Madame Simone

Some clients think hiring a Domme comes with:

-Free therapy
-Life coaching
-Porn addiction counselling
-Emotional hand-holding

I run sessions & I enforce rules. I guide, challenge & push limits inside the scene

#BDSM #boundaries #scope #PazBizarre

"What is the best form of aftercare, when a scene is finished?" asks someone.
My answer: The best form of aftercare is what works best for that bottom/sub. There's no one-size-fits-all answer. For example: some people love to be held; others don't want to be touched at all.
#kink #bdsm #aftercare

I just have to trust that people are being honest with me, as I will certainly NOT ask anyone to prove to me that they are non-binary, agender or even an inter-cis person. /6

In the absence of another, easily understandable and concise term, I too use FLINTA* in my fee structure. (This means that FLINTA individuals pay a lower fee than endo cis men.) /5

However, cis men are precisely the people who are not welcome at FLINTA events or in FLINTA spaces.
So the concept has its weaknesses, and I believe that, in general, it is better to list specifically who is welcome where and when, even if this is not as convenient and practical as an acronym./4

Unfortunately, it is often only used to refer to women and 'women-like' people or with a bit of luck afab people (like trans men for example), too.

Men or people who are perceived as men are often excluded. Inter-cis men often present as cis men. Of course, because they are. 🤷🏻 /3

ALL non-binary people

trans people (ALL genders, including inter-trans and non-binary persons)

ALL agender people /2

Difficult. I need to elaborate a little.
If it is actually used as originally intended, then I think it's not that bad of an idea.

However, that would include

women (endo-cis, endo-trans, inter-cis, inter-trans)

lesbians (same as above)

inter people (ALL genders, cis and trans)

/1

I don't like 'women's day' That's just not inclusive enough for me.

I prefer to use "Feministischer Kampftag" Which directly translates as ‘Feminist Day of Combat’

'Feminist Day of Action' might be the less aggressive translation, though 😁

We could also offer baking courses where bottoms learn how to spoil their tops with baked goods!

Oh, the possibilities! 🤣

First we play, then we snack!

Food

Today, I brought a bee sting cake and a tray of cinnamon rolls to a birthday party. I was particularly pleased that the only other vegan person was delighted to be able to eat cake too. 🥰

And the non-vegans revised their opinion of vegan cakes and pastries. 😇

Yes! I actually really like the idea! 😁

Yes, I know! We need our mental bakedowns!

Thanks @fingoddesseora.bsky.social for the great idea! 🥰

Wonderful idea!

A BDSM studio with an attached bakery in Germany named
"Zuckerbrot und Peitsche"

Unfortunately, the idiom cannot be translated appropriately into English.
Literally, 'Zuckerbrot' means ‘sugar bread’ and 'Peitsche' means ‘whip’.

The equivalent in English would be carrot and stick.

Quick reminder:
It's not just women who are affected by patriarchal structures and oppression.
And there's nothing ‘happy’ about it. This isn't a holiday; it's tragic that this day even has to exist!

Stick your flowers where the sun never shines if you seriously think they are somehow enough.

a man wearing a chef 's hat is standing over a pile of dough . Alt: The Swedish Chef from the Muppet Show is escalating in the kitchen, throwing flour everywhere.

Food

*clears throat*

Hello. I'm Simone and I think I have a problem!

*looks at the finished vegan bee sting cake, the dough for the sweet sourdough plait and the dough for the yeast cinnamon rolls*

I think someone needs to take my oven away. 😬

„Und wunder dich nicht, ich habe nochmal Knoblauch gekauft, wei…“ — „Es ist keine Begründung für Knoblauch erforderlich!“

Any tech / digital savvy / german speaking sw awake to tell if switching to eurosky would be beneficial to sw one here?

Apparently based in Germany.
Which while more liberal with sexuality, has it's own problematic laws for sw & speech/expression.

After W fiasco, I have trust issues w/ Euro alts

If you are kinky and still don't know Stylefetish, you might live under a rock. 😉 Here you go: @stylefetish.bsky.social makes high quality, state of the art BDSM equipment and I am so fucking excited that I've been invited to work in such a high end environment!

Great news! During my next stay in May, you can meet me in a new studio in Hamburg St. Georg!
The former Studio Inkognito will be completely renovated and furnished almost entirely with brand new Stylefetish furniture under the name Studio S. "Secret" by mid-April.

I am so excited! 🥰

Food

Dough for the sandwich bread that's being baked tonight ready? ✅

Dough for the spelt ciabatta rolls that are being baked tomorrow ready? ✅

A portion of vegan quark balls ready to nibble on? ✅

Then Madame can get ready for her date. The money for the ingredients has to come from somewhere 😇

Hast Du ein go fund me oder eine andere Möglichkeit kleine Spenden für die Tierarztkosten entgegen zu nehmen? Jeder Mensch der mit Tieren zusammen lebt, weiß ja, wie unfassbar teuer das werden kann.

Eine Hand hält eine rote Blume zwischen Daumen und Zeigefinger. Daneben steht in blauer Schrift "Alle Daumen sind gedrückt!"

After years of working independently, I’m on the search for a queer friendly adult film agency that works with dommes.

#kink
#bdsm

Respect! The customer at the little orgy wanted to try ‘a tiny sip’ of pee. The colleague who did it actually needed to go to the toilet urgently. I wouldn't have had the self-control to only give three drops. 🤣

#sw101
#madame

a woman with blonde hair is sitting at a table with a bottle of hot sauce and a glass of water . Alt: A blonde woman fans herself because she is hot. A pitcher with water and some hot sauce is standig in front of her.

Today, I get to take part in one of my absolute favourite session constellations again. As a camerawoman, I get to film for several hours while three of my hottest colleagues give a guest some intensive treatment. I see every single detail, and many a man would pay a lot of money for that. 🔥🔥🔥

I have absolutely NO sympathy for people who couldn't care less about marginalised groups. But unfortunately, that's the way it is. What I also don't understand is why people aren't at least interested in what lies ahead for their own, currently still privileged group, even though it's obvious.

Sex Workers Versus the Algorithm No seriously, fuck the algorithm.

"[S]ex workers know that the real battle is their fight for autonomy, respect, and safe working conditions."
(A longer piece on debanking specifically: mashable.com/article/adul... )
#sexwork #sexworkiswork #porn #censorship #financialdiscrimination #debanking
[ h/t @deerberrynz.bsky.social ]