francis Dollarhyde in Manhunter, wearing a stocking mask, shirtless, covered in tattoos, transformed.

He had a sensual presence that leant itself to cruelty.

18.02.2026 17:18 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
They're Made Out Of Meat
They're Made Out Of Meat YouTube video by Stephen O'Regan

Tom Noonan echoed of the Downtown LA actors and poets I crawled around with as a wayward teen in the 1990s, someone you'd know from that one movie, but was much more.

He's not here, now, but here he is being incredibly present, in the short film "They're Made Out Of Meat."

Rest easy, big man.

18.02.2026 17:18 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Mmmmm....

18.02.2026 17:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

True, but in the wasteland, shared vibes will keep you alive.

18.02.2026 16:58 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It all depends on whether you can find a matching gang.

18.02.2026 14:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Soooo, has everybody figured out what their street gang's theming is going to be after The Event?

18.02.2026 03:36 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I can't speak for the UK, but American institutions did a terrible job during the Pandemic, and absolutely underserved students, mostly by not providing teachers the training and resources to serve them as we moved online. And they deserve to be raked over the coals for it.

16.02.2026 23:50 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1