Resilience is great. We want resilience. But to me trauma recovery is not about getting more "resilient." We've had enough "just getting by" by the skin of our "resilient" teeth.
To me the goal of recovery is measurably, meaningfully, REALISTICALLY improved quality of life.
28.02.2026 05:19
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I'm sorry. That does sound hard.
28.02.2026 05:21
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I love her videos so much. In fact she may or may not be partially responsible for feeding my obsession.
26.02.2026 19:04
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ya wanna borrow my blending board?
26.02.2026 18:37
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You know... yup (in a literal way). π€
26.02.2026 18:36
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"we apologize for the inconvenience this causes you"... it's not inconvenience. It's erasure. It's abuse.
26.02.2026 13:51
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What a good lil mouser! My profile pic is Suki (more specifically, The Duke Suki of dookie scootchies, Miss Suki Murderpaws Sparklepants). I am her human and she is near or on me almost always. She likes to help with yarn and she is also an excellent mouser whenever one is stupid enough to come in.
24.02.2026 18:18
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I find it much more helpful to read a descriptive pain scale. Just googling "a helpful 1-10 pain scale with descriptions" brings up some good examples. Showing these to the hcp and clarifying can work for some people.
24.02.2026 01:31
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I also very much appreciate this. This is a hard conversation. I know firsthand how devastating public tics can be. I know a child can withdraw completely after having an incident like the BAFTA one and then to see all the harmful/ableist takes compounds it so much.
23.02.2026 22:26
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This is infuriating. Statistically autistics are way more likely to be victims of abuse.
23.02.2026 18:27
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nobody has ever seen anything like it.... and nobody ever will. π
19.02.2026 22:39
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19.02.2026 21:47
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this is why the whole βoh, suffering creates great artβ thing is bullshit
you know whatβs conducive to art? a roof over your head and food on the table
you know what isnβt? stressing out over where the fuck the rent money is going to come from
19.02.2026 01:35
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wow, noticing my thumb's hypermobility and feeling stupid for always being like "ah my thumb, why does my thumb hurt so much all the time?" maybe time to get some of those ring splints dipshit.
18.02.2026 21:37
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mini skein of beige/grey handspun yarn that happens to be wearing a tiny knitted Ice out hat in red handspun yarn.
Wooden drop spindle with a cop of spun yarn and some unspun grey Shetland fiber that needs to be spun.
#HandSpun some grey Shetland top. Looks more marled beigey than grey to me but very soft. yarn is nice and springy, skin soft, not too rustic and would make a great noob spin I think. This 2 ply mini skein is a cheeky lil fella. Drape? Not so much. Would cable nicely.
18.02.2026 21:21
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apparently we're getting aliens though. bringing out the big guns *finger distraction guns' pew pew sounds
18.02.2026 21:10
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Autistic : you could just speak clearly instead of being dishonest or passive aggressive
Researchers : itβs a mystery what autistics are thinking
Autistic : just ask me directly
Researchers : so mysterious
17.02.2026 14:04
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"This shift to single-payer healthcare would provide the greatest relief to lower-income households. Furthermore, we estimate that ensuring healthcare access for all Americans would save over 68,000 lives and 1.73 million life-years every year."
16.02.2026 21:28
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"Even after accounting for the increased costs of coverage expansion, our data-driven base case includes $210 billion savings on hospital care, $111 billion on physician and clinical services, $224 billion on overhead, and $180 billion on prescription drugs".
16.02.2026 21:25
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yup, looks like a normal tattoo under second skin and the ink that leaches out with the plasma the first day or so looks just like that.
16.02.2026 05:02
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didn't Ted Bundy do that too except with less help?
15.02.2026 23:52
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15.02.2026 23:50
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15.02.2026 23:49
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Amazing! The other day after plying two alpaca singles together, I had one inch left of one single! As if all the planets had aligned and there was two moons in the sky. π
14.02.2026 20:41
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just figured out that I spun it z twist and plied s twist like i always do, but I should have done the opposite for flax. Hope I remember that for next time.
13.02.2026 19:07
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I also gave it an extra fierce thwacking. That was cathartic I think.
13.02.2026 19:03
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I didn't really wet spin it and i don't know if that is why it has so many pokey out bits. it feels a lot like hemp tbh.
13.02.2026 18:55
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