Boys, if you are struggling to think of an innovative gift for your partner tomorrow, here is a suggestion that might just change your lives forever.....
#FLR
#FLRFriday
#keyholder
He may not have been all of those things when we started but he is now.
Want your partner to be the same?
#chastity and #FLR can do that for your relationship.
***A public service message on #FLRFriday***
I agree completely. Games like this can help introduce couples to #chastity. But chastity only gets serious when the #keyholder makes all the decisions rather than the dice.
I've mentioned hubby in a few posts recently. Just to be clear....
Maybe without the comment about the butt plugs😈
There's nothing incompatible with a strong and proud man being #submissive
I'm really glad I found one.
#FLR
#chastity
#keyholder
This was the big turning point for me. The day I didn't feel any pressure to reciprocate or even unlock him for a little tease
That was when it became about me. I stopped being a wife playing at #chastity because hubby had asked me to and became a #dominant
Our #FLR evolved from there
#FLRFriday
My entry in the @literotica.com Valentine's Day story contest has been published.
www.literotica.com/s/valentines...
I've posted on the subject. Scroll down my timeline to 19 October and there is chapter and verse on our cuckolding journey.
Just leaving this here in case hubby does ever join Bluesky!
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Ladies, #chastity changes everything.
It's not just that his focus is 100% on you.
The fact you don't have to worry about pleasing him (unless YOU want to), holding that power, makes every orgasm you have as a #keyholder more intense.
Try it. You won't be disappointed.
#FLR
#FLRFriday
I also think there are women who are the dominant party in their relationships without realising they are practicing a #FLR and men who naturally defer to their female partner without appreciating they are in a type of #FLR.
I don't wear a key in public.
There is a difference to me between 'advertising' our kink on Bluesky where people can choose to engage or ignore and in public where the key might prompt a discussion that makes people uncomfortable.
Others take a different view.
That's an interesting observation. I hadn't really considered it before. Maybe the ladies in the US are just shy talking about it?
The perfect day to start your #malechastity journey.
Who knows where it will lead.
#chastity
#keyholder
#flr
I mean mainstream in that it is discussed openly in the same way you would talk about gym membership or a new diet.
I have a small group of close female friends. One or two of them I suspect are the dominant party in their relationships. But I have never had the courage to raise the subject.
One day I really hope #FLR and #malechastity will be mainstream.
Both empower women.
And the beauty is they are self-fulfilling. Once your man has experienced either, he will crave more.
#FLRFriday
#chastity
#wifedomme
Mood. Right now.
I don't believe in regrets but I do wish my short time with kitten had lasted longer.
On the plus side though, it inspired me to write my first story on @literotica.com.
So every cloud etc etc
I was very similar. At first #chastity was just a game for hubby and I played along. Until I realised the power of the cage. After that, we stumbled into our version of an #FLR and it was only as I researched more about it that I realised what an impact the two combined can have.
#FLRFriday - I almost missed it with the holiday period.
New year, new start.
Ladies, remember how considerate your man was when you first started dating? The compliments, the hugs, the tender moments. They faded away with familiarity but you can get them back.
All it takes is a #chastity cage!
Almost forgot it's #FLRFriday
Christmas always reminds me of how our lives have changed.
Pre #FLR it was always such a stressful time with food to prepare and kids to entertain.
Now, hubby does most of the work and I can relax.
#wifedomme
#chastity
Not one to blow my own trumpet often, but just read this wonderful review of one of my @literotica.com stories:
'One of the most entrancing and moving love stories I have ever read. And so full of powerful eroticism.'
I'd better get writing the next installment if that's what people think.
Spooky coincidence. I've just been to visit my @literotica.com profile and saw I had 420 followers.
Wondered how that compared to Bluesky and, you guessed, 420!
Not quite the 25,000 of X but something tells me all of the 420 are real people which is much more rewarding.
Thank you one and all!
Half an hour. I'm impressed!
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2/2
We stopped counting soon after that.
It was the perfect lesson to the locked boy - the #keyholder always decides. It's about what SHE wants, not arbitrary numbers of days the man spends locked.
We now practice #indefinitechastity. I've posted about it before.
#FLR
#wifedomme
1/2
A recent post saw @jamiejulia.bsky.social counting their days in #chastity.
It reminded me of the time I made hubby cum after 99 days chaste. He was so desperate to make it to three figures.
It's funny how #chastity works. Not only does he enjoy your orgasms, but you can enjoy his.
One day you will stop counting the days you are locked and learn to savour the times she lets you out. Only then are you truly committed to her.
Boys, be careful what you wish for
Hubby set us off on our journey and I'm sure when we started he thought it would be a bit of fun
Seven years later, our lives have changed out of all recognition
It's still fun, but not quite the fun he had in mind
#FLR
#femdom
#wifedom
#chastity
#malechastity
Ladies, there is no right or wrong when it comes to your #FLR. What it looks like is up to you.
It doesn't even have to be 24x7, though something tells me if you don't start that way it won't be long until it is.
#FLR can become addictive.
#FLRFriday
#chastity
An old one but a good one for #FLRFriday......
#FLRFriday
#femdom
As though you really need to ask!!! 😂🤣
