It was going on one, two in the morning, and we were shooting what I felt was an important scene for me, when he makes an attempt to be quote-unquote straight, in a suit, and at the end of it he gets emotional and locks himself in the other room. And I felt like, I’m not getting what I want—I’m not happy with it. Mike was happy with it. He called me the next day and said, “I know you weren’t happy with the scene last night. Believe me, we wouldn’t have gone home if I had felt we weren’t getting it.” And then he sort of became my psychiatrist and said, “You find it difficult to be happy, don’t you? You find it difficult to enjoy things.” And I said, “Well, sometimes. Last night was about feeling too tired and not feeling I was reaching what I needed to reach for the scene.” He talked to me then about when he was making, I don’t know whether it was Virginia Woolf or The Graduate. He said, “I didn’t enjoy it for a second. I was worried about so many things.” And then he said, “You know, this is never going to happen again quite this way. You should try to allow yourself to enjoy this more. Take a minute a day, and then add a minute the next day, and another minute. Pretty soon, you’ll have hours of happiness.”
The Birdcage opened thirty years ago today, so in its honor, I want to share one of my favorite stories about Mike Nichols that didn't make it into my biography. This is from an interview I did with Nathan Lane.
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The Fargo-Moorhead RedHawks will play five games as the Woodchippers, a tribute to the 30th anniversary of Carl Showalter’s grizzly death. Read about it on @sportslogos.net at news.sportslogos.net/2026/03/08/f...
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Part of Trump’s mass appeal (and of why he’s so dangerous) is that he really seems to share Joe Barstool’s worldview that there are no complex problems: Everything has a simple brute solution, which previous leaders were somehow too stupid or weak to deploy.
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Fin: The long, long Oscar season
Plus: That really was Jim Carrey, Quentin Tarantino is not dead, a not-so-fond farewell to Kristi Noem, and more in this week's notes column.
This week’s notes column on the long Oscar season, the need for many tributes, Jim Carrey not being a clone, Quentin Tarantino not being dead, Kristi Noem’s sorry cabinet and tenure and much more stephensilver.substack.com/p/fin-the-lo...
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Do you know why Terrence Mann stopped writing books? BECAUSE HE MASTURBATES
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Secretary Noem's new job will be on a hill. Overlooking a little river. With pine cones all around.
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It's a stealth remake of DELIVER ME FROM NOWHERE. Jabba's abusive parenting leads to years of repressed trauma for Rotta, who is uncomfortable with fame, channeling that depression into a series of moody lo-fi acoustic songs about serial killers in Mos Eisley and desperate strivers on Tatooine.
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This is what weak and insecure people think confidence looks like: buffoonish bluster and swagger, like a 12-year-old bully. It doesn‘t inspire trust or security. It inspires grave concern for the lives of the people serving our nation whose fate is in the hands of these overcompensating oafs.
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The March 2026 documentary review 10-pack: 'An American Pastoral,' 'The Librarians,' 'Murder in Glitterball City,' ' The Investigation of Lucy Letby,' 'Queen of Chess', and more
Reviewing ten recent documentary features
Here’s my monthly documentary review 10-pack, including reviews of AN AMERICAN PASTORAL, THE LIBRARIANS, MURDER IN GLITTERBALL CITY, WE’VE LOST DALE EARNHARDT, QUEEN OF CHESS, and more. stephensilver.substack.com/p/the-march-...
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