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Writer of smart smut, author of "Prudery and the War on Sex" and the Free Spirits series; ally to sex work & trans communities, left-libertarian feminist

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If you like your erotica with some philosophy & social commentary, check out my Free Spirits series, published by NEH Media

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

If you like your erotica with some philosophy & social commentary, check out my Free Spirits series, published by NEH Media

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

If you like your erotica with some philosophy & social commentary, check out my Free Spirits series, published by NEH Media

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

If you like your erotica with some philosophy & social commentary, check out my Free Spirits series, published by NEH Media

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

If you like your erotica with some philosophy & social commentary, check out my Free Spirits series, published by NEH Media

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Free Spirit Visit Amazon's Free Spirit Page and shop for all Free Spirit books. Check out pictures, author information, and reviews of Free Spirit

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Many alleged suicides of Black trans women are in fact modern-day lynchings, report finds Jill Collen Jefferson, the founder of JULIAN, explains what happens when a transgender woman’s death is ruled a suicide and a community calls it something else.

This is terrifying

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Andrea’s Miracle Dr. Andrea Gerson, a compassionate pediatrician, has spent her life navigating the complexities of her own transition while caring for the smallest patients. After fleeing the increasingly restrict…

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All of my books, re-published by @newessexhouse.bsky.social, are now back on Amazon, including the new addition to my Free Spirits series: "Andrea's Miracle"!

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21.01.2026 17:57 πŸ‘ 4 πŸ” 6 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
4 frame comic. Stephie is babysitting at a snowy park. A woman, sitting on the same bench as her, asks : are you that kid's sister? stephie replies : their babysitter, actually! the woman says : "their"? is it a boy or a girl? Stephie answers : we don't know yet, they haven't told us. The woman continues, upset : but won't that confuse the kid?! they must have been born as something! Stephie says : the most confusing part of it is actually the amount of strangers who feel entitled to ask whats in that kid's pants. in the last frame, Stephie stares at the woman silently while the kid's face pops up in the corner of the frame.

4 frame comic. Stephie is babysitting at a snowy park. A woman, sitting on the same bench as her, asks : are you that kid's sister? stephie replies : their babysitter, actually! the woman says : "their"? is it a boy or a girl? Stephie answers : we don't know yet, they haven't told us. The woman continues, upset : but won't that confuse the kid?! they must have been born as something! Stephie says : the most confusing part of it is actually the amount of strangers who feel entitled to ask whats in that kid's pants. in the last frame, Stephie stares at the woman silently while the kid's face pops up in the corner of the frame.

The most confusing part

02.12.2025 17:04 πŸ‘ 466 πŸ” 145 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 4
4 frame comic. A guy with a shirt with Rando written on it tells the author : so tired of hearing the
left talk about fascism. it
feels so disrespectful to
compARE WHAT'S HAPPEning
in the u.s. to the millions of
victims of Nazi Germany.
She replies : 
you seem to think that
the death camps happened
overnight, but it was a multi-
decades long crescendo, filled
with people telling the regime
critics to stop overreacting.
by its nature, the only
moment you can call out
fascist rhetoric is before
fascism is fully up and
running. 
I'd rather
speak up early
and be wrong
than not
saying anything
and my silence
be complicit.

considering how in its
first year, this u.s. admin has
already caused 625k+ public man-
made deaths* by terminating
USAID progams and disappeared
thousands of migrants, I'd say
their contempt for human life
should give anyone legitimate
reasons to be worried.
Source :
*impactcounter.com, by Boston u.
researcher Brooke nichols

4 frame comic. A guy with a shirt with Rando written on it tells the author : so tired of hearing the left talk about fascism. it feels so disrespectful to compARE WHAT'S HAPPEning in the u.s. to the millions of victims of Nazi Germany. She replies : you seem to think that the death camps happened overnight, but it was a multi- decades long crescendo, filled with people telling the regime critics to stop overreacting. by its nature, the only moment you can call out fascist rhetoric is before fascism is fully up and running. I'd rather speak up early and be wrong than not saying anything and my silence be complicit. considering how in its first year, this u.s. admin has already caused 625k+ public man- made deaths* by terminating USAID progams and disappeared thousands of migrants, I'd say their contempt for human life should give anyone legitimate reasons to be worried. Source : *impactcounter.com, by Boston u. researcher Brooke nichols

Legitimate reasons

19.11.2025 19:10 πŸ‘ 340 πŸ” 141 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 7

I noted in my book "Prudery and the War on Sex" that the women's rights movement of the 19th century divided into 2 strains: one focused on empowering women, the other on protecting them. Problem with the latter is that it was no different from those who wanted to deny women equality.

07.11.2025 08:40 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Alt text: A post on X by Brianna Wu reads: β€œTrans sisters. I’m pretty sure I was wrong. I am sorry. I genuinely thought that as a trans woman, if I ceded some points with the gender critical crowd we could have a healthier conversation and arrive at better public policy. The problem is, they are getting crazier and more extreme. If you admit β€˜trans women don’t belong in women’s sports,’ they agree, but call you a man the whole time. If you admit, β€˜I understand I am a biological man, but this is how I want to live my life and talking about me like this is degrading,’ they scream about free speech. If you admit that hurtful language is part of free speech but you don’t have to associate with people that degrade you, they act like the victim and call you a man and then say you should be thrown in an insane asylum. It’s like this on everything. They are incapable of looking for a middle ground on bathrooms. They want maximalist policies on everything. They’d throw a fully transitioned, fully passing trans woman in male prison genpop and laugh as she got aids from being raped. I want a middle ground on so many of these policies. BUT THE FUNDAMENTAL PROBLEM IS THEY DO NOT. They enjoy degrading us, it’s fun for them. So, sisters. I genuinely don’t know what to do. I think many of our most extreme ideas are bad. But theirs are worse. So if I have to pick, I choose us. I wish there were a political vehicle for compromise and medical safeguarding. But that just simply does not exist.” The post timestamp reads 6:52 AM, Nov 1, 2025, with 39.6K views.

Alt text: A post on X by Brianna Wu reads: β€œTrans sisters. I’m pretty sure I was wrong. I am sorry. I genuinely thought that as a trans woman, if I ceded some points with the gender critical crowd we could have a healthier conversation and arrive at better public policy. The problem is, they are getting crazier and more extreme. If you admit β€˜trans women don’t belong in women’s sports,’ they agree, but call you a man the whole time. If you admit, β€˜I understand I am a biological man, but this is how I want to live my life and talking about me like this is degrading,’ they scream about free speech. If you admit that hurtful language is part of free speech but you don’t have to associate with people that degrade you, they act like the victim and call you a man and then say you should be thrown in an insane asylum. It’s like this on everything. They are incapable of looking for a middle ground on bathrooms. They want maximalist policies on everything. They’d throw a fully transitioned, fully passing trans woman in male prison genpop and laugh as she got aids from being raped. I want a middle ground on so many of these policies. BUT THE FUNDAMENTAL PROBLEM IS THEY DO NOT. They enjoy degrading us, it’s fun for them. So, sisters. I genuinely don’t know what to do. I think many of our most extreme ideas are bad. But theirs are worse. So if I have to pick, I choose us. I wish there were a political vehicle for compromise and medical safeguarding. But that just simply does not exist.” The post timestamp reads 6:52 AM, Nov 1, 2025, with 39.6K views.

WHAT DO YOU THINK WE'VE BEEN TRYING TO TELL YOU???!!!

01.11.2025 18:53 πŸ‘ 1445 πŸ” 145 πŸ’¬ 95 πŸ“Œ 21
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I have a very bad feeling about this...

27.10.2025 16:51 πŸ‘ 54388 πŸ” 10205 πŸ’¬ 1854 πŸ“Œ 643
4 frame comic. 1st frame shows the silhouette of a protest. text reads : 
anti-fascism isn't just about
wearing cool scarves and ski
goggles. when terfs* announced
that they were organizing a
protest at a library I was
speaking at, they showed up and
outnumbered the terfs.
2nd frame shows the silhouette of someone at a computer. text reads :
it's antifa geeks
monitoring alt-right online
groups who told me that they
found my address, 8 years ago.
I could get to safety and make
sure nothing happened,
thanks to them.
3rd frame shows the antifa logo. text reads :
it's an undercover
antifa who told me Proud
boys were planning to crash
a library talk I was giving.
they still did it, but we could
prepare accordingly and the
talk went as planned.
4th frame shows a protest with a "good night white pride" banner. text reads : 
it's a whole squad of anti-
fascists who showed up to keep
a neo-nazi group at bay from
a family event I was speaking at.
they stayed until the end to
accompany participants to their
car or all the way to their
home. the police was aware of
the threat but didn't do sh*t.

4 frame comic. 1st frame shows the silhouette of a protest. text reads : anti-fascism isn't just about wearing cool scarves and ski goggles. when terfs* announced that they were organizing a protest at a library I was speaking at, they showed up and outnumbered the terfs. 2nd frame shows the silhouette of someone at a computer. text reads : it's antifa geeks monitoring alt-right online groups who told me that they found my address, 8 years ago. I could get to safety and make sure nothing happened, thanks to them. 3rd frame shows the antifa logo. text reads : it's an undercover antifa who told me Proud boys were planning to crash a library talk I was giving. they still did it, but we could prepare accordingly and the talk went as planned. 4th frame shows a protest with a "good night white pride" banner. text reads : it's a whole squad of anti- fascists who showed up to keep a neo-nazi group at bay from a family event I was speaking at. they stayed until the end to accompany participants to their car or all the way to their home. the police was aware of the threat but didn't do sh*t.

"What does antifa do?" My personal experience with antifa.

27.10.2025 21:10 πŸ‘ 652 πŸ” 275 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 2

I'm thinking Stopped Clock Syndrome ...

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Rest in peace, Miss Major.

We will carry the bricks forward.

14.10.2025 02:52 πŸ‘ 2880 πŸ” 688 πŸ’¬ 14 πŸ“Œ 4
before being the obsession of
peter thiel and every favourite
podcaster of your incel cousin,
schmitt was the jurist who
came up with the theoretical
legal foundation for the
nazi party's power grab and
subsequent atrocities.
he wrote: "sovereign is he who
decides on the exception." he
believed that constitutional
democracies were facades for
the total power of the execu-
tive, since the legislative was
powerless during exceptional
times.
schmitt also wrote about
the friend-enemy distinction,
which he saw as the basis of
the politic. people are sorted
into groups, either with you or
against you, in a struggle for
survival. big incel vibes, I know.
in his view, liberalism
challenged that "natural order"
by restricting the power of
the executive and by easing
the distinctions with enemy
groups, which he thought led
to social paralysis and
racial decay.

before being the obsession of peter thiel and every favourite podcaster of your incel cousin, schmitt was the jurist who came up with the theoretical legal foundation for the nazi party's power grab and subsequent atrocities. he wrote: "sovereign is he who decides on the exception." he believed that constitutional democracies were facades for the total power of the execu- tive, since the legislative was powerless during exceptional times. schmitt also wrote about the friend-enemy distinction, which he saw as the basis of the politic. people are sorted into groups, either with you or against you, in a struggle for survival. big incel vibes, I know. in his view, liberalism challenged that "natural order" by restricting the power of the executive and by easing the distinctions with enemy groups, which he thought led to social paralysis and racial decay.

Who is Carl Schmitt, the authoritarian political theorist that the New Right and the Neocons are obsessed with?

09.10.2025 21:04 πŸ‘ 217 πŸ” 75 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0
Alt text: Screenshot of a document outlining a new university policy. The bullet points state:

No discussion of transgender topics or anything suggesting more than two genders.

All information in syllabi about transgender topics must be removed.

Instructors must use students’ given names, not preferred names.

Safe-space stickers, LGBTQ flags, etc. are banned and must be removed.

Employees must remove pronouns from email signatures.

The university will not support faculty who teach or discuss these topics in class.

Alt text: Screenshot of a document outlining a new university policy. The bullet points state: No discussion of transgender topics or anything suggesting more than two genders. All information in syllabi about transgender topics must be removed. Instructors must use students’ given names, not preferred names. Safe-space stickers, LGBTQ flags, etc. are banned and must be removed. Employees must remove pronouns from email signatures. The university will not support faculty who teach or discuss these topics in class.

Under pressure from Texas government officials, Angelo State University in Texas is banning all discussion or mention of the existence of trans people along with banning the LGBTQ pride flag from campus and forced misgendering of trans people.

conchoobserver.com/2025/09/19/a...

22.09.2025 13:45 πŸ‘ 1602 πŸ” 685 πŸ’¬ 95 πŸ“Œ 150
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OLIVER: β€œIn Russia, when Putin rose to power, TV satirists were among his first targets… Putin was driven to madness by how he was mocked on a puppet show… the lesson is it’s not safe to let one show slide because there are currently others.”

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Trump to sign order designating antifa a terrorist organization U.S. President Donald Trump will sign an executive order as soon as Monday designating the antifa movement a "terrorist organization," the White House said, after promising actions targeting left-wing groups following Charlie Kirk's assassination.

This isn't about antifa, this is about the NGO's. The goal here is to eliminate philanthropic support to major liberal groups through intimidation. They're going to starve liberal groups of funding while hitting them with millions in legal fees from investigations.

www.reuters.com/world/us/tru...

22.09.2025 20:56 πŸ‘ 1684 πŸ” 595 πŸ’¬ 40 πŸ“Œ 68
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This Wednesday 9/24 I'll be joining @danklefstad.bsky.social and Eva Vertrice on their #vampchat podcast to talk about my novel "Vesper Glen" ... vampchatwithdanandeva.podbean.com

23.09.2025 03:07 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Proud to live in a city where hospitals care enough about patients to stand up to bigotry & bullying!!

15.09.2025 07:39 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
Mandelson and Streeting

Mandelson and Streeting

It has come to my attention that many of you have been sharing this photo of Streeting and Mandelson widely.

Please remember that Wes Streeting does not like it being shared widely. So please do not share it widely and on every possible occasion. We wouldn’t want to upset him would we?

15.09.2025 06:35 πŸ‘ 429 πŸ” 278 πŸ’¬ 30 πŸ“Œ 67
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Charlie Kirk’s Legacy Deserves No Mourning The white Christian nationalist provocateur wasn’t a promoter of civil discourse. He preached hate, bigotry, and division

The Nation pulls NO punches, from @espiers.bsky.social

"There's no requirement to take part in this whitewashing campaign. Refusing to join in doesn’t make anyone a bad person. It’s a choice to write an obituary that begins β€œJoseph Goebbels was a gifted marketer and loving father to six children.”

13.09.2025 02:39 πŸ‘ 13143 πŸ” 3952 πŸ’¬ 140 πŸ“Œ 167
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If you had any doubt about the anti-trans movement being fascist & genocidal ... READ THIS!!!

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