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Betty Widerski (aka Betty4Cats)

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Rock violist in band GingerIbex.bandcamp.com 40+ years in IT Trumpet mentor in SchoolofHonk.org She/her, cis lesbian Owned by 4 cats

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Sad, but good for Marc for doing this.

11.03.2026 02:05 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So far Mercury Retrograde has worked in my favor: long-delayed LTC payments came, J’s out of network dental claim finally processed, remaining subscription cancel $ refunded, company who was reimbursing me $25/mo for amt I had paid to a solar program decided to give me the remaining $$$$ balance.

07.03.2026 00:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Bon voyage!

06.03.2026 15:35 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

FYI the Amazon commerce site is having issues. I did manage to grab those (thanks!) but it kind of thought about letting me for a bit. Can't check out in the usual cart currently.

05.03.2026 19:49 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A graph of outage reports over time for Amazon's commerce site, showing a large spike at in the most recent timeframe.

A graph of outage reports over time for Amazon's commerce site, showing a large spike at in the most recent timeframe.

Yeah - just searched that. Assuming it's just the commerce site, as I'm not hearing any AWS screaming,

05.03.2026 19:42 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Interesting - I added a gift card, then went to my Amazon cart and attempted to check out, but it's going to the "something went wrong" page.

Oh, right - I forgot we are in the middle of a Mercury Retrograde...

05.03.2026 19:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

This is weird: went to look at an Amazon listing I saved for later. Although in the list it shows it has over 1K reviews when I go to the actual listing I cannot see the reviews! Plus most searches give me a grid of options but now no prices on them. Did they just "improve" something?

05.03.2026 19:32 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

FWIW I just discovered a "turbo spin scrubber" (just search on Amazon) works well with dish soap for cleaning cat yuck off of rugs without endless bent-over hand scrubbing.

05.03.2026 17:36 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

strongly suggest!

05.03.2026 16:20 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

okay - I was wondering in what way the lids were a feature vs open buckets.

03.03.2026 18:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Why drainage holes - is something in the lid open enough to let in the mosquitoes so rain also gets in?

03.03.2026 18:00 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Check any plants for being poisonous (like daffodils and other lilies) and stash any chocolate and grapes/raisins.

03.03.2026 16:04 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The trick with alpine strawberries is their seeds need to have a cold moist period (stratification) to mimic winter in order to germinate. You could put them in your fridge for 30 days, but definitely trickier than getting seedlings.

03.03.2026 14:28 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The handles on the ramp to pick it up are brilliant!

28.02.2026 00:49 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Does it just have no possibility of a stable key signature? Those constant accidentals are really annoying to read.

27.02.2026 21:28 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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look at this absolute unit. A simple enough command, with a satisfying pay-off: an Exmoor Horn aged ram, a truly thicc boi.

I came across it while visiting Reading in 2019 on a pilgrimage to @themerl.bsky.social after they went viral with their "absolute unit" tweet.medium.com/@adamkoszary...

27.02.2026 14:22 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Never mind the Norman bollocks: Reading’s replica Bayeux tapestry is a prudish triumph! It may not be completely anatomically accurate, but the Victorian copy of the Bayeux tapestry is as much an emblem of its time as the 11th-century original

Have you ever seen the hand-reproduced copy in the Reading Museum? The Victorian ladies carefully excised any naughty bits:

www.theguardian.com/artanddesign...

27.02.2026 11:54 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A very tall skinny yew type tree with multicolored lights next to a porch railing covered in a strand of white lights. The tree is leaningto the right slightly over the railing. Closer to the top of the railing is some clothesline rope which is secured around the tree to hold it up.

A very tall skinny yew type tree with multicolored lights next to a porch railing covered in a strand of white lights. The tree is leaningto the right slightly over the railing. Closer to the top of the railing is some clothesline rope which is secured around the tree to hold it up.

Got to remember to trim the height on this yew in the spring. It was bent over almost to the ground under the weight of snow and ice. Knocked off what I could and tied it more upright with some rope.

23.02.2026 22:49 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Apparently the CVS overlords forced their minions to work today - I just got a text that my Rx is now ready to pick up...

23.02.2026 21:48 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A gray couch with two blue pillows, two gray pillows, and a round fuzzy β€œpillow” that is a sleeping cat.

A gray couch with two blue pillows, two gray pillows, and a round fuzzy β€œpillow” that is a sleeping cat.

One of these things is not like the others.

22.02.2026 17:52 πŸ‘ 5 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A gray tabby is balanced precariously on a wood eagle statue. Red straps around the eagle’s neck holds a white bag containing cat wand toys.

A gray tabby is balanced precariously on a wood eagle statue. Red straps around the eagle’s neck holds a white bag containing cat wand toys.

Riley frequently balances on top of this chainsaw carved eagle when I object to him trying to grab cables on the table next to it.

22.02.2026 01:10 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I will think fondly of your garden during tomorrow’s forecast blizzard! At least it’s good for my winter sowing seed jugs :-)

21.02.2026 23:32 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I just shared it on the SOH Discord :-)

20.02.2026 15:55 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
A calico cat loaf sitting on a blue mat with the sun hitting her face.

A calico cat loaf sitting on a blue mat with the sun hitting her face.

In good news, Miss Zoe's calcium levels are now normal after 4 wks of Fosamax so we will continue. Fortunately she is the most compliant of the 4 cats and the fast-administer-flush-wait 30 min to feed only happens once a week. She also seems to be gaining weight, which was the precipitating symptom.

19.02.2026 15:17 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes - the new agency I just got says Medicare will pay what BCBS doesn’t. The prob w 1st agency is they *only* bill Medicare, not any other insurance, so Medicare refused for no BCBS submission.

19.02.2026 00:04 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
A desaturated/black & white photo of a small longhaired cat curled up asleep on a blanket on a couch.

A desaturated/black & white photo of a small longhaired cat curled up asleep on a blanket on a couch.

No reason - just time for a cat.

18.02.2026 21:03 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The hospice agency which was very interested in taking on my wife (and has been doing a good job since Sept) has now figured out they can’t bill Medicare bc her primary Pt A is my BCBS. They admit their mistake so won’t bill me - but I will have a deductible & copay w BCBS + prob another eval :-(

16.02.2026 23:24 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0
A lengthy pile of discolored older snowbank. There are multiple shovel-sized slits penetrating to create more exposed surfaces.

A lengthy pile of discolored older snowbank. There are multiple shovel-sized slits penetrating to create more exposed surfaces.

Taking advantage of physics with warmer weather the next few days: repeatedly stuck a shovel into all the snowbanks to increase the surface area exposed to warmer air to speed up melting.

16.02.2026 18:10 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I just stopped and blocked his comms texting me about him coming to NH.

13.02.2026 21:00 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Duh! I just rechecked and it wasn't by her! Amazon faked me out with a "similar" link.

13.02.2026 14:35 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0