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@asaokjay

librarian/archivist, redneck/red bandana, fat butch, loudmouth buddhist, old ska kid, John Prine stan, lindy hopper, chronically oversharing, has cute dogs, etc

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Here’s a Bluesky starter pack of my ska community recommendations. Message me to add your band, group, festival, podcast, or label to the list.
#ska #skapunk #skamusic

12.02.2025 02:46 πŸ‘ 95 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 28 πŸ“Œ 8

Laura Jane Grace is ALL OVER my feed lately and that means nothing but good things

14.03.2025 21:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Flirting with someone who said they wanted to do something nice with me and I said "is that a promise?" and they said "hell no that's a threat" and like... I feel understood in this moment

08.03.2025 01:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

More than once lately I've told someone I'm turning 41 tomorrow and their response is literally "oh fuck you" which it turns out is how New Yorkers say "you look good for your age" and it never stops being funny

07.03.2025 18:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Today I'm mad at how good my workout was instead (still very sleep deprived but not drunkenly brutal) -- I am exactly as gloriously exhausted as I needed to be.

Jesus, what's next, actually listening to myself??

07.03.2025 16:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yesterday I tried to bully myself into working out on like 2 hours of sleep and cancelled at the last minute because it felt like holding weights above my face or feet or vital organs was a very bad idea.

07.03.2025 16:31 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Some things you can do. No one can do all these things, but most people can do at least one:

Feed people. There's work for you at Food Not Bombs or whatever you got going on where are.
Join a local cop watch, ICE watch, or rapid response group.
Who's being targeted in your area? Have their back.

30.01.2025 16:55 πŸ‘ 1282 πŸ” 435 πŸ’¬ 25 πŸ“Œ 16

Thinking about the time my mom's friend told me that one year in a gay relationship is like 4 years in a straight one, "like dog years"

I both absolutely agree and also don't actually know what this means

31.01.2025 03:39 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I know I can't live-tweet group therapy but some of those motherfuckers are genuinely the funniest people I've ever met and I wish I could share them with y'all

31.01.2025 03:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I tripped over my own feet, tore through the ligaments in my knee, and sometimes when I feel poorly I use the cane to help me not fall over

But I'm sticking with his story

31.08.2024 06:08 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Went to the bodega this morning with my cane (feeling wobbly the last couple days after a long illness) because I really wanted a Swiss Roll and the cashier immediately says "what's up with the cane? Did you kick somebody's ass?"

31.08.2024 06:06 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
On Threads, the New York Times posts "threads, we're back. We did not deactivate our account, and are working to understand what happened here."

Goldengateblond responds: "failing to understand what's happening seems to be a persistent problem for you."

On Threads, the New York Times posts "threads, we're back. We did not deactivate our account, and are working to understand what happened here." Goldengateblond responds: "failing to understand what's happening seems to be a persistent problem for you."

Ouch

07.07.2024 18:41 πŸ‘ 2286 πŸ” 448 πŸ’¬ 45 πŸ“Œ 16

I just need somebody to come over and rub my head until I fall asleep plz. It'll take like five minutes but lord I cannot get there on my own

07.07.2024 19:59 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Sigh. We're so cute. I adore you. Life is good. πŸ’œ

06.07.2024 23:36 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

All these years i thought i was Jason Mendoza and I just realized I'm actually Pillboi

09.02.2024 00:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes I get stoned specifically to listen to music

13.01.2024 02:45 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

A nice thing about me is that I basically have the memory of a goldfish so I will literally always fall for a surprise party, I probably don't remember if I've heard that story before or not, and yes, you can just make up whatever happened in college

13.01.2024 02:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'll say a few nice things about Christianity and one of them is that some of the music really slaps. Like, give me a "Nearer My God To Thee" any day of the week y'all

09.01.2024 12:24 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I have two looks -- grinning maniacally or "it's giving Jim Jones"

05.01.2024 13:56 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

This is Frosted Brown Sugar Cinnamon Pop-Tart erasure and this will not stand

30.12.2023 02:57 πŸ‘ 393 πŸ” 13 πŸ’¬ 44 πŸ“Œ 8

Swoon

22.12.2023 06:57 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The thought process I just had can only be described as "so tired that I forgot that I was tired"

21.12.2023 20:34 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Revisiting the New Jack episode of dark side of the ring because frankly I could use some unhinged

21.12.2023 17:23 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

yeah i'm into BDSM

Being a
Dumb
Slutty
Motherfucker

21.12.2023 16:04 πŸ‘ 41 πŸ” 9 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 6

All I'm doing at work today is coming up with excuses to post pictures of my dogs in all the teams channels

21.12.2023 16:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Really the thing that should bring us all together as humans is that we all, in the end, are incapable of talking about Macho Man Randy Savage without, at some point, doing the voice of Macho Man Randy Savage

20.12.2023 20:19 πŸ‘ 9 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

A weird side effect of playing in band for years -- like, pit orchestras and community orchestras and shit like that -- is that I have a sixth sense for random-ass songs and it is intense. Like, play "Pomp and Circumstance" in the background of a scene in a movie and i lose my shit

20.12.2023 19:57 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I know all dogs are puppies but for some reason when it's my dogs they're "little dog babies" IDK

15.12.2023 20:19 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Gorgeous Goth Girl in Graveyard

15.12.2023 20:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0