Alarms list. 6:30am Bitch 7:00am YOU GOTTA MOVE IT MOVE IT 7:30am Get up 8:30am Fuck you move yo ass 8:30am Leaving time 9:40am Shoes on out the door
Anyone else get very aggressive with themselves in their alarms? ^^;
I was very attached to the first letter of my given name for silly reasons, and i really wanted something gender neutral at the time. I kept on coming back to “Jay” over and over again but but couldn’t commit, it felt too masc still.
so i invented my own spelling, and then it clicked.
Ok, I keep looking at this selfie and I’m not getting dysphoric from it at all for a change. I look cute, I look beautiful, I look happy 💕💕💕
Today was a really great day. Being amongst community, making new friends, learning more about our experiences and struggle… being trans is home to me 🏳️⚧️💕
sometimes i’m struck by the thought that if me 5 years ago saw my feed today, they’d be incredibly fucking confused. “Wait we’re a girl now? We show our face on the internet now??? Real people follow us?????”
anyway. did i have a point i was making? i dunno, I’m gonna go to bed.
loving this rep on my timeline this evening for miss kaninna!
saw her open for Amyl and the Sniffers last year (along with Bob Vylan who were also amazing live) and have been a fan since
Me 3hrs ago: "Miss Kaninna? Who's that?"
Me now: "I will never again use the colonialist term 'Australia' without the prefix 'So-Called'"
😾
#g-witch
danger hand crush in gears sign that says keep going im close
robogirl getting this tattooed above her pussy to stay osha compliant
I've mentioned that I stand by all queer people, and that includes the large gay men who talk about being large gay men over and over again but y'know.
Bears repeating.
(Was fantastic to get to catch up a little too! I’ll try and make sure i get a full nights sleep and remember my meds next time we hang lol)
Yeah, it was a fantastic day, and its really fucking awesome to see events like this existing!!
Now to take that energy and do something! After… after i get some sleep.
Jaye wearing one less necklace than normal, black collared shirt, and a name badge sitting in a UTS classroom for the International Women’s Day: For and By Trans Women event by the ICLC.
Being back in the classrooms of my old uni for an event was interesting.
good day tho! got to meet up with some friends, got to start making some new friendships, learned a few things and walked away feeling empowered and motivated.
Jaye in a bar wearing a knotfest tee and jewellery, waiting for her friend to get back from the bar
girl enjoying catching up with an old friend and has not yet realised choices are only moments away from catching up to her
(help i am so tired and home is still 45 minutes away)
Well milady, i hope you get a better night’s sleep without the pea tonight 😉
see, if you wake up in the morning sore and grumpy because there was a pea under the mattress in your otherwise very comfortable bed we know you're a real princess, instead of idunno, just a girl. or something. I haven't read that fairy tale in decades
so how'd it go, you a princess or normal? :P
(some voting systems make positions like mine a lot more difficult, i'll grant, but you can't give up the framing right at the start of the fight)
Meanwhile "lesser evil" framing automatically just puts in you in the loser's position, because you're announcing from the get go you'll settle for "still evil" and how can you actually fight for better things from that position?
I feel like "lesser evil" is just bad framing that puts you in a bad spot from the get go.
I'm voting FOR things i want and refusing to cross my lines in the sand to do so. there's still room there to negotiate on things that other people think are important, as long as you respect my human rights
no idea if any of those will hit your vibe, but i wouldn't be me if i missed a chance to plug some aussie music xD
tiny indie rock band out of Adelaide i don't really know their vibe but they're friends of a friend: Fever Dream
trans indie rock band from Sydney: FVNERAL
If enbies fit the bill, Cry Club (melbourne based duo, pop/punk/rock blend) is up there as one of my fav acts right now
So the thing about being trans is you go from barely existing to loving life and then everyone who isn’t trans wants us to be quiet and polite at best while we’re exploding with the first real joy we’ve ever experienced
So
Anyone who thinks we need to be civil and quiet can fuck all the way off
nobody confiscated my phone last night and i was allowed to just post whatever on the internet, huh.
but also. yknow. science is fun.
the way its fading is keeping it looking just as cool as when it was freshly done! Slightly different kind of cool, but still working for me!
hehehe the past few months have been a bit of a learning journey on who i am and what i want out of my life now, absolutely updating that bingo card xD
i'm not really convinced they hate their users any more than any other company does - they just for some inane reason refuse to have some actual comms policy to stop them from admitting it
🫠
my credit card is close to maxed right now but i’ll do the math on that right after i catch up on some sleep, and once i get done finding out how much i regret being up this late on a Thursday!!
hot goblin who should have her phone confiscated before she overshares
anyway more of my femme friends should try running their fingers through my hair. yknow. for science.
hot goblin out past midnight getting compliments on her hair and outfit from strangers and realising she might have some emotions to process about some of her friends ^.^
Jaye, wearing a long sleeved green top, hair parted slightly oddly, glasses tucked away in bag, on a train. About 5 G&Ts deep and after teasing a friend a bit and having her hair tussled a little. Not visible in frame: black skirt, boots.
Rando on train: “I love your hair how’d you get it like that?”
Me: “paid a stylist $300”
Her: “worth it though! It really suits you, and you have the clothes to match!”
Compliments from strangers at midnight was not on my bingo card but fuck yeah more of that please! 😉
you can’t trick me into thinking i’m a princess lol i know what i am
youtu.be/uSEeIwzr3o0
an illustration by Spindle of the character Anni (on the right, an elflet with green hair tied up in a bun and 4 hair loops, wearing yellow glasses, beige turtleneck, and black skirt) kissing a halfling woman (unnamed) on the left (brown hair tied up in a bun, glasses, red turtleneck, and grey skirt)
librarians kissing
