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make your values your world • formerly standalone human 無縁者

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Creating an "oversharing journal" can help you to remind yourself of the things you try to say that aren't necessary for anyone but you to understand and reflect on.

09.03.2026 14:11 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Setting an app on your phone to hidden & requiring authentication will force you to question whether you return to it when you momentarily switch focus.

07.03.2026 18:17 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

It doesn’t matter who dealt the cards, it matters if you played them. Remember that #staystrong

24.02.2026 01:37 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

i like to keep lots of the clear round containers of different heights restaurants use, as well as the rectangular ones with separate clear lids, in my house.

any time i make too much of something, i hold on to the leftovers and find a way to incorporate it into something else later, rehome it.

22.02.2026 19:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

externalizing my thoughts is important to me because i am only cognizant of the things i can see, if they're not important enough to have out, i might not need them, it's important to not lose sight of what matters to you.

22.02.2026 19:40 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

i like watching plantslant because I can learn about ingredient parity. It's not about following recipes.

It's for improvisation applied to nutrition. It helps me discern ingredients to buy, meals come from the moment, same as I chased when I was binging, but way less mental load

still iterating.

22.02.2026 19:38 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

A light phone for time where it's permitted, a heavy and/or large phone to gently remind me: "I should not spend time dwelling with this discomfort"

19.02.2026 19:59 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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The Plant Slant

It is not about removing all sources of joy from your downtime, it's about reducing noise and choosing effective sources of not only entertainment but also nutrition for your body and mind.

youtube.com/@theplantsla...

19.02.2026 15:34 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

Having a secondary phone which does not have any immediate sources of loss of discipline is an immediately effective way to reduce your screen time, so long as you structure your life around charging one phone versus the other in a day/night pattern.

19.02.2026 15:32 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

& Any hardware suggestions?

31.01.2026 15:13 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Unity really does not make it easy to network share projects, been trying to find an alternative to syncthing of an entire dataset. It would be great if we had a solution to network project retrieval built into VCC (pulling down projects when opened)

19.01.2026 16:39 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

I believe that now more than ever it's incredibly important that we all stay informed of the actions that are happening in the country and constantly remind ourselves of the injustice that is happening. If we pretend that this stuff isn't happening, it only empowers the wrong people.

15.01.2026 01:01 👍 18 🔁 3 💬 2 📌 0

Every instance of fascism is ultranationalistic, but the tenants of their beliefs, the harmful actions they undertake, & the justifications are all specifically relatable to those within the society which they seek to protect. Stand for the plurality of democracy—the rights of all. Liberté pour tous

15.01.2026 02:52 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

The overall difficulty of defining a specific ideology of fascism fuels a mentality that the people identifying the fascist nature of others harmful acts are in fact the very people who should be dealt with, the obstacles acting in the defense of civil liberties.

15.01.2026 02:48 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

It becomes justified in the minds of fascists to betray the rights of people they vilify, in order to restore social protections, and democracy becomes an obstacle to their ends. The ends do not justify the means, it’s ultimately undertaken & accepted by the uninformed because of crisis in capital

15.01.2026 02:47 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0

What an amazing time @ ShelterCon. Met so many friends, new and old. Reconnected with many of them who I haven’t talked with in a while and mended a few broken bridges as well. Overall such a great experience. Thank you @2td.io & @sheltervr.club for the amazing weekend, so ready for the next one!

11.11.2025 20:47 👍 25 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0
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This Friday!

10.09.2025 07:47 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Imagine the framerates

28.08.2025 03:19 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Anxiety is awful, but I’m a firm believer that accepting that not everyone has to like you is critical to self-worth

28.08.2025 02:49 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

vtubers are a type of muppet

26.08.2025 15:19 👍 23 🔁 6 💬 1 📌 0

DID YOU ACTUALLY GO TO HK TO TAKE THE SKYBOX PHOTO IRL? 💀😂💯

28.08.2025 02:37 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Kaleidosky is kinda like a home away from home in VR for me; spent many late nights/early mornings floating in the river until all my trackers died (i still cant fly the rocketship at all tho). Excited to have a chance to supply some Trance Energy for the event this weekend, i hope you can attend 🤗💚

26.08.2025 18:30 👍 25 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 1

1) genres i love
2) genres i want to get to know
3) s/genres/people/ (" " 1&2)
4) new experiences & creative ideas
5) active dance floors

28.08.2025 02:27 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0