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indie writer. bookworm. hockey girl. neurodiversity + mental health advocate. author: MANIC AUTISTIC DREAM GIRL (out April 22). πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ. she/her https://linktr.ee/hockeyinheels

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PWHL sells out Madison Square Garden, TD Garden | The IX Hockey | Powered by The Ice Garden The PWHL announced sellouts for upcoming games at Madison Square Garden in New York and Boston's TD Garden.

The PWHL announced sellouts for upcoming games at Madison Square Garden in New
York and Boston's TD Garden.
www.theixsports.com/the-ice-gard...

05.03.2026 21:29 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You can pre-order #ManicAutisticDreamGirl for your Kindles now, or wait until the April 22 release day to purchase a paperback or hardback edition.

05.03.2026 16:03 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Also, some self-promo, because it’s World Book Day: my book, Manic Autistic Dream Girl, releases on Amazon on April 22.

Here are some excerpts from the book. I can’t wait to share it with you. 🩢

05.03.2026 16:01 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
A white bookshelf filled to the brim with books.

A white bookshelf filled to the brim with books.

Happy #WorldBookDay!

Reading has been one of the most important interests in my life, especially since childhood. I am the writer I am today because I read.

What are you currently reading?

(My answer: β€œNeuroTribes” by Steve Silberman.)

05.03.2026 16:01 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

North Carolina. It’s… interesting.

05.03.2026 03:11 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You’re not. It’s so misogynistic, alongside being ableist. I feel like autistic women have to deal with an extra dosage of misogyny on top of… everything else.

04.03.2026 23:42 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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We have a trade to announce (as long as the player says yes and we ever find out the actual details of the deal)

04.03.2026 22:43 πŸ‘ 72 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve battled with disordered eating for a long time, and I love women’s hockey. I’m horrified to see Ozempic ads ON THE BOARDS during games as everyone I know gets thinner and thinner. I cannot escape this at all.

04.03.2026 23:39 πŸ‘ 42 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A graphic titled β€œMASKING” lists examples of behaviours associated with masking in neurodivergent individuals, including not speaking for fear of appearing awkward, practising conversations and phone calls, mimicking others’ gestures and tones of voice, suppressing stims and feelings of overstimulation, forcing eye contact, rehearsing social scripts, and sacrificing personal needs for the comfort of others. The design features layered side-profile silhouettes.

A graphic titled β€œMASKING” lists examples of behaviours associated with masking in neurodivergent individuals, including not speaking for fear of appearing awkward, practising conversations and phone calls, mimicking others’ gestures and tones of voice, suppressing stims and feelings of overstimulation, forcing eye contact, rehearsing social scripts, and sacrificing personal needs for the comfort of others. The design features layered side-profile silhouettes.

As SEND reform evolves, there’s a real risk that children who mask will be overlooked, despite carrying significant hidden anxiety & exhaustion. We believe true inclusion starts with emotional safety, so young people can unmask, belong, and be valued for who they are, not just how well they cope.

04.03.2026 20:01 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
On a white background, there is an image of a girl in a red jersey with the Carolina Hurricanes logo in the middle, a white hat, and brown hair. She is laughing. In black text reads β€œThis is who writes about hockey on the Internet.”

On a white background, there is an image of a girl in a red jersey with the Carolina Hurricanes logo in the middle, a white hat, and brown hair. She is laughing. In black text reads β€œThis is who writes about hockey on the Internet.”

On a white background, there is a girl wearing a black t-shirt and jeans with brown hair. She is holding a flute case. In black text reads, β€œThis is who talks openly about mental health on the Internet.”

On a white background, there is a girl wearing a black t-shirt and jeans with brown hair. She is holding a flute case. In black text reads, β€œThis is who talks openly about mental health on the Internet.”

On a white background, there is a little girl in a grey dress, polka dot leggings, and a pink coat. In black text reads, β€œThis is who is out as queer and advocates for LGBTQ+ rights.”

On a white background, there is a little girl in a grey dress, polka dot leggings, and a pink coat. In black text reads, β€œThis is who is out as queer and advocates for LGBTQ+ rights.”

On a white background, a little girl is holding a white dog stuffed animal. In black text reads, β€œThis is who is finally diagnosed with autism and is a neurodiversity advocate.”

On a white background, a little girl is holding a white dog stuffed animal. In black text reads, β€œThis is who is finally diagnosed with autism and is a neurodiversity advocate.”

Shoutout to @sarahspain.com for the idea β€” I also had to jump on the train, because this trend is awesome.

Thinking of younger variations of myself, always, and giving her the kindness I wish I’d gotten at that time.

04.03.2026 19:59 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Or when he came up with the bullshit β€œβ€˜male brain” theory, which played a huge role in the underdiagnosis or misdiagnosis of autistic girls and women throughout the 2000s and 2010s.

How he continues to be given a platform on autism is beyond me.

04.03.2026 16:31 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
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a close up of a man 's face with a serious expression on his face . Alt: a close up of a man’s face as he slow blinks.

Me, a North Carolinian, seeing the entire TL praise Thom Tillis:

04.03.2026 00:55 πŸ‘ 8 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Alex.

03.03.2026 20:51 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Adding on to this β€” the Elliotte Friedman stuff will (rightfully) get most of the attention, because his comments were disgusting AND he refused to speak about it.

This is excellent journalism. I hope this leads to changes in the industry.

03.03.2026 20:36 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Shireen did a phenomenal job on this piece. This issue isn’t limited to just Canada β€” it’s also an American hockey problem, and yes, even your β€œfavorite fun progressive hockey news sites” are a problem too.

03.03.2026 20:33 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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The roadmap to the postseason πŸŒ€

Here is your complete guide to the 2026 PWHL Walter Cup Playoffs! Read more πŸ‘‰ bit.ly/4u56QX5

03.03.2026 19:19 πŸ‘ 35 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a hockey player with the number 20 on their jersey celebrates Alt: MontrΓ©al Victoire group hug!

Good morning, lovely people!

It’s been a stressful 24 hours, but have no fear β€” your MontrΓ©al Victoire play this evening in Toronto at 7pm EST.

(It is, unfortunately, the only time they play this week.)

03.03.2026 17:05 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

This is truly the crux of it. It’s not about shielding kids or promoting β€œtraditional values” β€” it’s about straight up removing options, and the ability to imagine, from their worldview

03.03.2026 14:46 πŸ‘ 30 πŸ” 15 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

For context, the CBSC has received so many complaints about Friedman’s comments that they put out a statement asking people to stop filing complaints.

03.03.2026 00:09 πŸ‘ 38 πŸ” 10 πŸ’¬ 11 πŸ“Œ 1

The Wall of MontrΓ©al.

02.03.2026 23:40 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

hockey's borderline fetishization of injury and its overall labor weakness are direct causative agents in many of the cultural problems in the sport, in this essay I willβ€”
bsky.app/profile/nico...

02.03.2026 22:44 πŸ‘ 15 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

What in the actual fuck?

02.03.2026 23:09 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 3 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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a cartoon of alice from alice in wonderland looking down Alt: a cartoon of alice from alice in wonderland looking down and sighing

A PSA: Please stop taking my tweets/ideas and passing them off as your own. Repeatedly.

That’s called β€œplagiarism”, and most writers know to avoid doing so, because it’s immoral and so disrespectful to the person you’re ripping off.

I can’t believe I’m having to post this, but here we are.

02.03.2026 20:23 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI’m coming to the cottage.”

02.03.2026 19:19 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I said this on someone else’s post about this β€œcomedy”, but I used to work with comedians at a hockey news site. Not all of them, but A Lot of them, are vehemently ableist, even if they’re ND themselves. It sucks, but this isn’t surprising that SNL did this whatsoever.

01.03.2026 22:32 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I used to work with comedians who *loved* SNL. They were horrifically ableist. Not surprised to see this at all.

01.03.2026 22:13 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Today is Disability Day of Mourning.

People with disabilities are far more likely to be trapped in abusive relationships.

To be killed.

To be assaulted.

We’re forced into legislated poverty & made to be dependent on people who don’t always have our best interests at heart.

01.03.2026 21:03 πŸ‘ 309 πŸ” 121 πŸ’¬ 5 πŸ“Œ 3
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2026 Anti-Filicide Toolkit - Autistic Self Advocacy Network In the past five years, over 548 people with disabilities have been murdered by their parents, relatives or caregivers. On Sunday, March 1st, the disability community will gather across the nation to ...

Today is March 1st, the disability day of mourning to honor victims of filicide

don’t really want to say a lot about it w/ everything but this is a bigger problem than one might expect & ASAN has tools

ok that’s enough on that today for me, thank you, I love you, please be safe & kind if you can 🫢🏻

01.03.2026 18:28 πŸ‘ 18 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

On a much more positive note, I’m seeing that today’s game is the PWHL’s third straight sold-out game.(Seattle, Ottawa, and now, Montreal.)

Everyone watches women’s hockey!

01.03.2026 18:29 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

Don’t get me wrong β€” the PWHL is 100% worthy of support, and I’ll still be cheering for the Victoire. But as someone with a history of disordered eating (as many women have, starting in childhood), the Ozempic on the boards just makes me sad. And a little hopeless for younger girls.

01.03.2026 18:26 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0