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P. J. Gudka

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She/they #writer #writingcommunity #blogger #freelancer Check out my book: https://www.amazon.com/All-Words-I-Kept-Inside-ebook/dp/B0D42BHQQ8/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2BRVFXDG7G7Z2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.1vF6JkP_AOzVSzThW1LUqC

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Saturday Night It's Saturday night And you're still not here By my side But then again You never were Really here Just a figment of My overactive imagination My punishment For my Hyper-independence And yet I still wait All alone On this Saturday night For you And only you About Saturday Night: It's been a busy day but a very productive one which I'm happy about.

Saturday Night

It's Saturday night And you're still not here By my side But then again You never were Really here Just a figment of My overactive imagination My punishment For my Hyper-independence And yet I still wait All alone On this Saturday night For you And only you About Saturday Night:…

08.03.2026 01:02 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Between the Frost and the Thaw (Guest Post) Note: Between the Frost and the Thaw is a guest post by George Sheppard. There are seasons that stretch you thin in ways words can’t quite describe. You’re not where you were, but not where you’re going either. You wake up every day in the middle — between endings that still echo and beginnings that haven’t yet shown their face.

Between the Frost and the Thaw (Guest Post)

Note: Between the Frost and the Thaw is a guest post by George Sheppard. There are seasons that stretch you thin in ways words can’t quite describe. You’re not where you were, but not where you’re going either. You wake up every day in the middle —…

07.03.2026 01:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Struggling With Mental Health? Here Are Five Things That Can Make A Big Difference Unfortunately, mental health problems are very common in modern society, with nearly one in seven people living with a mental disorder. Even more people live with a problem that might not be completely debilitating, but that has a serious impact on their lives.  There are many reasons why poor mental health is at an all-time high. It’s a topic that’s complex and multifactorial, spanning a range of socioeconomic factors.

Struggling With Mental Health? Here Are Five Things That Can Make A Big Difference

Unfortunately, mental health problems are very common in modern society, with nearly one in seven people living with a mental disorder. Even more people live with a problem that might not be completely debilitating,…

05.03.2026 19:50 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Revisiting Cultiva Restaurant Nairobi We decided to revisit Cultiva Restaurant again because we enjoyed the food so much last time. In fact, I think Cultiva is probably my favourite restaurant in Nairobi. You can read more about Cultiva on their site. Of course, I wanted to share the experience with you guys again because we did end up trying some new dishes. You can watch the video version of our experience on my YouTube channel:

We decided to revisit Cultiva Restaurant again because we enjoyed the food so much last time. In fact, I think Cultiva is probably my favourite restaurant in Nairobi. #food #restaurantreview #blog #blogger #lifestyle #travel

04.03.2026 01:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Steve Maraboli Quote Steve Maraboli Quote: What's Up With Pooj? I was complaining about the weather being too hot a couple of weeks ago. January and most of February was extremely sunny and I hated leaving the house. Hot weather always makes me depressed and asocial. But over the last couple two weeks, the weather has cooled down a lot more. It's been so beautifully cold, rainy, and dreary.

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Steve Maraboli Quote: What's Up With Pooj? I was complaining about the weather being too hot a couple of weeks ago. January and most of February was extremely sunny and I hated leaving the house. Hot weather always makes me depressed and asocial. But over the last couple two…

03.03.2026 01:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
What I Eat In A Day I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it. I've also shared a video version of this post on my YouTube. I would love it if you took a minute to check it out there and interact with the video.

I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it.
#whatieatinaday #food #whatiateinaday

01.03.2026 01:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Anxiety: When the Mind Starts to Race (Guest Post) Note: Anxiety: When the Mind Starts to Race is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. There are days when the world doesn’t fall silent, it becomes unbearably loud. Thoughts accelerate, the heart thumps a little too hard, and the ordinary suddenly feels precarious. Anxiety has a way of turning the familiar into something sharp-edged, making even the simplest decisions feel like tightropes strung high above ground.

Anxiety: When the Mind Starts to Race (Guest Post)

Note: Anxiety: When the Mind Starts to Race is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. There are days when the world doesn’t fall silent, it becomes unbearably loud. Thoughts accelerate, the heart thumps a little…

28.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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How Do You Feel About WordPress? Today, I want to ask you guys to share your thoughts about WordPress. How do you feel about WordPress as a blogging platform? Be as specific as you like and share as much as you like in the comments below. What do you love about WordPress that keeps you here? What are things you wish they would change on this platform?

How Do You Feel About WordPress?

Today, I want to ask you guys to share your thoughts about WordPress. How do you feel about WordPress as a blogging platform? Be as specific as you like and share as much as you like in the comments below. What do you love about WordPress that keeps you here? What…

25.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Dessert At Hero Restaurant Nairobi I shared my review and experience of having dinner at Slate in this post. Once we were done with dinner, we thought we would head to another restaurant for dessert since my cousins have already been there and loved it. The restaurant is called Hero Restaurant and is superhero themed which is so cool. They also have a very unique sweet, sour and spicy mango sorbet dessert.

Dessert At Hero Restaurant Nairobi

I shared my review and experience of having dinner at Slate in this post. Once we were done with dinner, we thought we would head to another restaurant for dessert since my cousins have already been there and loved it. The restaurant is called Hero Restaurant and…

22.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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What A Wonderful Gift To Receive!

Yesterday, I received something in the mail that I was really excited to share with you guys. What a wonderful gift to receive!

https://lifesfinewhine.ca/2026/02/20/what-a-wonderful-gift-to-receive/?utm_source=bluesky&utm_medium=jetpack_social

21.02.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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An Invitation To Pause And Listen Within Today’s modern world asks us to move faster, decide quicker, and carry more than we realise, there are few spaces that invite us simply to pause. Not to perform. Not to achieve. Just to listen.

An Invitation To Pause And Listen Within

Today’s modern world asks us to move faster, decide quicker, and carry more than we realise, there are few spaces that invite us simply to pause. Not to perform. Not to achieve. Just to listen.

18.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Art Therapy- The Best Kind Of Therapy? You may have noticed my absence. If you've read a few of my last posts, you know I'm particularly busy at the moment. Although I have been busy, don't worry it's not been all work. I've been having fun indulging in my hobbies too. Recently, I've been doing some art therapy- aka creating some art lol. On Sunday, I got some oil pastels on sale and decided to put them to use.

Art Therapy- The Best Kind Of Therapy?

You may have noticed my absence. If you've read a few of my last posts, you know I'm particularly busy at the moment. Although I have been busy, don't worry it's not been all work. I've been having fun indulging in my hobbies too. Recently, I've been doing…

13.02.2026 01:00 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Brooke Davis Quote Brooke Davis Quote: What's Up With Pooj? Just a heads up, some of the services I offer are not currently available right now. As I mentioned, I'm getting quite busy these days with everything to do with my book. I have a lot less time and I've decided that for the next three months I want to prioritise my book. It's been a dream of mine since I was a teenager and I owe it to myself to give it my all.

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Brooke Davis Quote: What's Up With Pooj? Just a heads up, some of the services I offer are not currently available right now. As I mentioned, I'm getting quite busy these days with everything to do with my book. I have a lot less time and I've decided that for the next three…

10.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Nothing To Write Nothing to write But still filled with delight A secret to share If any of you care Something special is coming soon It's sending me over the moon! About "Nothing To Write": I have been incredibly busy today but in a good way. And I was wondering what I would share on the blog since I hadn't prepared anything in advance and didn't have any ideas.

Nothing To Write

Nothing to write But still filled with delight A secret to share If any of you care Something special is coming soon It's sending me over the moon! About "Nothing To Write": I have been incredibly busy today but in a good way. And I was wondering what I would share on the blog…

07.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
The One Where I Almost Turned Into Spiderman… That's right y'all. Your girl almost turned into Spiderman (Spiderwoman?) the other day. But let me back up and tell you the story from the start. In December, my cousins and I did some exploring in Nairobi and we had some time before going for lunch. So we stopped by a resort/spa just to check it out. It's a lovely place but what stood out was this random little spider we spotted.

The One Where I Almost Turned Into Spiderman…

That's right y'all. Your girl almost turned into Spiderman (Spiderwoman?) the other day. But let me back up and tell you the story from the start. In December, my cousins and I did some exploring in Nairobi and we had some time before going for lunch.…

06.02.2026 01:01 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Here’s Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Here's Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Pexels Image: CC0 License If you’re like the majority of us, then you probably dream about getting back into bed from the moment you wake up. But when the time finally comes, do you tend to toss, turn? And then feel the inevitable dread of nighttime anxiety creeping upon you? If so, then this article is for you.

Here’s Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night

Here's Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Pexels Image: CC0 License If you’re like the majority of us, then you probably dream about getting back into bed from the moment you wake up. But when the time finally comes, do you tend to toss, turn? And…

04.02.2026 16:07 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Slate Review And Experience Slate was one of the most impressive restaurants we went to in December. The food was incredible, the decoration and vibe was on point and the service was really good too. That's why I wanted to share my Slate review and experience with all of you today. If you would like to see a video version of my Slate review and experience, please check out my YouTube video below:

Slate Review And Experience

Slate was one of the most impressive restaurants we went to in December. The food was incredible, the decoration and vibe was on point and the service was really good too. That's why I wanted to share my Slate review and experience with all of you today. If you would…

04.02.2026 01:00 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Norman Cousins Quote Norman Cousins Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This isn't a particularly uplifting quote and maybe that's why it resonated with me so strongly. I love the person I'm becoming, I'm more aware, have proper boundaries and am much more confident. However, I had to go through some of the worst pain and experiences to get here. And those experiences have killed parts of me that I will never get back.

Norman Cousins Quote

Norman Cousins Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This isn't a particularly uplifting quote and maybe that's why it resonated with me so strongly. I love the person I'm becoming, I'm more aware, have proper boundaries and am much more confident. However, I had to go through some of…

03.02.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 1
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New Month, Same Old Crap It's February already, even though it feels like we ushered in January. Weird how fast the time flies by when we get older. When we're young we can't wait for the month to end. I'm trying to remain optimistic but the last few days of this month haven't been the best. It just makes me feel like new month, same old crap.

New Month, Same Old Crap

It's February already, even though it feels like we ushered in January. Weird how fast the time flies by when we get older. When we're young we can't wait for the month to end. I'm trying to remain optimistic but the last few days of this month haven't been the best. It…

01.02.2026 01:01 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
What I Eat In A Day On A Regular Day I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it. I've also shared a video version of this post on my YouTube. I would love it if you took a minute to check it out there and interact with the video.

What I Eat In A Day On A Regular Day

I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it. I've also shared a video version of this post on my YouTube. I would love it if you took a minute to check it out…

31.01.2026 01:00 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
The Silent Patient By Alex Michaelides Review About The Author Alex Michaelides was born and raised in Cyprus. He has an M.A. in English Literature from Trinity College, Cambridge University, and an M.A. in Screenwriting from the American Film Institute in Los Angeles. The Silent Patient was his first novel, debuting at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list, and has sold more than 6.5 million copies worldwide.

The Silent Patient By Alex Michaelides Review

About The Author Alex Michaelides was born and raised in Cyprus. He has an M.A. in English Literature from Trinity College, Cambridge University, and an M.A. in Screenwriting from the American Film Institute in Los Angeles. The Silent Patient was his…

30.01.2026 01:01 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Taking Out The Trash Today I wanted to talk about something that used to cause a lot of anxiety for me but now I think of it as taking out the trash.

Taking Out The Trash

Today I wanted to talk about something that used to cause a lot of anxiety for me but now I think of it as taking out the trash.

29.01.2026 01:01 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear Note: Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. This is an account of what I have experienced in my social situations. I find interacting with others extremely, extremely difficult if I’m not familiar with the person or people who are there. It is a debilitating situation that is an uttermost infuriating predicament.

Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear

Note: Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. This is an account of what I have experienced in my social situations. I find interacting with…

28.01.2026 01:01 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been a particularly stressful time this week but I've realised that I sort of like stress? Like not actual stress but I'm just the kind of person that works well when things are crazy. I know, not the most healthiest way to live life. And something I'm probably going to have to work on in therapy.

Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote

Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been a particularly stressful time this week but I've realised that I sort of like stress? Like not actual stress but I'm just the kind of person that works well when things are crazy. I know, not the most healthiest way to…

27.01.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Coffee & Plant Review And Experience I know some of you really enjoy my review and experience posts and I LOVE making them mostly because I get to go out more lol. So, I thought I would share this one today. It's funny that I'm finally sharing my Coffee & Plant review because I've gone there before AND they had a huge ad outside my bedroom window at the time which I guess worked lol.

Coffee & Plant Review And Experience

I know some of you really enjoy my review and experience posts and I LOVE making them mostly because I get to go out more lol. So, I thought I would share this one today. It's funny that I'm finally sharing my Coffee & Plant review because I've gone there…

25.01.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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What Would You Do For A Hundred Million? What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

24.01.2026 01:01 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect Please Note: Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect is a guest post. When you walk the Langtang valley trek, you are not just hiking. You are stepping into a place where the land and the people have been in conversation for centuries. The mountains here are not silent giants. They are part of a daily story, woven into the lives of the Tamang communities you pass through.

Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect

Please Note: Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect is a guest post. When you walk the Langtang valley trek, you are not just hiking. You are stepping into a place where the land and the…

21.01.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Martin Luther King Jr Quote Martin Luther King Jr Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's not been a particularly exciting week and I'm honestly thankful for that. I've noticed that since the last time I got Covid, I get tired faster and feel exhausted when I overexert myself. So, I've been trying to take it easy when I can and get more rest.

Martin Luther King Jr Quote

Martin Luther King Jr Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's not been a particularly exciting week and I'm honestly thankful for that. I've noticed that since the last time I got Covid, I get tired faster and feel exhausted when I overexert myself. So, I've been trying to…

20.01.2026 01:01 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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My Muse My muse She speaks to me Flirting Her hand on my shoulder Disappearing just as I turn Into the crowd of thoughts That never end But in the final Quietest hours of the night She finds me The games end Hand in hand We become one She is me And I am her. About My Muse: If you're a writer, you may have read this poem and immediately clocked what it's about.

My Muse

My muse She speaks to me Flirting Her hand on my shoulder Disappearing just as I turn Into the crowd of thoughts That never end But in the final Quietest hours of the night She finds me The games end Hand in hand We become one She is me And I am her. About My Muse: If you're a writer, you…

18.01.2026 01:00 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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What I Ate On The Last Day Of 2025 I feel like I haven't done a What I Eat In A Day post in ages. I wanted to start sharing more food related content this year and did some filming for it last year. Today, I wanted to share what I ate on the last day of 2025. I hope you enjoy it! If you would like to see the video version of this post, you can check it out on my YouTube:

What I Ate On The Last Day Of 2025

I feel like I haven't done a What I Eat In A Day post in ages. I wanted to start sharing more food related content this year and did some filming for it last year. Today, I wanted to share what I ate on the last day of 2025. I hope you enjoy it! If you would like…

17.01.2026 01:01 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0