Thanks to all y'all for keeping this place running for me while i continue to fail at social media and excel at life. I wouldn't be able to ignore this account for weeks on end without ya.
They also bank on you being too concerned or embarrassed to report it when they ghost after payment.
I am no hater or i would name them, but the last 3 doubles with talent i did not know - i need to raise my rates, and not just a little. Y'all can get 1st dates to pay that rate with those pix but you will never create client retention with a vibe of "I don't like sex/would rather be anywhere else.
Mischief managed.
By mischief i mean ass juice. Not mine - this time.
Ahem, the scammers use Apply Pay because y'all perceive Apple Pay as legit. If they insist on taking payment through only one method they most likely scamming - especially if they insist that one method be Apple Pay. Legit talent will provide multiple discreet payment options. Apple Pay isn't.
Y'all don't know how to act. Get the fuck out the biz if you can't be bothered. I cannot believe how many bs conversations i have had while trying to find a doubles partner to come take all this money i have negotiated for them already. It used to be soo fn ez. Danielle says gig. That was it.
The other app is making it impossible to exist there. After getting suspended, my tribe getting suspended, people not following back, the decision was made. I hope everyone makes the switch.
Hello BlueSky! 🦋
Me: Gonna have to add 'Bama to the list of states that have tried to kill me.
Butterfly: Look at it this way, you initiated now, I promise you. Know what I mean? Official 'Bama Baddy.
Me: I will inform bsky of my new hashtag.
#Birmingham i am still all up in ya for the foreseeable future.
Baffling:
People who own a giant untrained dog but have a motorbike as their only form or transportation and no fence.
Not Baffling: If you put the worst person in charge all the worst people are liberated to behave badly.
Ima gonna fix it now that i am through those dates anyway.
I know addressing something we disagree with can result in hostility online. I am a learner and secure in who i am so i can take criticism and disagreement without getting defensive and i am always willing to do better. Social media has always been my weakest link in this biz. Thank you.
Not perfect and maybe messed it up but it was for sure my intention to include an image description. I know there is at least one image i did not alt text at all but if there is one where i didn't include a description it wasn't intentional. On at least one it was farther down but it was there.
I know this because i do a rather elaborate incall set up and it rarely matters to anyone but me. I could do none of it and we would still have the same good time. Still, i am convinced that it helps set and keep the mood even if they don't seem to care - doesn't mean it has no effect.
Heh - I get your point but i do think you misread this part or maybe i mistyped/was unclear. I for sure did not intend to say it won't matter if they cant' see me - i meant they would not care about the background with me in the foreground - and they won't - not in the image or in person.
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What's with this site labeling people as "rude account" and how do I get that status
Come to think of it, i am pretty sure i had to do this to join Tryst so maybe i just need to smoke a bowl and chill. 😎
I am sorry someone fucked with you. I am glad they helped you resolve it. I will give it some more thought. I appreciate your words and taking the time.
IDK, it just feels like they are collecting data on us so that we could potentially be prosecuted.
Oh yeah? Huh. Well, now i wonder why i wasn't asked? This is the first time for me. HMMM. Maybe i am totally backwards on this.
That part isn't what is bugging me. Maybe i am taking it too personally but i have been the absolute most loyal and long term supporter of this site - i am not exaggerating. I, and many others, paid for ads in cities this site didn't work in for many years to get it going. BUT NOW I NEED TO SEND ID?
Heh, this whole conversation is just gonna land us where we already know we are - that we need decrim.
We have always had to self police for this reason. If they have zero idea there is any concequence they would all just rip us off. This being true is why more and more of us require deposits or payment in advance.
Well, love it is precisly because we don't have any legal recourse to enforce what would otherwise be a legally binding agreement.
Heh, you are like me - so very many thoughts. I am bothered by this. I have been on the site since 2005 and i am not being accused of anything but i am being forced to send in my ID if i want to keep my profile of 21 years even tho my site and email have not changed and i am for sure still me.
So you are complying. Check. Thank you. I do think there is a difference between pointing out the natural consequences to someone's actions vs threatening them but it should be in the published cancel policy - not in personal communication after that fact. Read the fine print - so to speak.
This just keeps getting wackier. 🏓
OK, chat how are we dealing with P411? Are we just quitting on them or are we complying with their invasive nonsense?
Asking for a friend who has been a member since 2005 and they still always treat me like i am the hostile enemy because in truth they hate sex workers and advocate for the men.
