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A humanities girl who stumbled into sysadmin. I like cities, language, rainy days, weird computers, and pretty things シス管となった文系女子。都会、語学、雨天、変わったパソコンや、あらゆる美しいものが好き https://tsundoku.ne.jp

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Ward explained that she has long argued that sexuality is more of a choice than modern society generally admits. She also believes that women specifically — many more than we would think — are straight by cultural default and not out of true desire. “I want to think that the compulsion is like, ‘Well, I’m attracted to men,’” she said. “And if that’s real, then great!” But too often, she says, when she asks women why they are with men, she gets some version of a blank stare. In other words, in Ward’s view, there is a lot of #comphet.

This of course still left the question: What about “real” heterosexual women? It seemed fair to assume that they exist. “Ultimately, the way I will measure success is not whether all of these young women become lesbians,” Ward said, laughing. Navigating the structural problems of heterosexuality could “look like choosing to partner with women,” or it could “look like telling your husband, ‘You are going to have to do your part.’” The structure itself would only ever change, she said, if a critical mass of women chose one or the other — or both.

Ward explained that she has long argued that sexuality is more of a choice than modern society generally admits. She also believes that women specifically — many more than we would think — are straight by cultural default and not out of true desire. “I want to think that the compulsion is like, ‘Well, I’m attracted to men,’” she said. “And if that’s real, then great!” But too often, she says, when she asks women why they are with men, she gets some version of a blank stare. In other words, in Ward’s view, there is a lot of #comphet. This of course still left the question: What about “real” heterosexual women? It seemed fair to assume that they exist. “Ultimately, the way I will measure success is not whether all of these young women become lesbians,” Ward said, laughing. Navigating the structural problems of heterosexuality could “look like choosing to partner with women,” or it could “look like telling your husband, ‘You are going to have to do your part.’” The structure itself would only ever change, she said, if a critical mass of women chose one or the other — or both.

Someone with self-admitted bisexual attractions choosing to be a lesbian and then saying women aren't "really" straight... sure is something

31.03.2025 16:43 👍 32 🔁 3 💬 6 📌 1
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単語と文法から学ぶ PAPAGO式 台湾華語 - 台湾短期語学留学,大学進学 単語と文法を基礎から積み上げる本格台湾華語テキストが完成しました!

...but she did use the flight time to dig into a promising-looking Chinese textbook instead of buying Internet access. One step at a time papago-taiwan.com/tocfl/papago...

30.01.2025 22:00 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Narrator: she did not learn Cangjie (yet).

30.01.2025 21:48 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Maybe, if I'm really good, I can learn to type Cangjie over the holidays

21.12.2024 17:49 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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Lately, every time I see someone in public holding their phone in front of their face while taking a call on speaker, I think of this. I'm never going to get used to it

19.12.2024 16:11 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

That's a time zone boundary issue, not a DST issue? What are they on about? This reads more like clickbait than the work of a reputable journalistic organization.

11.12.2024 13:07 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Analysis | No daylight saving time? See how early or late you would be in the dark. Would you be okay if the sun rose before 4 a.m., or after 10? Not changing clocks is a popular idea, but we’d have to live with the extremes.

WaPo on proposals to end Daylight Savings Time: "the country may be too spread out for a one-size-pleases-all solution. Depending on your latitude and how close you are to the edge of your time zone, you could end up with some unexpected daylight extremes."

www.washingtonpost.com/nation/inter...

11.12.2024 13:06 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
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A keyboard controller appears to have died suddenly. Thankfully I have a spare, but I really don't want to resolder all these stupid wires 😭

08.12.2024 21:11 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Bashar al-Assad’s biggest mistake? Not going on Joe Rogan.

07.12.2024 20:13 👍 34466 🔁 4697 💬 449 📌 252
LimeWire Wrapped

1. sistem_of_a_dowm_Zelda_song.flac
2. Nirvana - Glycerine.flv
3. track_8_(1)_(1)c.mp3
4. weird_al_Bert_and_Big_Bird_smoking_weed_FUNNY(parody).wav
5. jay-z_the-blueprint_FULL ALBUM_REAL.mp3.exe

LimeWire Wrapped 1. sistem_of_a_dowm_Zelda_song.flac 2. Nirvana - Glycerine.flv 3. track_8_(1)_(1)c.mp3 4. weird_al_Bert_and_Big_Bird_smoking_weed_FUNNY(parody).wav 5. jay-z_the-blueprint_FULL ALBUM_REAL.mp3.exe

finally finished downloading my limewire wrapped after 20 years

04.12.2024 21:11 👍 25920 🔁 4906 💬 369 📌 284

Well sure, single stair reform is a good and necessary change in the big city of [checks notes] Jackson, TN, but why do we need to make housing types more accessible and adaptable in Nashville? (cc @rollinhorton.bsky.social @emilyfor7.bsky.social @quinevanssegall.bsky.social )

04.12.2024 18:44 👍 8 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0

Oh my god if I'm ever forced to accept one of those ISPs that's like "ENJOY BLAZING FAST DOWNLOAD SPEEDS!!!1 (20Mbps upload)" again...

04.12.2024 14:59 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Seriously, keeping a bag clean is already challenging enough when it's made of leather and you can (in theory) just wipe it off

04.12.2024 14:54 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

A big part of the reason why I prefer a written message to a call as a first contact attempt is because I will not do this. If I'm out of the office in a public space, and you ring, I'm going to have to call you back. If you message me, you'll probably get me right away.

04.12.2024 14:53 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I'm not this extreme, but I prefer (and usually get) a written message first. I'm happy to do voice calls, but I hate being forced to switch contexts immediately (if I'm available) or play phone tag (if I'm not). Any interaction that ends up involving voicemail is bound to be a terrible experience.

04.12.2024 14:44 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Do you know how much of a drunk you need to be to worry people working in cable news

04.12.2024 02:02 👍 3909 🔁 502 💬 75 📌 23

I'm going to have nightmares about this

04.12.2024 05:38 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
Headline "Justice Dept's Apolitical Tradition Is Challenged by 2 Presidents."

Headline "Justice Dept's Apolitical Tradition Is Challenged by 2 Presidents."

On the high school newspaper, they'd mock anyone who used passive voice *twice* in headline/subhead presentation.

But in the big leagues...

Someone decided this made sense.

04.12.2024 03:07 👍 686 🔁 113 💬 31 📌 5

Korea Expert here. I’ll explain what’s going on over there because the Orient can be confusing to Westerners. In Korea, there is a concept known as “the law.” (법) This is a set of rules which are enforced to encourage prosocial behavior and ensure stability which leaders aren’t allowed to break.

03.12.2024 21:24 👍 9195 🔁 2240 💬 173 📌 117
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Microsoft, you've been making Macintosh software for literally forty years, since before Windows was even a shipping product. You know as well as anyone that this is not the way to represent a keyboard shortcut.

02.12.2024 16:43 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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24.11.2024 20:30 👍 180 🔁 15 💬 0 📌 1

Fwiw she is pretty widely disliked even by her GOP colleagues. She’s all over the place. Messy. Fights with them too.

This is the most attention she has gotten in ages despite her many attempts, hence the differences in tack some have taken in this whole brouhaha. She really craves it. It’s weird

21.11.2024 21:44 👍 17424 🔁 1963 💬 481 📌 128

As a liberal I’m happy to see Gaetz out of a job, but as a mother I’m concerned I now have no idea where he is

21.11.2024 20:01 👍 103 🔁 17 💬 3 📌 0

8 years after the emails thing blew up hillary's campaign we have this guy up on stage bragging that he's illegally conducting diplomacy with netanyahu and putin and it's simply not a story. Genuinely remarkable

24.10.2024 17:47 👍 1806 🔁 584 💬 33 📌 25
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Architect Jim Olson confirmed that the iconic Pike and Virginia building that sits above the Pike Place Market is indeed a point access block.

Built in 1978, the project is the oldest example of mid-rise single-stair housing constructed in Seattle since single-stair >3 stories was legalized in 1977

11.10.2024 22:36 👍 55 🔁 9 💬 2 📌 1

~I was dreaming of blue skies in California~

30.09.2024 04:13 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Donald Trump: It's not over! Tomorrow Crooked Joe Biden's going to wake up and forget that he dropped out of the race today!

Donald Trump: It's not over! Tomorrow Crooked Joe Biden's going to wake up and forget that he dropped out of the race today!

Saying “it’s not over!” is the kind of thing you’d say if you saw Biden dropping out as the death of your own campaign

22.07.2024 03:47 👍 600 🔁 85 💬 21 📌 16

Florist Kalanchoes are my new favorite thing

07.04.2024 15:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0