Love AWN…

Oh nothing, just Miguel and I!

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You’re so welcome!!! 🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿

He needs to be really cautious!!! I fear he’s putting himself in harm’s way! You’re right about everything you said too! He went where he got some love, even if it was toxic! I just don’t think he needs to completely remove himself from the community!!!

Same!!! She spoke to things that make sense for people who don’t know the trans experience!

However I think he should be more cautious about labeling the men that pursue him as “straight” because they’re not. EJ isn’t a trans woman and has no desire on transitioning.

I think the way EJ has moved within both gay and hetero spaces is a reflection of how he’s been received in both. Gay men don’t check for him and the “straight” men do, and honestly I don’t blame him for going where he’s embraced.

Also gay men just started living for the fem gays like five o clock yesterday, I remember when I went through a hyper fem phase in like 2018 and getting SIDE EYED at the GAY CLUBS for DRESSING GAY.

Trans attracted men are more likely to be attracted to EJ which you will find in heterosexual spaces. I think EJ doesn’t have the language to categorize the men that pursues him and just label them as straight.

As progressive as the gays want to be perceived (now and then) they weren’t checking for him since he was fat and fem. Most gay men aren’t checking for hyperfemininity which could have led him to be ostracized out of the community.

Absolutely!!!

My thoughts.

EJ was out and working the set before pocket gays became trendy. Him being gay and flamboyant was like a stain on his father’s “legacy”. During that time frame homophobia was on 10 which was definitely reflected in the gay community.

i really wish we were stricter when it comes to gatekeeping our culture because wtf do you mean jack harlow released an r&b album and is doing interviews about how he “got blacker” in the process of making this album?? please don’t piss me off.

We deserved at least 4 seasons of this show.

Hey Alive! 🫶🏿

Happy Birthday friend!!! Hope you have a wonderful day!!!

Well he surely acts like one!!!

Yes I saw those videos too and enjoyed them as a lover of fashion! His image has changed a lot since the last time I saw him too! Can’t wait to hear all your thoughts!!!

Thanks!

Bahahahaha PUHLEASE!!!

@down.blue snag me this please!

EJ JOHNSON: Growing up as Magic Johnson's kid, dating "straight" men, TMZ outing them, reality tv YouTube video by Carlos King

Lovely!!! Here’s the full interview! It’s about an hour and some change! They talk about a ton of things just around his life and all!

Thanks for coming to my TED Talk! 🫶🏿

The sooner you let that go, the sooner you’ll find your person! I hope EJ wakes up and gets himself some gay folks and goes to the gay spaces to see the men who actually like him! I’m also a firm believer that you can’t really date someone who is not also out! It doesn’t even make sense, truly!

All in all, I think we have to stop the madness! We need to do better as a community, and people like EJ need to get out more! There are plenty of folks who like them fat and fem, but you need to be willing to look! Too many people want folks who don’t want them!

EJ didn’t get the acceptance or love that he desires and is finding it elsewhere! We can’t be surprised when he started out as the fat and fem queer man that everyone talked so terribly about! He went and found that love in folks who are fulfilling a fantasy.

With EJ, I feel this is a huge problem: how he navigates the world. It’s like when ALT Black folks distance themselves from other Black folks because they didn’t get the love like their peers. They go and find that love in YT folks, but don’t realize that it’s not really love they’re getting.

Part 3

Part 2

Part 1

Dominique Morgan made a TikTok discussing several things that I think need to be highlighted! I’ll link the videos below as they’re broken up into 3 parts.