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Definitely not veterinarian as there would only be many additional pups to steal. I myself have been tempted more than once.

12.03.2026 16:06 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I have broad hips and breasts, there are already unsightly bulges.
What I meant is that I'm able to carry my phone and keys without having to bring a bag. Women's trousers either have no pockets or they're so tiny that you cannot put anything in it.
Obviously I am not going to fill them to the brink

12.03.2026 16:04 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Functionality is why I like suits so much. Enough pockets for everything I need and I think they're comfortable.

12.03.2026 14:51 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It is frustrating indeed. I just hate spending a lot of time and effort on clothing items because they don't have a high value in my life.

12.03.2026 13:35 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

For the wedding I will probably browse the internet. Hopefully I find some that are nice enough for this occasion but also for daily wear.

12.03.2026 13:15 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Children's shoes are too small for me. And usually too colourful.

I'm considering getting bespoke shoes eventually. They're not that much more expensive than regular ones and at least they fit (I have weird feet and the store where I last bought perfectly fitting shoes is gone).

12.03.2026 13:15 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

Once I really manage to get my life together, and after your neighbours decided that fascism and war might not be the best idea after all, I'm going to visit you as planned and we'll have a great time.

12.03.2026 04:43 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

To think people tried to talk me out of adopting Philly...

12.03.2026 04:38 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

No, I save the ties and waistcoats for after officially coming out. I own a black tie but for the wedding I will just wear the suit with a plain shirt. I will probably look after the couples' dog all day so I shouldn't wear anything too fancy anyway.

12.03.2026 04:36 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Preview
a close up of a man 's face with makeup on his eyes Alt: Spock stating "Most illogical."

Never mess with Uhura.

11.03.2026 19:40 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

The other way round - Julian telling Jadzia to go away.

Apologies for adding further context.

11.03.2026 19:03 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

It'll definitely take some time to get used wearing something that isn't black but the material is very comfortable.

11.03.2026 17:51 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Note: I was wearing a crumpled shirt and old shoes so was feeling out of place to begin with but was treated like a regular customer.
So now I know how it feels to be a regular guy shopping for a suit.

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Since it's getting fitted, I won't be able to show it but if you want to visualise: It's a light grey suit with a slim fit and at the theatre I'll wear it open with a colourful t-shirt but at the wedding it'll be a proper shirt underneath.

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

This should be the norm but unfortunately it is not. But I felt accepted there and while the store itself is a bit too pricey for regular shopping, I will certainly return for my next suit (hopefully after top surgery because my chest was causing some dysphoria).

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

but always test closing all the buttons on a jacket).
The sleeves were a bit too long so I'm getting them tailored (the tailor didn't judge either) and they even accommodated me when I said I need it by Tuesday, even when they said they're very busy at the moment.

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

You know, last time I tried to buy a suit I was targeted by transphobia.

Today I went to a rather posh store with a "proper" attendant and they didn't even ask why I want a suit, they just asked what I'm looking for, if I knew my size, even gave me a lecture on button etiquette (I know the rules

11.03.2026 17:37 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 3 📌 0

I know but I miss my bigger bed. I would get one regardless of cat space.

11.03.2026 10:17 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yorick, The Early Years

I'd read it, to be honest.

11.03.2026 08:25 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Is there an option to keep Yorick?

11.03.2026 07:40 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Except when moving... then I curse myself...

11.03.2026 07:37 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

You can never have too many.

11.03.2026 07:37 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

*local size that is. For US/UK measurements it's probably more like ½.

11.03.2026 06:26 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Already starting with the typos, this is going to be a long day...

I shudder to think that I need to go to Vienna too. And shopping for clothes to boot! I don't know why people think this is an enjoyable pastime.
But the good news is: We'll be passing some bookstores too. Much easier shopping.

11.03.2026 06:25 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Quite annoying that I would need my feet to be only one, maybe one and a half, size bigger to find something fitting in a regular store.

11.03.2026 06:23 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It's astounding that it is much easier to find fitting shoes as a trans woman than as a trans man here...

Yet again I wonder where small men buy their clothes, especially if they're going for a business look rather than casual.

11.03.2026 06:13 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

And a great musician too. Sometimes I wonder why some people must have *all* the talents.

11.03.2026 04:27 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0
Simba, a one-eyed orange tabby lying on the bed covered with a blanket (which he arranged all vy himself), obe paws coolly in front of the other and he looks attentively at the camera with his beautiful greenish golden eyes.

Simba, a one-eyed orange tabby lying on the bed covered with a blanket (which he arranged all vy himself), obe paws coolly in front of the other and he looks attentively at the camera with his beautiful greenish golden eyes.

Philly, a white and grey tabby lying on my lap. He's still getting used to it and these moments are rare. He isn't in a feeling-comfortable pose yet but occasionally he fully curls up.

Philly, a white and grey tabby lying on my lap. He's still getting used to it and these moments are rare. He isn't in a feeling-comfortable pose yet but occasionally he fully curls up.

You can always message me however, if you want/need to talk. I know I'm currently an awful friend but my DMs or WhatsApp are always open for you.

And replying to the Finn pic - here are the boys:

11.03.2026 04:26 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I'm always up for random Finn pics!

I'm sorry I'm not more active on here. Life's very stressful and I'm still grieving on top of it all.
And social media recently only confronts me with everything that's going on in the world and it's just too much at times.

11.03.2026 04:26 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0

It is so realistic considering how absurd it is.
Also agree on Hugh Laurie. He's great at dramatic comedy and comedic drama.

11.03.2026 04:17 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0