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Jay Gurden

@goodguardianship

Dog lover & educator. Passionate about making information on dog training & behaviour accessible & understandable for the best possible relationships with our dogs. Tutor for Canine Principles and International School for Canine Psychology and Behaviour.

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Socialisation - When Less is More One of the words we see written most frequently when talking about puppies is ‘socialisation’ and how important it is for young dogs to be well socialised to grow into happy and confident adults. Whil...

"If we can get them through their puppy days with a sense of optimism because the encounters they have had have been good, then we have done our jobs and given them the best possible chance of growing into happy adult dogs."

14.01.2026 11:49 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I'm so sorry. What a fantastic character he was 💔

22.09.2025 19:04 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Gen X, just turned 50 and loving the freedom to live life to suit me, my husband, and our dogs. 🐶🥰

12.09.2025 20:56 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I live not very far from Hastings currently and there's a concrete company here called William the Concreter 😆 Sounds much better than your local firm 😬

11.09.2025 10:02 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Also, throughout the entire pregnancy. 🦵

05.09.2025 17:28 👍 16 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Ok then, every day a woman has period cramps, she gets to kick him in the balls repeatedly for the entire time. Every single month.

05.09.2025 17:27 👍 24 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
A collage of pictures of different dogs.

A collage of pictures of different dogs.

Happy International Dog Day! 🐶 #dogs #dogsofbluesky #internationaldogday

26.08.2025 20:38 👍 9 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

15, I think.

26.08.2025 20:09 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

"I'm not gatekeeping!" (exactly describes gatekeeping behaviour...) 😒

29.07.2025 20:29 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
“It came to me that every time I lose a dog they take a piece of my heart with them. And every new dog who comes into my life gifts me with a piece of their heart. If I live long enough, all the components of my heart will be dog, and I will become as generous and loving as they are.” Unknown.

“It came to me that every time I lose a dog they take a piece of my heart with them. And every new dog who comes into my life gifts me with a piece of their heart. If I live long enough, all the components of my heart will be dog, and I will become as generous and loving as they are.” Unknown.

There's heartbreak when we lose them, but a part of each dog we've loved and lost stays with us, so our heart becomes more and more 'dog' 💕

20.06.2025 17:58 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Empire of Ruin series - In Solitude's Shadow, Path of War, Beyond Sundered Seas, At Eternity's Gates.

Empire of Ruin series - In Solitude's Shadow, Path of War, Beyond Sundered Seas, At Eternity's Gates.

I'm about to hit 5k followers.

So how about a give away?

Like and repost this, and I'll enter everyone who does into a draw to win a full set of my British Fantasy Award nominated Empire of Ruin series!

Good luck - I'll do the draw this Friday afternoon :)

26.05.2025 09:57 👍 198 🔁 137 💬 14 📌 9

Debonair paws there!

26.05.2025 14:21 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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IICE | International Institute for Canine Ethics Progress your professional canine career with ABTC approved membership and exams. Join Today.

Join us at the International Institute for Canine Ethics. Whatever your role, if you work with dogs, IICE is for you. Trainers, behaviourists, groomers, dog walkers, vet nurses, working in rescue - if you work with dogs in any setting, IICE is a perfect fit. Great CPD & support for all dog people 😊

19.05.2025 13:37 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Reactivity Support Hub | Good Guardianship A place to find empathy, help, and support with the realities of living with a complex and sensitive reactive dog, how to help them with their big

If you live with a reactive dog & it feels like a struggle, this is just for you. A non-judgemental & understanding space to share your experiences, thoughts & feelings with others who get it. Direct message support from me also included.

All for a monthly investment of £32. More at the link.

01.05.2025 11:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Be rude not to on an evening like this 🥰🌳

30.04.2025 21:23 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The Great Goatsby

14.04.2025 12:38 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Copies of Gods of the Wyrdwood and Warlords of Wyrdwood that are slightly different sizes as one is UK paper back and one is US.

Copies of Gods of the Wyrdwood and Warlords of Wyrdwood that are slightly different sizes as one is UK paper back and one is US.

ANYWAY, I have way too many copies of Gods and Warlords so reskeet this, follow me and tell me the best name for a goat for a chance to win signed copies. I'll pick a winner next week. (UK and EU only*.)

14.04.2025 12:30 👍 52 🔁 33 💬 42 📌 4

When burying the body make sure to plant over it with endangered plants so they can't be dug up.

13.04.2025 18:26 👍 26 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Reactivity Support Hub | Good Guardianship A place to find empathy, help, and support with the realities of living with a complex and sensitive reactive dog, how to help them with their big

Does your dog struggle with aspects of the world around them? Do they overreact to things that bother them, making walks and going out into the world difficult for you both? Then the Good Guardianship Reactivity Support Hub is designed just for you. For more details check it out on the website! 🐶

02.04.2025 11:55 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
A person wearing a black long sleeve tshirt and blue jeans crouched down on one knee on grass looking down at a blue merle border collie sat next to her and looking into her face. The dog is wearing a blue harness with a yellow coat over the top and a yellow long line attached to his harness is coiled up and held in the person's hand. She has one hand out of sight behind the dog's head, giving him some fuss.

A person wearing a black long sleeve tshirt and blue jeans crouched down on one knee on grass looking down at a blue merle border collie sat next to her and looking into her face. The dog is wearing a blue harness with a yellow coat over the top and a yellow long line attached to his harness is coiled up and held in the person's hand. She has one hand out of sight behind the dog's head, giving him some fuss.

Are you a canine professional looking for ethical & reliable sources of CPD? If you work with dogs in any way the National Institute for Canine Ethics will be a great fit. Contact me at jay@nicemembership.com to learn more! 🐕 #ethicaldogpeople #cpd #dogpeople #doglearning #dogcpd #ethicaldogpros

28.02.2025 17:35 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Getting flashbacks to Misery now 😱

18.02.2025 12:52 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Task or Team? I had a fantastic opportunity a while ago to go and spend a day amongst some wonderful dog people and listening to an incredibly interesting presentation on how we live and work with dogs, in particul...

"What is important to consider is whether asking them to do that particular thing at that moment is fair and appropriate, and to think about how we actually show them what it is that we would like from them."

#dogs #dogtraining #dogwelfare #dogcentred #dogbehaviour #caninebehaviour #happydogs

22.01.2025 15:33 👍 5 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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21.01.2025 02:36 👍 2282 🔁 2123 💬 7 📌 58
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How a love of dogs has turned Sussex woman into best-selling author Sussex woman turned her lifelong love of collies into a successful career as a best-selling author and dog behaviour tutor, helping reactive dogs and their owners.

Me and the dog who changed my life - because of him I do what I do now 😊

#reactivedogs #reactivedogsaregooddogstoo #dogbehaviour #dogtraining #fearfree #dogwelfare

20.01.2025 17:05 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
2 border collies standing near a person's legs on grass covered in fallen leaves. The blue merle is looking up at the person, the black and white is looking at the camera. Both dogs are wearing red coats.

2 border collies standing near a person's legs on grass covered in fallen leaves. The blue merle is looking up at the person, the black and white is looking at the camera. Both dogs are wearing red coats.

Blue merle Border Collie looking directly at the camera with his ears pricked and tongue tip just showing. His collar and ID tag can be seen just above the neck of the red coat he's wearing. His front paws are just off the edge of the photo.

Blue merle Border Collie looking directly at the camera with his ears pricked and tongue tip just showing. His collar and ID tag can be seen just above the neck of the red coat he's wearing. His front paws are just off the edge of the photo.

Black and white collie in a red coat sitting and looking just to the side of the camera. Her ears are pricked and mouth slightly open. She's sitting on a small patch of grass and fallen leaves in the middle of a track, body at around 45 degrees to the camera.

Black and white collie in a red coat sitting and looking just to the side of the camera. Her ears are pricked and mouth slightly open. She's sitting on a small patch of grass and fallen leaves in the middle of a track, body at around 45 degrees to the camera.

Black and white Border Collie wearing a red coat and sitting on the top of a yellow concrete pyramid with a flat top. The pyramid is sitting between some bushes and a person in a blue coat and black jeans is standing beside the dog and pyramid, but mostly out of shot. The dog's ears are pricked and she is looking off to the side of the camera which her mouth closed.

Black and white Border Collie wearing a red coat and sitting on the top of a yellow concrete pyramid with a flat top. The pyramid is sitting between some bushes and a person in a blue coat and black jeans is standing beside the dog and pyramid, but mostly out of shot. The dog's ears are pricked and she is looking off to the side of the camera which her mouth closed.

Chilly and slightly damp walk today, not that these guys cared in their coats!

#dogsofbluesky #bordercollie #dogwalks #dogwalking #happydogs

19.01.2025 17:07 👍 16 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0
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Do You Talk to Your Dog? This is inspired by a walk with one of my dogs today. She’s an adolescent Border Collie and can be a little bit jumpy sometimes with things that emerge suddenly. Being a Border Collie, she also at tim...

"This is something that I used to feel a bit strange about, walking along the road or path, chatting to my dog. It’s a habit I’ve had for as long as I can remember. Whenever there is something out of the ordinary, or that might bother my dogs, I talk to them about it."

14.01.2025 14:10 👍 2 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0

Self contained cab, over 7.5 tonnes. Can be artic or rigid (daughter of a lorry driver and also married to one and those were/are their definitions).

12.01.2025 12:44 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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New harness day, and her first Perfect Fit harness! Although I nearly used her old over head one because of the mud 😂

(Her fluff makes it look like it's right under her elbow but it isn't, she's yak-like in places 🤣)

#perfectfit #dogwalk #dogwalking #bordercollie #bordercolliesofbluesky #collie

09.01.2025 18:39 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I celebrate the teeth because there's usually a blep in the way 👅😆

06.01.2025 21:35 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Close up on the nose of a black and white collie with lower teeth showing.

Close up on the nose of a black and white collie with lower teeth showing.

Teefs! Sleepy puppy 😴🥰

#bordercolliesoftheworld #bordercollie #bordercolliesofblusky #sleepydog #dogs

06.01.2025 18:58 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0